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Ever wish you could win every single negotiation you entered? Whether it was for a job
interview, appointment with a new client or winning over a big business contract, you can…if
you are ridiculously prepared.
The strategy I’m talking about has won me a lot of business. And you don’t have to be a natural-
born negotiator to use it. In fact, I’ve known some very timid and soft-spoken people who’ve
landed great deals using this strategy…which means anybody can use it.
Let me show you how it works and why.
How to win a negotiation
It doesn’t matter what kind of business you are in or what you are selling, the overall steps in
winning a negotiation is the same. Here are the 4 steps I take to closing big deals:
Step #1: Identify business problems
Negotiations are all about preparation and the side with the most preparation wins. That’s
because the side with the most information gets to frame the discussion. They get to control the
direction of the proposal and position the other side to accept their terms.
So let’s imagine you are an Internet marketer and you are trying to convince a division of Intuit
to hire you for a huge contract. You’re jumping through hoops during the meeting and then they
ask what you charge. That’s when you hand them a proposal that identifies the critical problems
with their site. Let’s say there are three:
● You’ve outlined their ecommerce transaction path and spotted critical areas where users
are abandoning the checkout process.
● You’ve spotted a lack of fundamental elements of trust on their landing page that could
be costing them subscriptions.
● You’ve documented strategic flaws in their email newsletter that deals with how they are
making their emotional appeal.
And next to each of these problems you’ve also included the amount of leads or sales they are
probably losing. You then ask them for specifics about traffic that travels down these paths.
Whatever they quote you—exact percentages, a range or just shrug their shoulders—you share
with them the benchmarks from a case study you pulled. This case study indicates to them the
amount of money and business they are losing if they continue to leave these processes alone.
At this point in the discussion you’ve got them sitting up in their chairs. They are listening to
you. That’s when you move to the next phase.
Key takeaway: Make sure you are identifying realistic problems that can be fixed. Don’t bring
up problems that may drastically change a business and cause you to get a lot of push back.
And on the flip side, make sure you are identifying big enough problems that will have a decent
revenue impact. If you identify small problems that will only make a company an extra $10,000
there won’t be much money in it for you.
Step #2: Create solutions
Once you’ve identified their crucial problems, you now present them with the solutions. In our
current scenario you roll out how you plan on fixing these problems.
● You suggest that the transaction path is too long and recommend testing a shorter one
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● You slide a screenshot of their landing page that is professionally marked up with the
trust elements that are missing on their page…and then another screenshot of your
modified version.
● You present three or four emails in their sequence with your recommended changes to
improve their emotional appeal.
At this point the person is leaning out of his chair, hovering over what you’ve just presented. But
your job still isn’t done.
Key takeaway: Similar to the problems you identified, your solutions must be realistic.
Not only does the company have to like your solutions, but they need to be somewhat easy to
implement. And ideally these need to be solutions that don’t require too many, if any, resources
from the company you are pitching.
Step #3: Suggested Timeline
Next, you need to indicate how long you think it will take to fix these problems.
● “We could knock out the landing page in a day or two.”
● “The transaction path will take a little longer as we test and tweak, but we could grow
ROI I believe by 10 to 15% percent in 30 days.”
● “The email sequence will probably take the longest due to all of the content creation that
is needed. We’ll do that last and it can take anywhere from 2 to 3 months to complete.”
Then you roll out your recommended priority list. “It’s obvious the transaction path should be
fixed first since it is directly tied to sales and revenue. Then we will focus on the landing page
since its low hanging fruit. And finally we will work on the email series.”
Key takeaway: The timeline you give has to be realistic, yet aggressive. If it takes you longer
to implement the solution than the company, they won’t hire you. And when giving them
a timeline, you have to include the revenue impact it will have, as businesses tend to make
decisions based off of revenue and not emotions.
Step #4: Go for the throat
At this point you have them exactly where you want them. But you can still mess up the
negotiation and lose the deal if you don’t handle the next part correctly.
