The document outlines 12 things that women want their mothers-in-law to know in order to have an easier relationship. These include trusting the daughter-in-law as she learns, treating her as a person first before criticizing, being a good mother-in-law through treating her the way she wants to be treated, accepting that she and the son will have to share time and not always prioritize the mother-in-law, and giving the daughter-in-law credit for her own abilities and goals rather than assuming she is trying to cause problems. The overall message is that communication, understanding different perspectives, and mutual respect can help a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along.

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12 Things Every Women wants to tell her Mother – in - Law

2. Think mother-in-law and you instantly get an image of a
disapproving woman, sitting on the sofa, ordering another woman -
most probably her daughter-in-law - around. Blame Indian
television for this, but we instantly associate a non-likable woman to
a mother-in-law. And the same goes for the daughter-in-law too.
She is this scheming woman who studied ‘break up families' in
school and majored in ‘make the husband choose you over his
family'. Well, we're thankful almost none of it is true. We do have
unlikable mothers-in-law but then we have nice ones too. We do
have our fights but at the end of the day we both put up with each
other because we are connected by the man we love. So dear
mother-in-law, while we don't necessarily hate you, or plot your
murder in the night, here are 12 things we want you to know so that
life can be easy for all of us.
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3. 1.Trust us:
Don't shy away from telling me how things are
done, just be open to the fact that I also know how
to work it out. I might not be the expert hat you
are, but I am learning. So trust me when I goof up,
because I am still getting there

4. I know you want me to be the ideal, but try
connecting with me as a person first. That'll definitely
make things easier
2. Treat me as a person first:

5. 3. Be a good mom-in-law:
Not the perfect one, but a good one.
Treat me the way you want me to treat
you.
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6. 4. I am okay with sharing my man:
As long as it's reasonable, I don't mind sharing
him. Just don't expect him to always make a
choice between me and you; give the poor guy a
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7. No, I really don't. I might not love you as much as I love
my own mom, but I respect you equally. So don't assume
that I am out to start a war.
5. I don't hate you:

8. 6. Don't listen to everything that your relatives say:
Relatives can be the
biggest reason for most of
our arguments. Don't listen
to everything they say and
give me the benefit of the
doubt.
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9. You expect me to treat you like family but you always seem to
prefer your son to me. Treat me not like your own daughter, but
like your son's wife who also deserves all the love and respect that
you expect her to give you.
7. Treat me like family too:
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10. You and I are two different people and often we are thrown
together and expected to just forget about them. So let's not ego battle
over who is a better person and just agree to disagree.
8. We will have our differences:
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11. You might find it weird, or even wrong, the way I handle my kids but trust
me, I know what I am doing. The same way your maternal instincts kicked in
when you had your son, I know how to parent my kids too. I love the occasional
advice, but don't expect me to follow everything you did.
9. I have my own way of handling my kids:
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12. Same as your son, I have faults too. And I would
appreciate it if you came up to me and told me about them
rather than broadcast it to your relatives and never let me know.
Trust me, I do want to change what I can, and your pointing it
out honestly and directly will make all the difference.
10. I know I have some faults:
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13. Don't downplay my goals just because you expect us to fit in a typical
daughter-in-law mould. I could be working and still manage everything
pretty well. Just giveme a chance.
11. I have goals too:
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14. Not everything he does is because I have
brainwashedhim. Give himsome credit and
know that he makes up his own mind.
12. Your son has a mind of his own:
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