1. The Goldilocks Effect
Keeping people
at the
‘Just Right’
distance
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2. Technology
allows us to
constantly
connect
with many people
at the same time
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3. Technology keeps
us connected,
but traps us
in individual
bubbles
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4. “The more connected we become the
more likely we are to be
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alone”
-Michelle Atagana

5. We hide our true self
only showing the ‘ideal’ on Facebook & Twitter
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6. But human
relationships are
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messy
sporadic
and

7. Real conversation accounts for tone,
allows for understanding at a deeper
level, and seeing from a different point
of view
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8. With no emotional
interaction,
technology even changes
who we are...
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9. We expect communication to be
quick, simple, and synced
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10. We are becoming unable to truly connect,
build trust, and in turn self reflect
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Grizdave

11. People are in their own
worlds
and are actively
avoiding real
conversation
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12. When people are unable to connect,
they turn less and less to people
and more to technology
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13. In January 2013,
Facebook had 1.06+ billion
monthly users
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618+ million were
daily active users
Source: Facebook passes
1.06 billion monthly active
users, 680 million mobile
users, and 618 million
daily users

14. Constant
tweets and
Facebook
updates reflect
our need to
be heard
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15. Technology relationships
mislead us to believe
we have real relationships
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“I share
therefore I am”

16. “We seem increasingly drawn to technologies
that provide the illusion of companionship
without the demands of relationship” –Sherry Tuckle
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17. Technology
becomes our
method of
choice even
for important
conversations.
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18. "A full-scale apology means I know I've hurt you, I get to see that in
your eyes, You get to see that I'm uncomfortable, and with that, the
compassion response kicks in.”
-Sherry Turkle
texting
“I’m sorry”
and hitting send
bypasses the
human
interaction
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19. As time goes on,
we communicate less with people
and more with technology.
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20. We mass communicate
and miss out on the
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emotions
in front
of us...

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Even telephone use is dying.
- Pew Institute
188 Billion text messages were sent
monthly in the U.S. in 2010
Souce: We never talk any more:
The problem with text messaging
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22. Though connected,
we are alone....
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23. Image by Lucy Takakura
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Research References:
1. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/22/opinion/sunday/the-
flight-from-conversation.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0
2. http://memeburn.com/2012/04/the-goldilocks-effect-
connected-but-alone-ted-video/
3. http://www.bitrebels.com/social/how-social-media-is-
making-us-awkward-infographic/
4. http://www.sysomos.com/insidetwitter/sixdegrees/
5. http://larryborsato.com/blog/2012/04/the-goldilocks-
effect/
6. http://thenextweb.com/facebook/2013/01/30/facebook-
passes-1-06-billion-monthly-active-users-680-million-
mobile-users-and-618-million-daily-users/
7. http://www.cnn.com/2012/08/31/tech/mobile/problem-
text-messaging-oms