What you need to do now is ask for the sale. But what’s important is how you ask. You must
frame the question as a “Yes” or a “Yes” question.
For example, you might say, “So, do you want to wait until the end of the month to get
started…or should we get started on this immediately? Your choice.”
“Do you think we should start on the transaction path first? Or should it be the landing page?
What do you think?”
You’ve just framed the discussion so that it’s really easy for them to say “Yes” no matter how you
ask for the business.
Key takeaway: Strong negotiators are aggressive. If you showed a company why it financially
makes sense for them to work with you, why wouldn’t they hire you? So don’t ask if they want to
hire you, instead force them to hire you.
Why studying pays off

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When it comes to negotiating, the busier the person is and the more preparation you’ve done,
the easier it is going to be for you to win the deal.
See, the person you are meeting with probably knows that these problems exist. They just have
never been able to get around to really figuring out what was wrong. His boss has probably been
complaining about sagging ecommerce sales. He’s just too damn busy to do anything about
it…let alone analyze the issue to the level you have.
Busy people suffer from the “blank page syndrome.” They simply don’t have the mental capital
to invest in figuring out how to solve these new problems as they are already overloaded. You,
however, are their solution.
And don’t feel bad if they make suggestions. Busy people love to make suggestions. They love to
change and improve upon an idea, because that’s what busy people do…they play with existing
proposals because coming up with a solution from scratch is simply too time consuming.
You are their savior.
Key takeaway: The reason I am able to close million dollar deals isn’t because I am a better
sales person or negotiator than you. Instead it’s because I do my homework. I come into a
company and tell them exactly what I am going to do and I lay out the whole process. Yes, they
can steal it and not hire me, and it’s actually happened, but in most cases companies are too lazy
to do that. You can’t be worried about that and you just need to make sure you laid everything
out so they won’t have any major objections.
Why acting like a punk pays off
Listen, you don’t have to wait for a big client to call you to use this strategy. You can approach
the big client yourself.
Find a client or company that you really want to work with, study what they do, identify their
problems, create solutions and map out timelines. Then give them a call and work your way to
the right person by climbing through the food chain. You’ll be shocked on how many times I’ve
been able to cold call a company and ask to speak with the “director of marketing” and have
been transferred to him or her.
Once you get to the right person, tell them that you have something you’d like to discuss with
them.
This is exactly how I got to work with big names like Amazon and Viacom. I didn’t wait for them
to call me. I figured out how to connect with the decision makers…and acted like a punk.
That might sound disrespectful, but the higher up the person is in the organization, the more
they appreciate someone who talks straight with them and doesn’t fluff things up. Plus a little
cockiness goes a long way.
The last thing they want to do is hire somebody whose hand they have to hold. They want
someone who can walk in, tell them what needs to happen…and then get it done.
That is how you win every negotiation. And make a lot of money.
Key takeaway: People want to hire people who are smarter than them. People who aren’t as
smart tend to be a bit more insecure, so if you want to show that you know what you are talking
about, act a bit cocky. Just make sure you don’t get carried away.
What to do if they say “no”

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Just like everything else in life, however, this strategy isn’t fool proof. Some people will still say
“no.”
Maybe it’s because they don’t have the budget. They would love to give you the money to do the
work, but it’s just not there. No matter what reason they are giving, you need to figure out why.
And when you figure out why, circle back around and ask for the sale again in light of this new
information. Just because they say “no” once, it doesn’t mean they won’t say “yes” later on.
If you figure out why they said no, you can figure out how to tailor your pitch around it. For
example if it was related with budget, you can charge a lower up front fee and ask for the rest of
the money towards the end of the project or when you hit specific milestones. Or if you want to
make things simple, you can just reduce the scope of your work and fit it within their budget.
If they beat around the bush, then just be blunt: “Do you want me to help you make more
money? If so, what is it going to take to start an engagement?” The key is not to take “no” for an
answer.
