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September 2013 
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calendar 
o f e v e n t s 
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9/6: The Wilmington Table 
Tennis Club presents the 
second Port City Ping Pong 
Throwdown at the Brooklyn 
Arts Center, 516 N. Fourth 
Street. The event features 
open tables, cool tunes and 
cash prizes for top finishers 
and is open to all. 6:30 p.m. 
$5-$10. 538-2939 or www. 
brooklynartsnc.com. 
9/6: A Ticket to Taste at St. 
James Parish, 25 S.Third St., 
features a three-course meal 
inspired by the flavors of 
Myanmar (Burma), Iraq and 
Columbia, prepared by Brian 
Mayberry of Dixie Grill. The 
Wilmington Symphony Youth 
Orchestra and the Karen Choir 
provide musical entertainment. 
$25. 6:30 p.m. 264-7244 or 
www.stjamesp.org. 
9/6: The Forest Hills Hobby 
Greenhouse Fall Plant Sale, 
2318 Metts Ave., features plants 
grown by members. A portion 
of profits go to scholarships 
for local community college 
horticulture students. 9 a.m.-6 
p.m. Free. 319-7588 or www. 
hobbygreenhouseclub.org. 
9/8: The Penguin and Ziggy’s 
present Atlanta-based 
Southern rockers Blackberry 
Smoke in concert at 
Greenfield Lake Amphitheater, 
1941 Amphitheater Dr. 
4:30 p.m. $20. 332-0983 
or purchase online www. 
greenfieldlakeampitheather.com. 
9/13: Audubon North Carolina 
naturalists present a free 
guided birding tour beginning 
at public beach access 43 
in Wrightsville Beach. The 
program features up-close-and-personal 
looks at nesting birds 
and chicks. 9-11 a.m. 686-7527 
or www.ncaudobon.org. 
9/15: Shana Tucker Chamber 
Soul is a steamy blend of 
acoustic pop and soulful, jazz-influenced 
contemporary folk 
on cello. Main stage of Thalian 
Hall, 310 Chestnut St., at 7 p.m. 
$14-$28. 632-2285 or www. 
thalianhall.org . 
9/16: Progressive Music Group 
and HUKA Entertainment 
present Hasidic reggae 
superstar Matisyahu in 
concert at the Brooklyn Arts 
Center, 516 N. Fourth St. 7 p.m. 
$25-$35. 538-2939 or www. 
brooklynartsnc.com. 
9/17: A Taste of the Town, 
presented by Wilmington’s 
finest restaurants and Thalian 
Hall, is an evening of culinary 
indulgence. The event begins 
at Thalian Hall, 310 Chestnut 
St., with a map of participating 
restaurants. Patrons will travel 
through downtown on foot or 
by free trolleys to enjoy small 
appetizer portions of each 
restaurant’s best dishes. $40. 
6 p.m. 632-2285 or 
www.thalian.org. 
9/19: During the 1960s, 
vocal superstar Mary Wilson 
helped The Supremes earn 
an unmatched string of No. 1 
hits. Joined on stage by UNCW 
musicians, she will perform 
at Kenan Auditorium, 601 S. 
College Rd., 7 p.m. $5-$30. 
962-3500 or www.uncw.edu/ 
arts/kenancalendar. 
9/19: Local historian and 
author Beverly Tetterton 
presents Wilmington 
Uncovered, a collection of 
more than 100 new images of 
the city that have never been 
seen before. Bellamy Mansion 
Museum, 503 Market St., 
6:30 p.m. 251-3700 or www. 
bellamymansion.org. 
9/21: The Wilmington 
Symphony Orchestra, 
conducted by Steven Errante, 
will play Berlioz’ “Le Corsaire 
Overture;” soprano Nancy 
King highlights Richard 
Strauss’s autumnal “Four Last 
Songs;” and Tchaikovsky’s 
“Sleeping Beauty” at Kenan 
Auditorium, 601 S. College 
Rd. 8 p.m. $6-$27. 962-3500 
or www.uncw.edu/arts/ 
kenancalendar. 
9/23: The Golf United 
Tournament at Cape Fear 
National Golf Course raises 
money for United Way. 
Sponsorships are available. 
Entry fee includes 18 holes of 
golf, use of a cart and driving 
range, a boxed lunch and a 
post-tournament dinner and 
entertainment. Dinner tickets 
are available to the public 
for $20. 11 a.m. 667-2478 or 
liveunited@uwcfa.org. 
9/28: The semi-annual 
Wilmington Wine & Beer Walk 
is a self-guided tasting tour 
of restaurants and drinking 
establishments in downtown 
Wilmington. 1-6 pm. $15- 
$25. (216) 374-8884 or info@ 
coolwilmington.com. 
9/28: The Creek to Campus 5K 
and Fun Run begins at Tidal 
Creek Cooperative Food Market, 
5329 Oleander Dr., courses to 
the UNCW campus and back. 
Food and music at the finish line 
located at Tidal Creek’s covered 
outdoor seating area. 8 a.m. 
$15-$30. 859-9501 or www. 
tidalcreek.coop. 
9/30: Political strategist Donna 
Brazile will speak on “Women 
in Politics: Are We There Yet?” 
at UNCW’s Burney Center, 601 
S. College Rd. Brazile brings 
her perspective to politics, race 
relations, women in politics and 
diversity. 7 p.m. $10. 962-3285 
or www.uncw.edu/presents/.
September 2013 
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Our September issue is about 
local food, and the poster child for local food is 
the tomato. 
Consider the lowly tomato, a native of 
Mexico brought to Europe by Cortez. Its culinary 
fame quickly spread throughout the world, 
notably to Italy, and spaghetti has never been the 
same. 
New varieties were crossbred and developed, 
but sweetness and acidity were the hallmarks of 
tomatoes until mid-20th century, when varieties 
began to be bred for uniform ripening and size. 
(Before this, tomatoes tended to have green 
shoulders, no matter how ripe.) There was even 
a square tomato for a while, bred to be machine-harvested 
and boxed. 
Flavor was secondary to these considerations. 
If you can find them, it’s worth seeking out 
heirloom varieties that were bred for taste. It’s 
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hard to beat a sliced Brandywine or German 
Johnson tomato for dinner. 
Supermarket varieties are bred for durability 
and are usually picked green and transported in 
trucks pumped with ethylene gas to continue 
the ripening process. They are refrigerated to 
preserve shelf life. It’s understandable, but the 
result is a pink mealy product that little resembles 
its vine-ripened cousin with a robust flavor and a 
short shelf life. 
The answer to mealy tomatoes is local food. 
When it’s tomato season – or strawberry season, 
or peach season – shop local. It helps your 
neighbors and your local economy, but you reap 
the most benefits. You’re the one with a tomato 
that doesn’t need more prep than a bit of salt to 
outshine anything else on the table. 
Our area offers more ways to get local food 
than you might think. See page 10 for some ideas. 
Read about two women’s campaign to form a 
local food network here on page 9. And for some 
local fish to go with your veggies, see page 13. 
And remember: Never refrigerate a tomato. 
* * * 
September is the best month in the Cape 
Fear. Numbers are down for tourists, bug 
populations and temperatures. The ocean’s still 
warm but the sun isn’t scorching and even the 
sunsets are a little brighter. 
For some suggestions to keep celebrating in 
this beautiful season, read “When you can’t let 
go” on page 27. And if wanderlust has set in with 
the cooler weather, consider a mountain trip to 
Snowbird. Read all about it on page 19. 
Shelagh Clancy 
Editor 
From the editor 
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oN THe CoVeR 
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Nancy Hall Publications 
PO Box 15944 
Wilmington, NC 28408 
910.338.1205 
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info@livinoutloudmag.com 
Livin’ it up 
7 Theater 
9 Local food: Feast Down East 
10 Local food: Where to get it 
13 Local fish 
Livin’ out loud 
16 Snowbird Mountain Lodge 
Livin’ my way 
21 Around town 
27 Making summer last 
Livin’ the dream 
25 Financial 
Publisher In Memoriam 
Nancy Hall-Godbey 
This publication is lovingly dedicated to 
Nancy Hall-Godbey, a woman who taught 
many how to live out loud. 
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Publisher 
Todd Godbey 
todd@nancyhall.net 
Editor In Chief 
Shelagh Clancy 
editor@livinoutloudmag.com 
ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES 
Valerie De Santi 910.470.8180 
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Cover Photograpy 
Belinda Keller Photography 
Graphic Designer 
Tanya Wright 
Writing Team 
Ron Copley, Al Hight, J.D. Jones, 
René Leister, Teresa McLamb, Tom 
Pechar, Janet Oliver, Terry Reilly, E.E. 
Rickey, Sharon Maggie Slaughter, 
Steve Spangler, Chris Wirszyla 
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September 2013 
3 Calendar 
18 Puzzles 
23 Books 
28 Wine of the month 
Photo by Belinda Keller Photography 
Feast Down Easters Leslie 
Hossfeld, left, and Jane Steigerwald 
met us at the Wilmington Farmers 
Market on a recent Saturday 
morning. Musicians played 
and people strolled through, 
choosing the week’s groceries and 
admiring pottery, woodworking 
and handmade soaps. When we 
finished taking photos, we couldn’t 
help but examine the nearby table 
of sweets. See story on page 9. 
Office manager 
René Leister
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The other day, one of my 
coworkers formally announced his 
retirement. He had been announcing 
his retirement on a regular basis for 
the past couple of years, providing a 
countdown of days, hours and minutes 
to anyone who would listen. Actually, 
it made no difference to him whether 
anyone was listening or not. 
This got me to thinking about my 
situation. I called my financial guru 
and part-time taxidermist, Earl Flynn. 
After some small talk about the 
difficulties of stuffing small animals, I 
got to the point. 
“Earl, can I think about retiring?” 
“Of course you can,” he 
responded enthusiastically. 
“You mean I can retire?” 
“No, you can’t,” he responded just 
as enthusiastically. 
“But you said I . . . “ 
And he cut me off with, “I said 
you can think about it, I didn’t say you 
could do it.” 
“But Earl, what about all those 
investments in my portfolio – like the 
stock in that South African gold mine?” 
“It was the subject of a hostile 
takeover,” he explained. 
“By another company?” 
“No, the workers became hostile 
and took over the mine. Don’t you 
read the South African papers?” he 
shot back. 
“And those government-backed 
securities?” 
“The government was overthrown,” 
he said. 
“Our government was 
overthrown?” I asked with no small 
amount of shock in my voice. 
“It wasn’t our government backing 
the securities. In fact I am not sure how 
to pronounce the name of the country, 
but it would have yielded a great return. 
Darn extremists.” 
“Earl! What about all those bonds?” 
“Several of those guys skipped out,” 
he explained. 
“How do municipalities skip out on 
their bonds? Was I invested in Detroit?” 
“Municipalities? What 
municipalities? I had you in bail bonds. 
In fact I think several of the fugitives 
did skip to Detroit. So I guess you are 
invested in Detroit!” he exclaimed 
with laughter. 
Before I could respond, Earl 
hurriedly said, “Someone’s knocking 
at the door. Can’t figure out how they 
found me!” 
“Who, the Securities and Exchange 
Commission?” I quickly asked. 
“No! It’s those doggone guys 
from the state taxidermy board. Never 
should have told them to get stuffed. 
Gotta go!” And the phone went dead. 
Before your portfolio consists 
solely of IOUs from Bernie Madoff 
and the Greek government, consider 
these financial warning signs: 
•Your retirement plan centers 
around winning the lottery; 
• Others clip coupons on their 
bonds, you clip coupons for 
Food Lion; 
• You’ve been turned down for a 
Sam’s Club Membership; 
• If you were playing Monopoly 
with your finances, you couldn’t afford 
the rent on Baltic Avenue; 
• You think an IRA is a reference 
to the Irish Republican Army; 
• You consult the Magic 8 Ball, a 
Ouija board and the psychic hotline 
for stock tips; 
• You were surprised to learn that 
a hedge fund has nothing to do with 
preserving shrubbery; 
• It upsets you that the 
Fortune 500 is not carried on the 
NASCAR Channel; 
• Buying one of those metal 
detectors with headphones to use on 
the beach starts to look like a good 
investment; and finally, 
• After trying for weeks to make 
contact with your financial advisor, he 
calls you collect from a country with 
which we have no extradition treaty. 
In the meantime, I sit at work 
asking myself who will get first dibs on 
my coworker’s cubicle. And would he 
like some stock in a South African gold 
mine as a retirement gift? 
E.E. Rickey 
If you would like to send a comment, 
suggestion or money, please contact E.E. at 
curmudgeonscolumn@gmail.com.
September 2013 
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Livin’ it up theater 
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A Thalian Association production at Thalian Hall 
8 p.m. Thursdays-Saturdays, 3 p.m. Sundays, Sept. 26- Oct. 6 632-2285 or www.thalian.org 
On stage this month 
By René Leister, LOL Team Writer 
Thalian Hall, 310 
Chestnut St: 
“Little Shop of Horrors,” 
a gleefully gruesome 
musical spoof of early 
sci-fi movies. 3 p.m. Sept. 
1 and 8; 8 p.m. Sept. 6-7. 
$25. 632-2285 or www. 
thalian.org. 
“How To Succeed In 
Business Without Really 
Trying.” Think “Mad Men” 
with lots of laughs, a 
tremendous score and 
show-stopping dance 
numbers. 8 p.m. Sept. 
26-28; 3 p.m. Sept. 29. 
$25. 632-2285 or www. 
thalian.org. 
Browncoat Theatre, 
111 Grace St. 
“Chatroom,” an original 
play by Wilmington’s 
Ron Hasson, directed by 
award-winning director 
Robb Mann. The play 
presents a variety of 
comic conventions: the 
love triangle, mistaken 
identity, the hypothetical 
friend with a problem. 
Central to the laughs are 
the characters’ confusion 
and frustration with social 
media. 8 p.m. Sept. 6, 7, 
13, 14; 5 p.m. Sept. 8 and 
15. $10-$15. 341-0001 
or www.browncoatthe-atre. 
com. 
“The Diary of Adam  
Eve,” an original play by 
Ron Hasson. 8 p.m. Sept. 
20, 21, 27, 28; 5 p.m. Sept. 
22 and 29. 
$10-$15. 341-0001 or 
www.browncoattheatre. 
com. 
Hannah Block 
Second Street 
Stage, 120 S. Second 
St. : Rodgers  Hammer-stein’s 
“Cinderella,” a 
Thalian Association Chil-dren's 
Theater (TACT) pre-sentation. 
The timeless 
magical fairy tale stars 
some of the area's finest 
young performers. 7 p.m. 
Sept. 13 and 14; 3 p.m. 
Sept. 15. $12. 251-1788 or 
www.thalianhall.com. 
Cape Fear Play-house, 
613 Castle 
St: Big Dawg Produc-tions 
presents “Tartuffe,” 
a comedic farce by Moli 
ère. 8 p.m. Sept. 19-21; 3 
p.m. Sept. 22. $23.-$25. 
367-5237 or www.big-dawgproductions. 
org. 
UNCW Kenan Audi-torium: 
601 
N. College Rd.: Ten-nessee 
Williams’ classic, 
“The Glass Menagerie, 
directed by Ann Berkeley 
featuring Maria Shaplin, 
guest professional light-ing 
designer. $5-$12. 
8 p.m. Sept. 27, 28, 30; 
2 p.m. Sept. 29. 
962-3500 or 
http://uncw.edu/arts/ 
boxoffice.html. 
Ponder this: The actor who at 30 years 
old created the role of the young 
executive J. Pierpont Finch in the 
popular Broadway musical “How to Succeed in 
Business Without Really Trying,” a show that 
lampooned the world of New York executives 
with song and dance in the 1960s, is the same 
actor who at 82 has been entertaining us weekly 
in the role of Bert Cooper, the patriarch of the 
advertising firm Sterling Cooper Draper Price in 
the TV hit “Mad Men,” a vastly different look at 
business in the 
1960s with lots of simmering innuendo and 
human drama. 
“How to Succeed,” was a smash in 1961 and 
ran on Broadway for almost four years. And the 
show’s not a hopelessly outdated bit of silliness. 
“How to Succeed” had two Broadway revivals 
in subsequent years, with Matthew Broderick 
playing Finch in 1995 and Daniel Radcliffe 
reprising the role in 2011. The musical treasure 
collected nine Tony awards and a Pulitzer prize 
over a 50-year span. 
And it really is a musical treasure. Frank 
Loesser (“Guys and Dolls,” “ The Most Happy 
Fella,” “Where’s Charley?”) composed the 
tunes, including the ballad” I Believe in You,” 
the gospel-inspired “Brotherhood of Man” and 
the period piece “A Secretary is Not a Toy.” 
The story is a bit of fluff about rising up the 
corporate ladder from the lowly position of a 
window washer to chairman of the board of a 
multi-national business behemoth, with all the 
office intrigue, backstabbing and internecine 
warfare one might expect, all done with 
delicious comic book spirit. 
The musical numbers should be well 
served in the Thalian Association production, 
according to director Debra Gillingham, as 
the orchestra will include nine or 10 musicians, 
promising a full sound to the assortment of 
tunes. If you’re partial to “Mad Men’s” Bert 
Cooper, come see the show that made him a 
star a generation ago, right here in Wilmington. 
Tom Pechar is the owner of Synergy 
HomeCare of Wilmington, but in an earlier life 
served as managing director at regional theaters 
around the country. 
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Livin’ it up | local food 
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Feast 
Down 
East 
By Sharon Maggie Slaughter, LOL Team Writer 
Photos Belinda Keller Photography 
Dr. Leslie Hossfeld, right, and Jane Steigerwald, R.D. L.D.N. represent Feast Down East.. Hossfield’s goal from the beginning was to develop the economy in high poverty areas of 
North Carolina. Steigerwald’s driving force was to make it easy for all people, regardless of income, have easy access to fresh, local, nutritious food. 
A farmer’s work is essential 
to life. 
Without farmers, we 
wouldn’t be here. But in our area, the 
small family farmer’s role has declined 
from the Civil War until very recently. 
That role began to strengthen with the 
birth of Feast Down East in 2006. 
“Feast Down East began as a poverty 
alleviation economic development 
project,” says Dr. Leslie Hossfeld, 
cofounder of Feast Down East and 
professor and chair of sociology at 
UNCW. 
“When Rev. Mac Legerton and I 
started our research in Robeson County 
all the way to the coast, to Wilmington, 
and then up the coast, we found that these 
areas had some of the highest poverty 
rates in the nation. We started focusing 
on the agricultural sector that was deeply 
challenged and found that small family 
farms had been left out of big agribusiness 
entirely. It was nearly impossible for small 
family farms to find access to markets.” 
Hossfeld and Legerton began focusing 
on the needs of limited-resource farmers, 
helping them build their business and find 
new markets. 
“We started linking local farmers to 
local institutions such as universities, 
colleges, hospitals, schools, and retirement 
communities, and from here developed 
a fully integrated local food system,” says 
Jane Steigerwald, R.D., L.D.N. Steigerwald 
A local 
food system 
continued on page 1
September 2013 
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continued from page 9 
Locally grown food tastes better and retains its 
freshness and nutrients longer. And it keeps money 
in the community by supporting area farmers and 
merchants. 
You may have to change the way you shop to 
get the best of what our area has to offer, but it’s 
becoming easier all the time. 
You can have produce delivered to your door. 
You can order food online and pick it up once a 
week. You can subscribe to a CSA, in which you get 
a box of farm produce every week. There’s a weekly 
farmers market near you. And you can seek out 
shops that feature food from local farms. 
Feast Down East’s website will keep you up-to-date 
on local food connections, and here are some 
places to start. 
PRODUCE DELIVERY 
www.theproducebox.com 
www.theveggiewagon.com 
www.doorstepproduce.com 
www.byproduce.com 
www.southern-freshproduce.com 
ONLINE 
At these websites, you can select fruits and 
vegetables, meats, eggs, honey, baked goods and 
more from nearby farms and pick up your bounty at 
a location near you. 
http://www.farmersfreshmarket.org/ 
downeast/ourstory 
http://www.feastdowneast.org 
CSAs 
In community supported agriculture (CSA), you 
buy shares in a farm each year, and each week the 
farm gives you a box of produce in season. Some 
CSAs deliver to your door and with others, you pick 
up the food. 
Veggies by the Sea 
Supply 
Sybil Mitchell-Simmons 
754-8998 
Oakley Laurel Farm 
Castle Hayne 
Robb Prichard 
farmstream@hotmail.com 
Heritage Produce at Shelton Herb Farm 
Leland 
www.localharvest.org 
heritageproduce@hotmail.com 
Black River Organic Farm 
Ivanhoe 
Stefan Hartmann 
www.livinoutloudmag.com 
532-2437 
www.blackriverorganicfarm.com 
Dogwood Farm 
Maple Hill 
Mary and Nelson James 
470-0002 
Farm pick-up only 
www.localharvest.org 
mjmaryjames5354@aol.com 
Cottle Organic Farm 
Rose Hill 
Herbie Cottle 
289-5034 
www.cottletiptopfarms.com 
or Progressive Gardens 395-1156 
Greenlands Farm 
Bolivia 
Heather Burkert 
253-9515 
www.greenlandsfarmstore.info 
info@greenlandsfarmstore.info 
Little Family Farm 
Ash 
Janet Little 
470-6074 
Janet_little83@yahoo.com 
Red Beard Farm 
Castle Hayne 
Morgan Milne 
612-7216 
redbeardfarm@gmail.com 
Feast Down East “Rent a Farmer” 
Burgaw and Wilmington area 
Molly Rousey 
465-3386 
rouseym@uncw.edu 
Source: www.feastdowneast.org 
FARMERS MARKETS 
Riverfront Farmers Market 
Saturdays, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. 