Key takeaway: No just means “not right now”. There is always a way to make a deal work out.
Sometimes you have to be flexible with your pricing, or offer a performance based deal with your
costs covered upfront. Just don’t give up when people say now.
Common mistakes people make when using this
strategy
Experienced negotiators know how to deal with other experienced negotiators. They also know
how to pull one over on inexperienced negotiators. If that’s you, then here are a few common
mistakes you need to avoid when negotiating.
● Talking to the wrong person – I don’t care how prepared you are…if you are not
talking to the decision maker, then you will notwin. Ask for the decision maker as soon as
you possibly can and make sure they are involved at every level of the negotiation. And by
the way, whether there are two people or ten in the room know who the decision maker
is…and talk to them.
● Giving in – Negotiate enough and you will run into a really good negotiator who picks
up on what you are doing. They may say, “I know what you are doing. You want me to
say ‘yes.’ I will only say yes if you do X.” The question you have to ask yourself is this: “Is
X reasonable?” If it’s not, then don’t give in. Ask for more time.
● Being rushed – Whether they do it on purpose or not, giving you only “X minutes”
to speak will not do the trick. It’s very difficult to negotiate under pressure…and
experienced negotiators know this, so they may try to create that pressure by limiting
your meeting time. Don’t fall for it. Dig in your heels and say, “When can you give me Y
minutes?” Y being however much time you can safely share your presentation.
Key takeaway: You always need to have the upper hand. Once you lose the upper hand, you’ve
lost the negotiation. To make sure you have the upper hand, don’t be afraid to push back a little.
If you keep on saying “yes” to all of their demands, sooner or later they’ll figure squeeze you and
the deal just won’t be worth it for you.
How to handle common objections to your proposal

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You are probably mature enough to realize that negotiations do not occur in a vacuum. They
are never as seamless as I make them appear on paper. Things will go wrong during the
presentation…like objections will be raised. Here’s how to be prepared:
● “Why should I trust you?” If you’ve done your homework, then this will be easy.
You will have the proof of what you are saying in the statistics and case studies that
you’ve dug up. If you have testimonials, you’ll show those too. If you have endorsements
frommajor media, you’ll share those, too.
● “I’m not sure you are the right person.” Ask them these four questions: “Why not?
Do you have an ideal candidate in mind? Are you speaking to other candidates? Who?”
If based on the information they give you discover you actually do fall short of their
expectations, then say, “If I do X, can we work together?” If they still say “no,” then there
is something deeper. Get to the bottom of it.
● “I’m not sure this is as important as you say it is.” Now granted, if you don’t have
access to their raw analytics, you cannot say for sure whether these are problems like
you’ve identified. However, what you can do is suggest that you’ll work with them on
gathering this information. And if you find a problem during this phase, you can propose
working with them again.
Key takeaway: Closing deals always take times. They rarely are easy and you’ll typically run
into roadblocks. Be prepared to fight and put pressure on the potential customer. If you show
that you are busy and have tons of companies hitting you up, it will make them want to work
with you and you’ll run into less objections. So make sure you show that you are successful by
starting off the first meeting by introducing yourself and breaking down what you have done for
other companies.
Conclusion
Let me end by saying this: I love to negotiate. I love to sit across from someone and try to
influence them to think the same way that I do. You, however, may hate it and think that it’s
manipulative. Unless you are lying, it’s not manipulative. It’s called influence…and learning how
to use it can change your life.
That’s one of the reasons I fell in love with negotiating. I learned that by influencing people I
could get things done, accomplish my goals, and help other people along the way.
It wasn’t always easy. I’ve lost plenty of negotiations. For instance, when my partner and I were
trying to get funding for Crazy Egg we presented to dozens of VCs. Not one single one of them
gave us money. But that didn’t discourage me. When they said “no” to me, I just interpreted it as
“not right now”. I kept trying and I eventually got better at convincing people to give me money.
So what other negotiation strategies have worked really well for you?