March 30- Dec. 21 
100 block of N. Water Street, along the Cape 
Fear River in Historic Downtown Wilmington 
Wrightsville Beach Farmers Market 
Mondays, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. 
May 6- Sept. 2 
At the Town of Wrightsville Beach municipal 
grounds, Seawater Lane. 
Carolina Beach Farmers Market 
Saturdays, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. 
April 20- Oct. 13 
Off Rte. 421 South to S. Lake Park Blvd.  
Atlantic Ave. 
Poplar Grove Farmers Market 
Wednesdays, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. 
April 3- Nov. 27 
On the front lawn of the Poplar Grove 
Plantation, 10200 Hwy. 17, Wilmington. 
Fresh Market @ Rankin Terrace 
Fridays, 10 a.m.-noon 
Open Year Round 
Corner of 12th St.  Rankin St., Wilmington 
Shallotte Farmers’ Market 
Saturdays, 8 a.m.-noon 
April 27- Oct. 5 
At the corner of Hwy. 130  Main St., Shallotte. 
Columbus County Farmers Market 
Tuesdays  Saturdays, 7 a.m.-1 p.m. 
Thursdays, 2- 7 p.m. 
May 11 - December 
At 132 Government Complex Rd., Whiteville 
Southport Waterfront Market 
Wednesdays, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. 
May 1- Sept. 25 
Corner of Bay  Davis St. 
Oak Island Farmers Market 
Mondays, 7 a.m.-1 p.m. 
May 13 - Sept. 2 
Oak Island Town Hall, 4601 E. Oak Island Dr. 
Source: www.feastdowneast.org 
SHOPS 
Grocery stores offer some local produce. 
Produce stores such as Country Fresh Produce and 
La Huerta also carry some local food in season. 
These stores specialize in local food: 
Carolina Farmin’ 
2101 Market St., Wilmington 
The Veggie Wagon 
608 B South Lake Blvd., Carolina Beach 
RESTAURANTS 
Many restaurants are pairing with local 
farmers. For a list, go to www.feastdowneast.org/ 
supportingrestaurants.html. 
Why buy local? 
By Shelagh Clancy, LOL Editor
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joined Feast Down East, also known as 
Southeastern North Carolina Food Systems 
Program (SENCFS), in 2009. Steigerwald, a 
North Carolina licensed and registered dietitian 
with a master’s degree in nutrition education, is 
now the director of Feast Down East. 
Steigerwald’s mission is clear: “That all 
people, regardless of their income, have easy 
access to fresh, nutritious, affordable food. 
And,” she adds in a softer voice, “I have a thing 
for helping farmers. They’re great people.” 
From farm to table 
There are eight programs within Feast 
Down East. 
The Farm-to-Chef Program connects 
farmers to chefs so chefs can buy from local 
sources. 
If you eat out in Wilmington, look for 
the Feast Down East logo. That means the 
restaurant is buying from Feast Down East or 
directly from farmers at least every other week 
between the months of April and November. 
“There are 26 restaurants on our premier 
list on the website that signed a contract to 
commit to our local farmers. They’re all great 
restaurants. In fact, a few of the chefs like Keith 
Rhodes, Tripp Engel, and Antoine Davis work 
with our after-school gardening program in 
Hillcrest public housing community. They pick 
from our gardens and cook with the kids,” says 
Steigerwald. 
The Farm-to-School Program links the 
small local farmer to child nutrition programs 
and FoodCorps. Projects include building 
school gardens, teaching good nutrition and 
gardening in the classroom, and increasing 
fresh local produce in school cafeterias. 
The Resourceful Farmer Support Program 
helps new and beginning farmers and connects 
veteran farmers with new and beginning 
farmers. 
“The average age of a farmer is 56,” says 
Hossfeld. “The Resourceful Farmer Support 
Program is about how to transfer knowledge 
and skill from aging farmers to new farmers, 
how to grow new farmers.” 
“They also do gleaning,” adds Hossfeld, 
“Gleaning is where volunteers, usually residents 
from low-income communities like Rankin 
Terrace, go to the farm and harvest leftover 
crops, stuff that will not make it to market. 
So it’s really a win-win. The community goes 
home with free food and the farmers get their 
land cleared.” 
The Healthy Communities Program 
addresses childhood obesity and lack of access 
to fresh, healthy foods. 
“One day I was down at the community 
center,” says Hossfeld. “A child saw me picking 
basil and said, ‘Oooh, I just love basil,’ because 
he had been cooking with Keith, the chef and 
owner of Catch. Isn’t it wonderful that a child 
be excited about basil?” 
Other programs are the Statewide 
Local Food Initiative; the Buy Local Food 
Campaign, which encourages people to buy 
locally produced food; the Farm to Institution 
Program; and The Feast Down East Processing 
and Distribution Program, which delivers farm 
products to restaurants, grocers, schools and 
hospitals. 
The neighborhood kitchen 
To find out which restaurants are part of the 
buy local movement, go to www.feastdowneast. 
org. If you don’t see your favorite restaurant on 
the list, ask them to pledge to buy local. 
Feast Down East is planning local events 
and invites the community to join in. Food Day, 
a national celebration of sustainable food, is 
Oct. 24. Feast Down East’s annual conference 
is Jan. 10, 2014. A farm dinner is planned at 
Poplar Grove Plantation on Feb. 22, 2014. 
Sharon is a writer and history buff who wishes 
she had documented her grandmother’s and 
great-grandmother’s stories; now she offers this 
service to others. You can reach her at sharon@ 
wilmingtonayurveda.com.
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There are plenty of fish in the sea, 
and fall provides the best variety 
from local waters. 
Seek out and sample small inshore fish like 
mullet and spot. You’ll have to bite carefully 
because of the bones, but the flavor is worth it. 
Larger fish include Spanish mackerel, 
sheepshead and different kinds of snapper. 
These can be fileted but are most flavorful with 
the skin left on. 
Local fish houses carry fish from local 
fishermen and from halfway around the world. 
We don’t have Alaskan king crabs or wild 
salmon in the Atlantic. If you want local fish, 
ask your vendor what’s local and what’s good. 
They are often happy to talk fish varieties and 
can steer you toward some happy finds. 
If you notice a fishing boat at a dock, stop 
in and ask about the catch. Most places will sell 
you a fish or two even if their business is mostly 
wholesale, and fish don’t come any fresher. 
Fresh fish will be shiny with clear round 
eyes, and they 
don’t smell fishy. 
Fresh shrimp are 
firm, not limp, with a 
bright color. Heads-on shrimp are a good bet. 
Cook your fish within a couple of days or 
freeze them. Shrimp can be frozen with the 
shells on in water, and fish can be frozen in 
plastic bags with another bag of water around 
them. This prevents freezer burn and preserves 
the summer flavor right through winter. 
By Shelagh Clancy, LOL Editor 
Nearly wiped out by Hurricane Fran, Gene Long 
was the last man standing when he opened for 
business after the storm. Today he is the last of 
four Wrightsville Beach fish houses. 
Born and raised in Wilmington, Long tried living up north 
for a few years. After three years smoking tuna, he returned to 
Wilmington to sell boats. Capt. Linwood Roberts, the owner of 
an empty building on Mott’s Channel in Wrightsville Beach, kept 
asking him to open a fish house there. Finally, Long gave in and 
opened Mott’s Channel Seafood in 1990. 
Long’s love of the business is surpassed only by his love of 
fishing. Every day, weather permitting, he ventures offshore in 
his 31-footer as far as the Gulf Stream. He enjoys fishing alone 
and often returns with 500 pounds or more of black grouper 
and other fish. Long is one of only 600 licensed 
commercial grouper fishermen in 
the U.S. 
“On a typical day, 
a trip will last 10 to 16 
hours,” Long says. “If 
the weather is nice and 
I could use more fish, 
I’ll fish until dark. 
“I fish with one 
Fishing for the local catch 
By Terry Reilly, LOL Team 
Livin’ it up food 
continued on page 14 
Photos Terry Reilly 
Mott’s Channel Seafood owner Gene Long loves the fish business and fishing. Every day, weather 
permitting, he fishes offshore in his 31-foot boat, venturing as far as the Gulf Stream. 
Five-year employee 
Nikki Bartle 
displays the skill 
required to 
surgically debone 
and fillet a 
40-pound tuna. 
At $16 per pound, 
wasted cuts are 
avoided.
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Trinity Hunt works mornings at Mott’s before going to work 
continued from page 13 
Photos Terry Reilly 
at Boca Bay as a sous chef. 
rod and pull in fish one at a time. Some days 
are better than others, but I always know my 
break-even point, given that gas for a trip runs 
about $500.” 
Returning from a typical 14-hour trip, his 
catch travels a few feet from dockside to a giant 
refrigerator inside the retail store. The next 
morning his team cleans and fillets the catch 
and begins the twice-daily deliveries to 50 area 
restaurants. Of course, retail customers have 
instant access to the same selection. 
His biggest challenge, aside from paying the 
bills, is the ever-increasing government regulation 
of fishing quotas, Long says. 
“Each species will take care of itself,” he says. 
“You can’t fish a certain type of fish to extinction. 
At some point you can’t afford to fish them 
because you are not catching enough. You then 
stop fishing that species. Left alone, the stock will 
rebound naturally.” 
What lesser-known fish are worth trying? Long 
suggests sheepshead and triggerfish. Both are light, 
mild fish and reasonably priced. His sheepshead 
are supplied by a brave local diver who spears the 
fish near pilings and ledges in the Intracoastal and 
in Snow’s Cut. On a good night he delivers 150 
pounds or more. 
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Mott’s Channel Seafood is a Wrightsville Beach landmark. 
Long’s personal favorite is swordfish, 
which he marinates in Italian dressing 
for a couple hours and then seasons with 
garlic powder and cooks with olive oil. He also likes 
almond-crusted black grouper and seared tuna. 
Long is proud of his staff. 
“They are just having fun, and everyone is eventually trained to 
clean every type of fish. We start them on scaling and then cutting 
heads off. They begin filleting sheepshead and eventually take on 
sushi-grade tuna,” he says. 
Trinity Hunt works mornings at Mott’s before going to work at 
Boca Bay as a sous chef. He offers a recipe: “Pan sear in duck fat with 
a little salt and pepper and make a little sauce, if desired, by adding 
white wine and lemon juice to the pan drippings.” 
Long has no plans to slow down. If anything, he is looking 
forward to longer trips in a new custom 41' boat that will allow him 
to pursue swordfish. The larger ones hang out 90 miles offshore in 
2,000 feet of water, definitely requiring a bigger boat and a love of 
the ocean. 
“I’m blessed to be around the water and doing something I enjoy 
every day,” he says. “I go to work each day and like what I do.” 
In the near future, Long plans to expand the retail counter and 
include other specialty items. 
Terry Reilly, having left the corporate world, is now enjoying Phase 2 
of his life, which includes freelance writing on a variety of topics.
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Not-so-trivial 
A question of chow 
By René Leister, LOL Team 
1. What do you call the white part of an egg? 
2. How many calories are in a stick of celery? 
3. What vegetable, when placed in a shoe, 
will keep leather soft and smelling fresh 
and clean? 
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Puzzles 
ACROSS 
1. Coffee + chocolate 
6. Drunkard’s sound? 
9. What little piggy did 
13. Makes eyes at 
14. Under the weather 
15. *”The Graduate” or “Easy Rider 
16. Un-written exams 
17. Downhill equipment 
18. Chilled 
19. *1960s Activists and agitators 
21. State of good health and fitness 
23. Miner’s bounty 
24. *Popular hairstyle 
25. To eat a little at a time, as in hot soup 
28. Layer 
30. Devoid of reverence 
35. Bookkeeping entry 
37. *”The ____ of the Game” TV series 
39. Denotes an accomplishment 
40. Novice 
41. Ivan and Nicholas, e.g. 
43. Atmosphere 
44. Relating to the ilium 
46. On the cutting edge 
47. *Ngo Dinh ____ 
48. *”The Party’s Over” singer 
50. Excellent 
52. Get the picture 
53. *”I read the ____ today oh boy” 
55. African grazer 
57. *Power plant 
60. *Liverpool group, following “the” 
64. Luau greeting 
65. *”Posion ___” covered by the Stones 
and the Hollies 
67. Beauty pageant wear 
68. Short African 
69. Butterfly catcher 
70. Cupcake topper 
71. Epic poem 
72. “Fancy that!” 
73. “Who ___?” 
DOWN 
1. *Eagle’s landing spot 
2. Fairytale beast 
3. Bird’s foot 
4. *Oscar winner “_____, Dolly!” 
5. Declare with confidence 
6. Middle Ages subj. 
7. Kind of person 
8. North face, e.g. 
9. Refuses to 
10. Bad to the bone 
11. Cote d’Azur locale 
12. Casual attire 
15. *Detroit’s soul recorder 
20. Deceive by a mock action 
22. *The Sixties, e.g. 
24. Large fleets 
25. *Greensboro Woolworth’s event 
26. Of service 
27. Jeopardy 
29. Comfort 
31. *”Take a ____ off,” sang The Band in ‘68 
32. Lady’s pocketbook 
33. Loose rocks at base of mountain 
34. State of dishonor 
36. Extinct flightless birds 
38. Therefore 
42. “The Playboy of the Western World” author 
45. *”I Love You More Today” singer Twitty 
49. Adams ___ Beckham 
51. Related on mother’s side 
54. Twist before hanging on clothesline 
56. Ancient city in Africa 
57. Let heads or tails decide 
58. *Woodstock’s had a dove on a guitar 
59. Electrical resistance units 
60. Eight bits 
61. Animal den 
62. European sea eagle 
63. Droops 
64. *”You damn dirty ___,” shouted Heston 
66. V
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C h a m b e r S o u l 
C el l o a n d S o n g s 
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Snowbird Mountain Lodge 
For finding peace in your soul, there 
is nothing like watching cloud 
shadows pass over ridge upon ridge 
of densely wooded mountains, or waking at 
dawn to hear the faint barking of dogs in the 
valleys below as they greet the new day – and 
each other. 
These are two of my favorite experiences 
during our annual visits to Snowbird Mountain 
Lodge, nestled on a hillside among the 
Snowbird Mountains in North Carolina’s 
Graham County. It’s a place of pilgrimage each 
September for us and a small group of friends. 
The lodge preserves its rustic character 
despite improvements over the years. The 
current proprietor, Robert Rankin, has built 
several guest cottages near the lodge that offer 
more plush accommodations than do the lodge 
rooms. The lodge rooms, where we stay, are 
simple but comfortable and their décor reflects 
North Carolina mountain culture. 
Several years ago, Rankin built tennis courts 
on a flat patch of land near the lodge. Those 
tennis courts, through a quirk in state law, 
classified Snowbird Mountain Lodge as a resort, 
allowing it to sell and serve alcoholic beverages 
in otherwise bone-dry Graham County. 
Some of Snowbird’s many pleasures stem 
from what it purposely does not offer: There is 
not a television on the property, and telephone 
service for guests is limited to a pay phone just 
off the lobby. Some guests have been known to 
get a cell phone signal, but it’s not reliable. 
In a bow to the inevitable intrusion of 
technology, however, there is wireless service 
on the property and a public computer in the 
vast great room that is otherwise devoted to 
reading, conversation, and relaxing. 
Snowbird’s other pleasures include its 
excellent food, well-stocked bar and supply of 
good wines. But hands down, the best thing 
about a stay at Snowbird is the view from the 
lodge and from terraces and decks and rocky 
perches around the property. Year after year, 
that enormous expanse of Blue Ridge landscape 
changes not only with the seasons but also with 
the play of light and weather. It has endured, 
much the same, for eons, and gives real 
meaning to the phrase, “Old as the hills.” 
Time means something different to us during 
our long weekends at Snowbird. Each day, 
housekeeping staff leaves a card on each guest 
bed with the day’s weather forecast and the times 
of sunset and sunrise. Down a well-traveled path 
in one direction from the lodge is sunrise point, 
where early risers (with coffee cup in hand, if 
they choose) can watch sunlight gradually spill 
onto the surrounding hillsides and chase away 
the mists rising from the valleys below. 
Sunset point, in the opposite direction, 
provides a prospect of each day’s close. 
Otherwise, time at Snowbird is free-flowing, 
punctuated only by breakfast and 
dinner, which are served between specific 
hours and for which guests are asked to reserve 
a time. At breakfast, guests get a packed lunch 
to enjoy wherever the day’s activities take them. 
Those activities can include hiking, 
canoeing, sightseeing or just curling up with a 
book or a puzzle near the great room’s massive 
fireplace. Snowbird does offer occasional 
planned programs: outdoor activities, art 
workshops or music sessions. There is time for 
a nap or a game of tennis. Regardless of what 
we engage in, our group of friends loves the 
opportunity to reconnect in an unhurried way. 
Snowbird is not for everyone. It does not 
cater to families and its amenities appeal to 
folks who enjoy not being busy – or accessible 
– for a stretch of days. From the Wilmington 
area, it’s a good day’s drive to this mountaintop, 
far from shopping malls, fast food and mass 
entertainment. But we’ve found that what lies 
at the end of that drive – a long weekend at 
Snowbird – reclaims us and recharges our souls 
for another year. 
Snowbird Mountain Lodge is open from 
early February through Thanksgiving. For more 
information, visit www.snowbirdlodge.com. 
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Travelin’ Out Loud takes 
to the canyons 
Livin’ Out Loud is not just your magazine, 
it’s your lifestyle. Your friends at LOL have 
found a great way for you to celebrate the best 
time of our lives with the opportunity to travel 
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our new travel club for Livin’ Out Loud readers. 
This past July, some two dozen St. 
James Plantation residents and an equal 
number of high school students and 
college interns gathered for the seventh 
year to build and restore oyster reefs in 
waters off the North Carolina coast. 
“Oysters are tremendous filters for 
these waters and estuaries,” said resident 
and IBM retiree Taylor Ryan. Ryan began 
the program to address water quality and 
oyster habitats in the waters surrounding 
St. James Plantation in Brunswick 
County. “Each oyster cleans between 30 
and 50 gallons of water per day, and these 
reefs provide a necessary habitat for other 
species to nest, as well.” 
The program is a key research 
sanctuary for UNC Wilmington’s Center 
for Marine Sciences, and is recognized 
by conservancy groups for its measurable 
environmental impact. 
- Margee Herring 
We’ll be partnering with Premier World 
Travel, and we’re excited to announce our first 
trip: Great Trains and Grand Canyons, six days 
beginning May 4, 2014, in and around Sedona 
and the Grand Canyon. 
We have taken the guesswork out of 
vacation travel in this all-inclusive, pre-planned 
excursion designed to delight you. Enjoy the 
breathtaking sights of Sedona and the Grand 
Canyon without any worries about travel 
details on a trip planned especially for the 
boomer and senior lifestyle. 
Join us on Tuesday, October 22 at 5 p.m. 
for our pre-trip social at the North Brunswick 
County Chamber of Commerce, 151 Poole 
Road Ste. 3, Leland. Meet the other travelers, 
get detailed information, and ask questions. 
- Rene’ Leister 
The Friends of the Arboretum and the Wilmington Art Association 
are seeking artists to exhibit their work at Art in the Arboretum 2013, an 
annual outdoor showcase. Slated for Oct. 5 and 6, this year’s divisions will 
include handcrafted jewelry, glass, textiles, metal work, stepping stones, 
wood, painting and photography. 
“Although the theme of the show is related to gardens and nature, 
artists are encouraged to submit their best works no matter what the 
subject,” said Anita Jacques, WAA show chairperson. The show is open 
to emerging and professional artists 18 and older, with all work accepted 
through a juried process. 
Full registration details are available at: www.wilmington-art.org/ 
index.php or get registration forms at the arboretum offices. For details, 
contact Jacques at 409-4064 or anitajacqueart@gmail.com 
Oysters for the future 
Art in the Arboretum seeks artists
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Trivia answers 
1. The white part of an egg is called the glair. 
2. Celery has negative calories. It takes more 
calories to eat a piece of celery than the celery 
has in it to begin with. 
3. A quarter of raw potato placed in each shoe 
at night will keep the leather soft and the shoes 
smelling fresh and clean.
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By Janet Oliver, Librarian, New Hanover County Public Library 
‘World of Pies’ 
Fiction 
By Karen Stolz 
Don’t read this on an empty stomach. This is Stolz’s debut 
novel, a collection of short stories about 12- year-old Roxanne, 
who lives in Annette, Texas. It’s the summer of 1962 and 
Roxanne is in love with baseball. 
Each story captures Roxanne as she grows and becomes a 
young woman, marries, deals with the death of her father and 
even witnesses the first female mail carrier in her tiny town. 
Roxanne’s world revolves around Southern food and 
the book is filled with recipes just ripe for a church social. 
It is mouthwatering. 
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‘Waiter Rant’ 
Nonfiction 
By Steve Dublanica 
According to the waiter, “Eighty percent of customers are nice 
people just looking for something to eat. The remaining 20 percent, 
however, are socially maladjusted psychopaths.” 
This book offers first-hand experience (from N.Y.) of the waiter’s 
view of customers. It is witty, outrageous and unabashed and filled 
with tales of customer stupidity and arrogant misbehavior. 
This book allows you to discover ways to get good customer 
service, suggestions on proper tipping etiquette, and other untactful 
tidbits. It is a fun and sometimes funny read. Available in book and 
eBook through the New Hanover County Public Library’s N.C. 
Digital Library. From www.nhclibrary.org click on Downloadable for 
eBooks and more. 
Tasty tomes for 
September reading 
Livin’ my way books 
As the hot humid days give way to fall, I’m working through 
a handful of books: C. S. Lewis’ “The Problem of Pain;” 
the epic “Titan, the Life of John D. Rockefeller, Sr.” by Ron 
Chernow; the audiobook edition of “Becoming Clementine” by Jennifer 
Niven; and “Grace Will Lead Me Home” by Katherine Valentine. In 
addition to these titles, here are my monthly picks for September. 
Janet Oliver is a librarian, 
wife, mom, huge dog lover, 
quilter, gardener and 
borderline fantastic cook. She 
loves to travel and read.
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“An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.” 
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Evaluating Your Investment Performance 
A friend of mine recently told me he was 
earning a good return from his brokerage 
account because he was receiving a steady 
stream of dividends. What this gentleman failed 
to understand is that the return calculation 
includes two components: dividend yield 
(income) plus changes in principal (capital gain 
or loss). 
While he was looking only at the dividend 
yield and not paying attention to the change 
in principal, the steady stream of dividends 
he was receiving was actually coming from a 
decline in the principal value of his account. 
This happened because his financial adviser 
was selling off principal in order to provide the 
requisite cash needed for distribution, meaning 
that my friend was actually receiving a return of 
his own money. Needless to say, he was some 
kind of upset when he finally realized what was 
happening. 
My friend’s experience illustrates the 
importance of distinguishing between a “return 
of” principal and “return on” principal. The 
purpose of this article is to explain these two 
concepts and to show how yield and changes in 
principal affect the calculation of total return. 
I’ll also show you how to use this information 
when evaluating your investment performance. 
Case I (no dividend, no contributions, 
no withdrawals). If you deposit $100 into 
your account at the beginning of the year and 
have $105 at the end of the year, your return is 
calculated as follows: 
Livin’ the dream financial planning 
By Ronald E. Copley, Phd, CFA 
This type of analysis would be appropriate 
for a growth stock that pays no dividends or a 
zero-coupon bond that pays no interest. 
Case II (positive dividend, no 
withdrawals, no contributions). If we assume 
the same facts as above except that now you 
receive a dividend (or interest) of $4 at the 
end of the year, we need to modify the return 
calculation by adding the dividend to the 
calculation as follows: 
Benjamin Franklin 
(End Val - Beg Val) 
Beg Val 
Total Return = 
($105 - $100)/$100 
5% 
= 
(End Val - Beg Val) + Div 
Total Return = Beg Val 
= [($105 - $100) + $4]/ $100 
= [($105 - $100) / $100] + ($4 / $100) 
= 5% (Capital Gain) + 4% (Yield) = 9% 
In this case, the capital gain plus yield give 
you a total return of 9 percent. 
But what happens to total return if the 
dividend yield were to stay constant at 4% 
while the value of the account declined by 
-6% (capital loss)? In this case, the total return 
would equal -2%, which means that you may 
think you are earning a nice return from 
dividends like my friend did, whereas in reality 
you are taking a net loss. 
Case III (positive dividend, positive 
contribution). Let’s change the scenario 
again. What if you contributed an additional 
$2 to the account at the end of the year, 
holding everything else constant? In this case, 
the calculation would have to be modified as 
follows: 
(End Val – Cont) Beg Val + Div 
Beg Val Total Return = 
={[($105 - $2) - $100] + $4}/ $100 = 7% 
In reality, the ending value was really only 
$103 since $2 of the $105 ending value came 
from your contribution at the end of the 
year. See the logic? But what if you made the 
contribution at the beginning of the year? Now, 
we would have to modify the calculation even 
further by changing the beginning value as 
follows: 
End Val-(Beg Val+Cont)+Div 
Total Return = 
Beg Val 
= {[($105 – ($100 + $2)] + $4} / ($100 + $2) 
= $7 / $102 = 6.8% 
In this example, the difference in return 
from the timing of the contribution is small, 
but it can be significant depending on the 
amount of money involved. For example, if 
you were to make a $7 contribution at the 
beginning of the year and hold everything else 
constant, the calculation would change rather 
drastically as follows: 
End Val-(Beg Val+Cont)+Div 
Total Return = 
= [($105 - $107) + $4] / $107 
= 1.9% 
(Beg Val + Cont) 
In other words, the contribution at the 
beginning of the year effectively makes the 
beginning value higher by the amount of the 
contribution. So instead of beginning with 
$100 as we had before, you actually began 
with $107.
September 2013 
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Accordingly, if you are investing for growth using a diversified 
portfolio of large-cap stocks, the proper benchmark is a large-cap 
index such as the SP 500. For an income-generating strategy, the 
benchmark should be a bond index such as the U.S. Aggregate Bond 
Index. For a preservation of capital strategy, the rate of inflation is a 
good benchmark. 
Whichever benchmark you are using, it should reflect a total 
return as opposed to just a change in principal value. You may be 
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ignoring the yield component, these data can mislead you into 
thinking that your investment is performing poorly when in fact it 
may be performing well once you account for the yield component. 
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as a combat Green Beret in Vietnam, and surviving by the grace of God to 
become a loving husband and caring father,” he says.
September 2013 
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Livin’ large festivals 
them, and vendors offer other foods and many 
traditional goods of the coast. There will also be 
live music and events including a road race that 
draws national attention. 
for the Festival by the Sea. Traditional arts and 
crafts, great food and live music celebrate all the 
things that make coastal Brunswick County special. 
There’s even a horseshoe tournament. It’s also the 
one day a year that people can walk over the bridge 
at Holden Beach and take in the fantastic view 
of the islands from a vantage point high above 
ordinary local elevations. The parking is free and 
the fun is contagious. 
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By J.D. Jones, LOL Contributor 
Just can’t let go of the summer? You’re not alone 
Three Brunswick County beaches are waving their arms 
and calling for the tourists to return, or throwing a party 
for locals by dancing in the streets to celebrate their 
communities. 
Whichever way you view the fall festivals at Sunset 
Beach, Ocean Isle Beach and Holden Beach, there is 
something for everyone. Music, food, entertainment and 
activities for all ages give the festivals a flavor that's half 
county fair and all local flair. If you've never explored 
Brunswick County after the summer crowds leave, you 
have missed a large part of what the area is all about. 
The seventh annual Sunset at Sunset festival will be 
on Oct. 5. Dedicated to sharing all that makes coastal 
North Carolina a draw for thousands every year, the 
festival presents vendors, live music, special events and a 
5K beach run/fitness walk for adults and children. The 
weather is still warm enough to hold the flavor of a beach 
day without all the crowds of the tourist season. 
At Ocean Isle Beach it’s the 33rd annual Oyster 
Festival the weekend of October 10-20. The headliner 
food is oysters and the many ways that we enjoy 
October 26-27 finds us at Holden Beach 
Whether you’re a visitor seeking an 
experience with a lot of local flavor or one of 
the locals celebrating the return of your streets, 
now’s your chance to enjoy Brunswick County 
after the tourists have gone home. 
J.D. Jones is an author and speaker and lover 
of the simple things of life who recently became a 
grandfather for the first time. 
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ARE YOU PREPARED? 
2013 
Hurricane Season 
June 1 - November 30 
Before 
Have a family emergency plan in place. 
Know your evacuation routes and locate emergency 
shelters. 
Don’t get caught by surprise. There is not enough time to 
think of everything you need to do when a hurricane gets 
close. 
As a hurricane moves closer to our area, begin monitoring 
the weather reports every hour. 
Listen for hurricane watches and warnings. 
Put fuel in all vehicles and withdraw some cash from the 
bank. Gas stations and banks may be closed after a 
hurricane. 
During 
If authorities ask you to evacuate, do so promptly. 
If you evacuate, be alert to flooded or washed-out roads. 
Just a few inches of water can float a car. Remember: Turn 
Around, Don’t Drown 
After 
Keep a photo I.D. that shows your home address. This 
may become important when asking a police officer or 
National Guard member for permission to re-enter your 
neighborhood. 
There is never enough time to get ready 
for nature’s fiercest weather. 
GIVE YOURSELF AND YOUR 
FAMILY A HEAD START 
New Hanover County Emergency Management 
(910) 798-6900 
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Three delivery options are available 
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Wilmington Wine’s online 
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the same way they do when they 
step into the brick-and-mortar 
store. The website features an 
exclusive sale on a Wine of the Day, 
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For more information, visit 
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By René Leister, LOL Team
September 2013 
29 
Livin’ it up recipe 
Herbal refresher By René Leister, LOL Team 
Mint. Basil. Shiso. Lemon Verbena. 
Rosemary. Cilantro. Dill. Whether they're 
muddled, infused, or simply snipped for 
a pretty and fragrant garnish, fresh herbs 
make a wonderful addition to summer 
cocktails. Here is an herbal (and boozy) 
drink recipe we love: 
Pineapple Basil Cocktail 
Makes one drink 
3 medium to large basil leaves, rolled and 
sliced into thin strips 
Quarter of a lime 
1/4 cup pineapple juice 
1 1/2 oz gin 
Ice 
Club soda 
Put the basil and lime in the bottom of 
a glass and muddle, either using a muddler 
or the handle of a wooden spoon. Add 
pineapple juice, gin, and ice cubes, and 
top with club soda. Garnish with a slice of 
pineapple, a lime wedge, or a sprig of basil. 
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cabbage, cucumbers, grapes, leafy 
greens, peaches, peanuts, sweet potatoes, 
pumpkins, squash and tomatoes. Let’s 
choose a few of these and see what we 
come up with…. 
September Salad Serves 8 
1/3 cup extra virgin olive oil 
2 tablespoons minced shallot 
2 tablespoons white balsamic vinegar 
1 1/2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice 
8 cups mixed baby greens, including 
arugula (4 to 6 ounces) 
4 medium vine-ripened tomatoes, cut 
into wedges 
2 small yellow peaches, wiped clean of 
fuzz, thinly sliced 
2 cucumbers, peeled and thinly sliced 
2 handfuls of fresh green beans 
1 pound grapes 
2 Granny Smith apples, cored and sliced 
a fresh fruit and vegetable 
salad on a warm September 
evening. In season this month in 
North Carolina are apples, green beans, 
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enough dressing to coat lightly. Serve with apple slices on side.
September 2013 
30 
Thoughts from the back porch 
It’s all a matter of perspective 
The move from altitude to sea level is now 
complete and I have taken the next step in being fully 
acclimated to living by the sea. I 
have a boat! 
OK – it’s not a yacht. 
Nor is it a sleek, fast-running 
offshore fishing vessel. Really, 
it’s not even a flat-bottomed 
john boat. My vessel of choice 
is a single-seat, arm-powered 
fishing machine better known 
as a kayak. 
The view from water level is extraordinary. You 
are eye to eye with pelicans and sea gulls. Ospreys 
look down upon you and laugh. Small jumping fish, 
swimming like their life depends on it (because it 
does) fling themselves skyward, notice me sitting 
there and murmur a fishy apology. Since it takes 
a mere five inches of water to float my craft, I can 
go just about anywhere – as long as I pay attention 
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to the tides and do not end up stuck in the mud as 
a quick-flowing outgoing tide leaves me stranded 
and an object of ridicule on the nightly news and an 
instant YouTube sensation for dummy of the month. 
If solitude is what you seek, solitude is what 
you get. 
As extraordinary as it is, the view from water 
level also changes your perspective. That is not 
necessarily a bad thing. Taking a look at your 
surroundings from the perspective of a long-legged 
water bird reminds you of just how insignificant we 
are sometimes. It helps remind you that we are just 
one small part of a much bigger world. 
You feel the strength of the water world around 
you so much more powerfully when the only 
thing between you and the sea is a relatively thin 
configuration of plastic. An offshore fishing vessel’s 
wake seems like a tsunami and a passing shrimp 
boat makes you feel like a shrimp. There are times 
we need to be reminded that the universe does not 
revolve around us. 
The kayak experience also reminds us to 
simplify. I must carry everything I need for the 
trip with me: fishing gear, life jacket, lunch and 
everything in between. There’s not much room and 
no one to fall back on. It seems like all of my attempts 
at simplifying my life get complicated again before 
I can complete the simplification task. The limits of 
the kayak force the issue. 
As we prepare for another seasonal change, from 
summer to fall and from tourist season to off season, 
why don’t you consider joining me in changing 
perspective? You don’t have to get a kayak (though 
I would welcome the company) but you do need to 
make up your mind to simplify and see things from 
a different perspective. You just might find you like 
it a lot. 
Grab a paddle and come along – the view 
is wonderful! 
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  • 3. September 2013 3 calendar o f e v e n t s www.livinoutloudmag.com 9/6: The Wilmington Table Tennis Club presents the second Port City Ping Pong Throwdown at the Brooklyn Arts Center, 516 N. Fourth Street. The event features open tables, cool tunes and cash prizes for top finishers and is open to all. 6:30 p.m. $5-$10. 538-2939 or www. brooklynartsnc.com. 9/6: A Ticket to Taste at St. James Parish, 25 S.Third St., features a three-course meal inspired by the flavors of Myanmar (Burma), Iraq and Columbia, prepared by Brian Mayberry of Dixie Grill. The Wilmington Symphony Youth Orchestra and the Karen Choir provide musical entertainment. $25. 6:30 p.m. 264-7244 or www.stjamesp.org. 9/6: The Forest Hills Hobby Greenhouse Fall Plant Sale, 2318 Metts Ave., features plants grown by members. A portion of profits go to scholarships for local community college horticulture students. 9 a.m.-6 p.m. Free. 319-7588 or www. hobbygreenhouseclub.org. 9/8: The Penguin and Ziggy’s present Atlanta-based Southern rockers Blackberry Smoke in concert at Greenfield Lake Amphitheater, 1941 Amphitheater Dr. 4:30 p.m. $20. 332-0983 or purchase online www. greenfieldlakeampitheather.com. 9/13: Audubon North Carolina naturalists present a free guided birding tour beginning at public beach access 43 in Wrightsville Beach. The program features up-close-and-personal looks at nesting birds and chicks. 9-11 a.m. 686-7527 or www.ncaudobon.org. 9/15: Shana Tucker Chamber Soul is a steamy blend of acoustic pop and soulful, jazz-influenced contemporary folk on cello. Main stage of Thalian Hall, 310 Chestnut St., at 7 p.m. $14-$28. 632-2285 or www. thalianhall.org . 9/16: Progressive Music Group and HUKA Entertainment present Hasidic reggae superstar Matisyahu in concert at the Brooklyn Arts Center, 516 N. Fourth St. 7 p.m. $25-$35. 538-2939 or www. brooklynartsnc.com. 9/17: A Taste of the Town, presented by Wilmington’s finest restaurants and Thalian Hall, is an evening of culinary indulgence. The event begins at Thalian Hall, 310 Chestnut St., with a map of participating restaurants. Patrons will travel through downtown on foot or by free trolleys to enjoy small appetizer portions of each restaurant’s best dishes. $40. 6 p.m. 632-2285 or www.thalian.org. 9/19: During the 1960s, vocal superstar Mary Wilson helped The Supremes earn an unmatched string of No. 1 hits. Joined on stage by UNCW musicians, she will perform at Kenan Auditorium, 601 S. College Rd., 7 p.m. $5-$30. 962-3500 or www.uncw.edu/ arts/kenancalendar. 9/19: Local historian and author Beverly Tetterton presents Wilmington Uncovered, a collection of more than 100 new images of the city that have never been seen before. Bellamy Mansion Museum, 503 Market St., 6:30 p.m. 251-3700 or www. bellamymansion.org. 9/21: The Wilmington Symphony Orchestra, conducted by Steven Errante, will play Berlioz’ “Le Corsaire Overture;” soprano Nancy King highlights Richard Strauss’s autumnal “Four Last Songs;” and Tchaikovsky’s “Sleeping Beauty” at Kenan Auditorium, 601 S. College Rd. 8 p.m. $6-$27. 962-3500 or www.uncw.edu/arts/ kenancalendar. 9/23: The Golf United Tournament at Cape Fear National Golf Course raises money for United Way. Sponsorships are available. Entry fee includes 18 holes of golf, use of a cart and driving range, a boxed lunch and a post-tournament dinner and entertainment. Dinner tickets are available to the public for $20. 11 a.m. 667-2478 or liveunited@uwcfa.org. 9/28: The semi-annual Wilmington Wine & Beer Walk is a self-guided tasting tour of restaurants and drinking establishments in downtown Wilmington. 1-6 pm. $15- $25. (216) 374-8884 or info@ coolwilmington.com. 9/28: The Creek to Campus 5K and Fun Run begins at Tidal Creek Cooperative Food Market, 5329 Oleander Dr., courses to the UNCW campus and back. Food and music at the finish line located at Tidal Creek’s covered outdoor seating area. 8 a.m. $15-$30. 859-9501 or www. tidalcreek.coop. 9/30: Political strategist Donna Brazile will speak on “Women in Politics: Are We There Yet?” at UNCW’s Burney Center, 601 S. College Rd. Brazile brings her perspective to politics, race relations, women in politics and diversity. 7 p.m. $10. 962-3285 or www.uncw.edu/presents/.
  • 4. September 2013 4 Our September issue is about local food, and the poster child for local food is the tomato. Consider the lowly tomato, a native of Mexico brought to Europe by Cortez. Its culinary fame quickly spread throughout the world, notably to Italy, and spaghetti has never been the same. New varieties were crossbred and developed, but sweetness and acidity were the hallmarks of tomatoes until mid-20th century, when varieties began to be bred for uniform ripening and size. (Before this, tomatoes tended to have green shoulders, no matter how ripe.) There was even a square tomato for a while, bred to be machine-harvested and boxed. Flavor was secondary to these considerations. If you can find them, it’s worth seeking out heirloom varieties that were bred for taste. It’s NC Alzheimers Confe&rence Gala October 25th, 2013 | Hilton Riverside, Wilmington NC www.livinoutloudmag.com hard to beat a sliced Brandywine or German Johnson tomato for dinner. Supermarket varieties are bred for durability and are usually picked green and transported in trucks pumped with ethylene gas to continue the ripening process. They are refrigerated to preserve shelf life. It’s understandable, but the result is a pink mealy product that little resembles its vine-ripened cousin with a robust flavor and a short shelf life. The answer to mealy tomatoes is local food. When it’s tomato season – or strawberry season, or peach season – shop local. It helps your neighbors and your local economy, but you reap the most benefits. You’re the one with a tomato that doesn’t need more prep than a bit of salt to outshine anything else on the table. Our area offers more ways to get local food than you might think. See page 10 for some ideas. Read about two women’s campaign to form a local food network here on page 9. And for some local fish to go with your veggies, see page 13. And remember: Never refrigerate a tomato. * * * September is the best month in the Cape Fear. Numbers are down for tourists, bug populations and temperatures. The ocean’s still warm but the sun isn’t scorching and even the sunsets are a little brighter. For some suggestions to keep celebrating in this beautiful season, read “When you can’t let go” on page 27. And if wanderlust has set in with the cooler weather, consider a mountain trip to Snowbird. Read all about it on page 19. Shelagh Clancy Editor From the editor The lowly, lovely tomato Conference 8:00 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. | Gala 7:00 p.m. Conference $100 Gala $100 Combo Ticket $175 Gala Table Sponsors (8 tickets) $500 Gala Dinner Key Note: Suzie Hamilton Breakfast Key Note: Dr. William Van Horn Lunch Key Note: Dr. Len Lecci & Melanie Bunn Concurrent Sessions: Dianne Phillips, LPC, Certied Gerotologist Dr. Candace Ashton-Forrester Sharon Luquire Helayne Levy J.D., LL.M Ann LaReau, Home Instead Dr. Sam Armitage Sandy Cristos, SLP, Genesis Rehab Melannie Pate, Alzheimers North Carolina October 25th, 2013 Hilton Riverside, Wilmington NC Conference 8:00 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. Gala 7:00 p.m. For more information visit www.ncalzheimersconferenceandgala.com
  • 5. September 2013 5 oN THe CoVeR www.livinoutloudmag.com Nancy Hall Publications PO Box 15944 Wilmington, NC 28408 910.338.1205 www.livinoutloudmag.com info@livinoutloudmag.com Livin’ it up 7 Theater 9 Local food: Feast Down East 10 Local food: Where to get it 13 Local fish Livin’ out loud 16 Snowbird Mountain Lodge Livin’ my way 21 Around town 27 Making summer last Livin’ the dream 25 Financial Publisher In Memoriam Nancy Hall-Godbey This publication is lovingly dedicated to Nancy Hall-Godbey, a woman who taught many how to live out loud. 19 29 Publisher Todd Godbey todd@nancyhall.net Editor In Chief Shelagh Clancy editor@livinoutloudmag.com ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Valerie De Santi 910.470.8180 Rick Leggett (910) 620-8489 Kristi Singer (910) 381-7644 Cover Photograpy Belinda Keller Photography Graphic Designer Tanya Wright Writing Team Ron Copley, Al Hight, J.D. Jones, René Leister, Teresa McLamb, Tom Pechar, Janet Oliver, Terry Reilly, E.E. Rickey, Sharon Maggie Slaughter, Steve Spangler, Chris Wirszyla 13 September 2013 3 Calendar 18 Puzzles 23 Books 28 Wine of the month Photo by Belinda Keller Photography Feast Down Easters Leslie Hossfeld, left, and Jane Steigerwald met us at the Wilmington Farmers Market on a recent Saturday morning. Musicians played and people strolled through, choosing the week’s groceries and admiring pottery, woodworking and handmade soaps. When we finished taking photos, we couldn’t help but examine the nearby table of sweets. See story on page 9. Office manager René Leister
  • 6. September 2013 6 C oton tsaectt u ups ytooudray Parties, and Golf Outings! Preview Round www.livinoutloudmag.com Humor Retirement planning advice from the guru • 18 Hole Championship Golf Course with Brand New Bermuda Greens! • 6 Professionally Lit All- Weather Tennis Courts • 140,000 Gallon Swimming Pool with Active Swim Team • Charming Clubhouse with Dining Room, Lounge, and Banquet Facility • Exciting Calendar of Social Events • Great Venue for Weddings, 910.791.1656 x114 membershipservices@pvccnc.com The other day, one of my coworkers formally announced his retirement. He had been announcing his retirement on a regular basis for the past couple of years, providing a countdown of days, hours and minutes to anyone who would listen. Actually, it made no difference to him whether anyone was listening or not. This got me to thinking about my situation. I called my financial guru and part-time taxidermist, Earl Flynn. After some small talk about the difficulties of stuffing small animals, I got to the point. “Earl, can I think about retiring?” “Of course you can,” he responded enthusiastically. “You mean I can retire?” “No, you can’t,” he responded just as enthusiastically. “But you said I . . . “ And he cut me off with, “I said you can think about it, I didn’t say you could do it.” “But Earl, what about all those investments in my portfolio – like the stock in that South African gold mine?” “It was the subject of a hostile takeover,” he explained. “By another company?” “No, the workers became hostile and took over the mine. Don’t you read the South African papers?” he shot back. “And those government-backed securities?” “The government was overthrown,” he said. “Our government was overthrown?” I asked with no small amount of shock in my voice. “It wasn’t our government backing the securities. In fact I am not sure how to pronounce the name of the country, but it would have yielded a great return. Darn extremists.” “Earl! What about all those bonds?” “Several of those guys skipped out,” he explained. “How do municipalities skip out on their bonds? Was I invested in Detroit?” “Municipalities? What municipalities? I had you in bail bonds. In fact I think several of the fugitives did skip to Detroit. So I guess you are invested in Detroit!” he exclaimed with laughter. Before I could respond, Earl hurriedly said, “Someone’s knocking at the door. Can’t figure out how they found me!” “Who, the Securities and Exchange Commission?” I quickly asked. “No! It’s those doggone guys from the state taxidermy board. Never should have told them to get stuffed. Gotta go!” And the phone went dead. Before your portfolio consists solely of IOUs from Bernie Madoff and the Greek government, consider these financial warning signs: •Your retirement plan centers around winning the lottery; • Others clip coupons on their bonds, you clip coupons for Food Lion; • You’ve been turned down for a Sam’s Club Membership; • If you were playing Monopoly with your finances, you couldn’t afford the rent on Baltic Avenue; • You think an IRA is a reference to the Irish Republican Army; • You consult the Magic 8 Ball, a Ouija board and the psychic hotline for stock tips; • You were surprised to learn that a hedge fund has nothing to do with preserving shrubbery; • It upsets you that the Fortune 500 is not carried on the NASCAR Channel; • Buying one of those metal detectors with headphones to use on the beach starts to look like a good investment; and finally, • After trying for weeks to make contact with your financial advisor, he calls you collect from a country with which we have no extradition treaty. In the meantime, I sit at work asking myself who will get first dibs on my coworker’s cubicle. And would he like some stock in a South African gold mine as a retirement gift? E.E. Rickey If you would like to send a comment, suggestion or money, please contact E.E. at curmudgeonscolumn@gmail.com.
  • 7. September 2013 7 Livin’ it up theater ‘How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying’ Foundation Repair Timber Pile Support Waterproofing Crawlspace Encapsulation Seawall Repair www.livinoutloudmag.com A Thalian Association production at Thalian Hall 8 p.m. Thursdays-Saturdays, 3 p.m. Sundays, Sept. 26- Oct. 6 632-2285 or www.thalian.org On stage this month By René Leister, LOL Team Writer Thalian Hall, 310 Chestnut St: “Little Shop of Horrors,” a gleefully gruesome musical spoof of early sci-fi movies. 3 p.m. Sept. 1 and 8; 8 p.m. Sept. 6-7. $25. 632-2285 or www. thalian.org. “How To Succeed In Business Without Really Trying.” Think “Mad Men” with lots of laughs, a tremendous score and show-stopping dance numbers. 8 p.m. Sept. 26-28; 3 p.m. Sept. 29. $25. 632-2285 or www. thalian.org. Browncoat Theatre, 111 Grace St. “Chatroom,” an original play by Wilmington’s Ron Hasson, directed by award-winning director Robb Mann. The play presents a variety of comic conventions: the love triangle, mistaken identity, the hypothetical friend with a problem. Central to the laughs are the characters’ confusion and frustration with social media. 8 p.m. Sept. 6, 7, 13, 14; 5 p.m. Sept. 8 and 15. $10-$15. 341-0001 or www.browncoatthe-atre. com. “The Diary of Adam Eve,” an original play by Ron Hasson. 8 p.m. Sept. 20, 21, 27, 28; 5 p.m. Sept. 22 and 29. $10-$15. 341-0001 or www.browncoattheatre. com. Hannah Block Second Street Stage, 120 S. Second St. : Rodgers Hammer-stein’s “Cinderella,” a Thalian Association Chil-dren's Theater (TACT) pre-sentation. The timeless magical fairy tale stars some of the area's finest young performers. 7 p.m. Sept. 13 and 14; 3 p.m. Sept. 15. $12. 251-1788 or www.thalianhall.com. Cape Fear Play-house, 613 Castle St: Big Dawg Produc-tions presents “Tartuffe,” a comedic farce by Moli ère. 8 p.m. Sept. 19-21; 3 p.m. Sept. 22. $23.-$25. 367-5237 or www.big-dawgproductions. org. UNCW Kenan Audi-torium: 601 N. College Rd.: Ten-nessee Williams’ classic, “The Glass Menagerie, directed by Ann Berkeley featuring Maria Shaplin, guest professional light-ing designer. $5-$12. 8 p.m. Sept. 27, 28, 30; 2 p.m. Sept. 29. 962-3500 or http://uncw.edu/arts/ boxoffice.html. Ponder this: The actor who at 30 years old created the role of the young executive J. Pierpont Finch in the popular Broadway musical “How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying,” a show that lampooned the world of New York executives with song and dance in the 1960s, is the same actor who at 82 has been entertaining us weekly in the role of Bert Cooper, the patriarch of the advertising firm Sterling Cooper Draper Price in the TV hit “Mad Men,” a vastly different look at business in the 1960s with lots of simmering innuendo and human drama. “How to Succeed,” was a smash in 1961 and ran on Broadway for almost four years. And the show’s not a hopelessly outdated bit of silliness. “How to Succeed” had two Broadway revivals in subsequent years, with Matthew Broderick playing Finch in 1995 and Daniel Radcliffe reprising the role in 2011. The musical treasure collected nine Tony awards and a Pulitzer prize over a 50-year span. And it really is a musical treasure. Frank Loesser (“Guys and Dolls,” “ The Most Happy Fella,” “Where’s Charley?”) composed the tunes, including the ballad” I Believe in You,” the gospel-inspired “Brotherhood of Man” and the period piece “A Secretary is Not a Toy.” The story is a bit of fluff about rising up the corporate ladder from the lowly position of a window washer to chairman of the board of a multi-national business behemoth, with all the office intrigue, backstabbing and internecine warfare one might expect, all done with delicious comic book spirit. The musical numbers should be well served in the Thalian Association production, according to director Debra Gillingham, as the orchestra will include nine or 10 musicians, promising a full sound to the assortment of tunes. If you’re partial to “Mad Men’s” Bert Cooper, come see the show that made him a star a generation ago, right here in Wilmington. Tom Pechar is the owner of Synergy HomeCare of Wilmington, but in an earlier life served as managing director at regional theaters around the country. By Tom Pechar, LOL Team Writer “The work crew did an amazing job in a very timely manner and when they finished, things were cleaner than when they started...I would just like to say a special thank you to the work crew for saving our home.” -Gail Dreczko Reliability...It's The Foundation Of Ram Jack 1.888.309.9727 r a m j a c k u s a . c o m
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  • 9. September 2013 9 Livin’ it up | local food www.livinoutloudmag.com Feast Down East By Sharon Maggie Slaughter, LOL Team Writer Photos Belinda Keller Photography Dr. Leslie Hossfeld, right, and Jane Steigerwald, R.D. L.D.N. represent Feast Down East.. Hossfield’s goal from the beginning was to develop the economy in high poverty areas of North Carolina. Steigerwald’s driving force was to make it easy for all people, regardless of income, have easy access to fresh, local, nutritious food. A farmer’s work is essential to life. Without farmers, we wouldn’t be here. But in our area, the small family farmer’s role has declined from the Civil War until very recently. That role began to strengthen with the birth of Feast Down East in 2006. “Feast Down East began as a poverty alleviation economic development project,” says Dr. Leslie Hossfeld, cofounder of Feast Down East and professor and chair of sociology at UNCW. “When Rev. Mac Legerton and I started our research in Robeson County all the way to the coast, to Wilmington, and then up the coast, we found that these areas had some of the highest poverty rates in the nation. We started focusing on the agricultural sector that was deeply challenged and found that small family farms had been left out of big agribusiness entirely. It was nearly impossible for small family farms to find access to markets.” Hossfeld and Legerton began focusing on the needs of limited-resource farmers, helping them build their business and find new markets. “We started linking local farmers to local institutions such as universities, colleges, hospitals, schools, and retirement communities, and from here developed a fully integrated local food system,” says Jane Steigerwald, R.D., L.D.N. Steigerwald A local food system continued on page 1
  • 10. September 2013 10 continued from page 9 Locally grown food tastes better and retains its freshness and nutrients longer. And it keeps money in the community by supporting area farmers and merchants. You may have to change the way you shop to get the best of what our area has to offer, but it’s becoming easier all the time. You can have produce delivered to your door. You can order food online and pick it up once a week. You can subscribe to a CSA, in which you get a box of farm produce every week. There’s a weekly farmers market near you. And you can seek out shops that feature food from local farms. Feast Down East’s website will keep you up-to-date on local food connections, and here are some places to start. PRODUCE DELIVERY www.theproducebox.com www.theveggiewagon.com www.doorstepproduce.com www.byproduce.com www.southern-freshproduce.com ONLINE At these websites, you can select fruits and vegetables, meats, eggs, honey, baked goods and more from nearby farms and pick up your bounty at a location near you. http://www.farmersfreshmarket.org/ downeast/ourstory http://www.feastdowneast.org CSAs In community supported agriculture (CSA), you buy shares in a farm each year, and each week the farm gives you a box of produce in season. Some CSAs deliver to your door and with others, you pick up the food. Veggies by the Sea Supply Sybil Mitchell-Simmons 754-8998 Oakley Laurel Farm Castle Hayne Robb Prichard farmstream@hotmail.com Heritage Produce at Shelton Herb Farm Leland www.localharvest.org heritageproduce@hotmail.com Black River Organic Farm Ivanhoe Stefan Hartmann www.livinoutloudmag.com 532-2437 www.blackriverorganicfarm.com Dogwood Farm Maple Hill Mary and Nelson James 470-0002 Farm pick-up only www.localharvest.org mjmaryjames5354@aol.com Cottle Organic Farm Rose Hill Herbie Cottle 289-5034 www.cottletiptopfarms.com or Progressive Gardens 395-1156 Greenlands Farm Bolivia Heather Burkert 253-9515 www.greenlandsfarmstore.info info@greenlandsfarmstore.info Little Family Farm Ash Janet Little 470-6074 Janet_little83@yahoo.com Red Beard Farm Castle Hayne Morgan Milne 612-7216 redbeardfarm@gmail.com Feast Down East “Rent a Farmer” Burgaw and Wilmington area Molly Rousey 465-3386 rouseym@uncw.edu Source: www.feastdowneast.org FARMERS MARKETS Riverfront Farmers Market Saturdays, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. March 30- Dec. 21 100 block of N. Water Street, along the Cape Fear River in Historic Downtown Wilmington Wrightsville Beach Farmers Market Mondays, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. May 6- Sept. 2 At the Town of Wrightsville Beach municipal grounds, Seawater Lane. Carolina Beach Farmers Market Saturdays, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. April 20- Oct. 13 Off Rte. 421 South to S. Lake Park Blvd. Atlantic Ave. Poplar Grove Farmers Market Wednesdays, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. April 3- Nov. 27 On the front lawn of the Poplar Grove Plantation, 10200 Hwy. 17, Wilmington. Fresh Market @ Rankin Terrace Fridays, 10 a.m.-noon Open Year Round Corner of 12th St. Rankin St., Wilmington Shallotte Farmers’ Market Saturdays, 8 a.m.-noon April 27- Oct. 5 At the corner of Hwy. 130 Main St., Shallotte. Columbus County Farmers Market Tuesdays Saturdays, 7 a.m.-1 p.m. Thursdays, 2- 7 p.m. May 11 - December At 132 Government Complex Rd., Whiteville Southport Waterfront Market Wednesdays, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. May 1- Sept. 25 Corner of Bay Davis St. Oak Island Farmers Market Mondays, 7 a.m.-1 p.m. May 13 - Sept. 2 Oak Island Town Hall, 4601 E. Oak Island Dr. Source: www.feastdowneast.org SHOPS Grocery stores offer some local produce. Produce stores such as Country Fresh Produce and La Huerta also carry some local food in season. These stores specialize in local food: Carolina Farmin’ 2101 Market St., Wilmington The Veggie Wagon 608 B South Lake Blvd., Carolina Beach RESTAURANTS Many restaurants are pairing with local farmers. For a list, go to www.feastdowneast.org/ supportingrestaurants.html. Why buy local? By Shelagh Clancy, LOL Editor
  • 11. September 2013 11 www.livinoutloudmag.com joined Feast Down East, also known as Southeastern North Carolina Food Systems Program (SENCFS), in 2009. Steigerwald, a North Carolina licensed and registered dietitian with a master’s degree in nutrition education, is now the director of Feast Down East. Steigerwald’s mission is clear: “That all people, regardless of their income, have easy access to fresh, nutritious, affordable food. And,” she adds in a softer voice, “I have a thing for helping farmers. They’re great people.” From farm to table There are eight programs within Feast Down East. The Farm-to-Chef Program connects farmers to chefs so chefs can buy from local sources. If you eat out in Wilmington, look for the Feast Down East logo. That means the restaurant is buying from Feast Down East or directly from farmers at least every other week between the months of April and November. “There are 26 restaurants on our premier list on the website that signed a contract to commit to our local farmers. They’re all great restaurants. In fact, a few of the chefs like Keith Rhodes, Tripp Engel, and Antoine Davis work with our after-school gardening program in Hillcrest public housing community. They pick from our gardens and cook with the kids,” says Steigerwald. The Farm-to-School Program links the small local farmer to child nutrition programs and FoodCorps. Projects include building school gardens, teaching good nutrition and gardening in the classroom, and increasing fresh local produce in school cafeterias. The Resourceful Farmer Support Program helps new and beginning farmers and connects veteran farmers with new and beginning farmers. “The average age of a farmer is 56,” says Hossfeld. “The Resourceful Farmer Support Program is about how to transfer knowledge and skill from aging farmers to new farmers, how to grow new farmers.” “They also do gleaning,” adds Hossfeld, “Gleaning is where volunteers, usually residents from low-income communities like Rankin Terrace, go to the farm and harvest leftover crops, stuff that will not make it to market. So it’s really a win-win. The community goes home with free food and the farmers get their land cleared.” The Healthy Communities Program addresses childhood obesity and lack of access to fresh, healthy foods. “One day I was down at the community center,” says Hossfeld. “A child saw me picking basil and said, ‘Oooh, I just love basil,’ because he had been cooking with Keith, the chef and owner of Catch. Isn’t it wonderful that a child be excited about basil?” Other programs are the Statewide Local Food Initiative; the Buy Local Food Campaign, which encourages people to buy locally produced food; the Farm to Institution Program; and The Feast Down East Processing and Distribution Program, which delivers farm products to restaurants, grocers, schools and hospitals. The neighborhood kitchen To find out which restaurants are part of the buy local movement, go to www.feastdowneast. org. If you don’t see your favorite restaurant on the list, ask them to pledge to buy local. Feast Down East is planning local events and invites the community to join in. Food Day, a national celebration of sustainable food, is Oct. 24. Feast Down East’s annual conference is Jan. 10, 2014. A farm dinner is planned at Poplar Grove Plantation on Feb. 22, 2014. Sharon is a writer and history buff who wishes she had documented her grandmother’s and great-grandmother’s stories; now she offers this service to others. You can reach her at sharon@ wilmingtonayurveda.com.
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  • 13. September 2013 13 Mott’s Channel Seafood A real fish story www.livinoutloudmag.com There are plenty of fish in the sea, and fall provides the best variety from local waters. Seek out and sample small inshore fish like mullet and spot. You’ll have to bite carefully because of the bones, but the flavor is worth it. Larger fish include Spanish mackerel, sheepshead and different kinds of snapper. These can be fileted but are most flavorful with the skin left on. Local fish houses carry fish from local fishermen and from halfway around the world. We don’t have Alaskan king crabs or wild salmon in the Atlantic. If you want local fish, ask your vendor what’s local and what’s good. They are often happy to talk fish varieties and can steer you toward some happy finds. If you notice a fishing boat at a dock, stop in and ask about the catch. Most places will sell you a fish or two even if their business is mostly wholesale, and fish don’t come any fresher. Fresh fish will be shiny with clear round eyes, and they don’t smell fishy. Fresh shrimp are firm, not limp, with a bright color. Heads-on shrimp are a good bet. Cook your fish within a couple of days or freeze them. Shrimp can be frozen with the shells on in water, and fish can be frozen in plastic bags with another bag of water around them. This prevents freezer burn and preserves the summer flavor right through winter. By Shelagh Clancy, LOL Editor Nearly wiped out by Hurricane Fran, Gene Long was the last man standing when he opened for business after the storm. Today he is the last of four Wrightsville Beach fish houses. Born and raised in Wilmington, Long tried living up north for a few years. After three years smoking tuna, he returned to Wilmington to sell boats. Capt. Linwood Roberts, the owner of an empty building on Mott’s Channel in Wrightsville Beach, kept asking him to open a fish house there. Finally, Long gave in and opened Mott’s Channel Seafood in 1990. Long’s love of the business is surpassed only by his love of fishing. Every day, weather permitting, he ventures offshore in his 31-footer as far as the Gulf Stream. He enjoys fishing alone and often returns with 500 pounds or more of black grouper and other fish. Long is one of only 600 licensed commercial grouper fishermen in the U.S. “On a typical day, a trip will last 10 to 16 hours,” Long says. “If the weather is nice and I could use more fish, I’ll fish until dark. “I fish with one Fishing for the local catch By Terry Reilly, LOL Team Livin’ it up food continued on page 14 Photos Terry Reilly Mott’s Channel Seafood owner Gene Long loves the fish business and fishing. Every day, weather permitting, he fishes offshore in his 31-foot boat, venturing as far as the Gulf Stream. Five-year employee Nikki Bartle displays the skill required to surgically debone and fillet a 40-pound tuna. At $16 per pound, wasted cuts are avoided.
  • 14. September 2013 14 Sign Up Today! www.livinoutloudmag.com www.livinoutloudmag.com Trinity Hunt works mornings at Mott’s before going to work continued from page 13 Photos Terry Reilly at Boca Bay as a sous chef. rod and pull in fish one at a time. Some days are better than others, but I always know my break-even point, given that gas for a trip runs about $500.” Returning from a typical 14-hour trip, his catch travels a few feet from dockside to a giant refrigerator inside the retail store. The next morning his team cleans and fillets the catch and begins the twice-daily deliveries to 50 area restaurants. Of course, retail customers have instant access to the same selection. His biggest challenge, aside from paying the bills, is the ever-increasing government regulation of fishing quotas, Long says. “Each species will take care of itself,” he says. “You can’t fish a certain type of fish to extinction. At some point you can’t afford to fish them because you are not catching enough. You then stop fishing that species. Left alone, the stock will rebound naturally.” What lesser-known fish are worth trying? Long suggests sheepshead and triggerfish. Both are light, mild fish and reasonably priced. His sheepshead are supplied by a brave local diver who spears the fish near pilings and ledges in the Intracoastal and in Snow’s Cut. On a good night he delivers 150 pounds or more. Get a Healthy Dose of Wellness Subscribe for FREE at www.nhrmc.org ©2013 NHRMC From NHRMC, Your Trusted Source for Healthcare Information Make today the day you start receiving health information – and inspiration. NHRMC Healthy Dose is health news you care about, from the hospital and physicians that care about you. • Advances in medical care and treatment • Health advice from local experts • Free health classes and screenings in your neighborhood • Hot health topics Sign up today for free and we’ll send news right to your inbox! HealthyDoseAd_LivingOutLoud_0413.indd 1 4/19/13 12:56 PM
  • 15. September 2013 15 Come learn about today’s modern RVs 6811 Market St., Wilmington, NC 28405 www.livinoutloudmag.com Serving the Carolina’s RV needs Since 1979 800.852.7148 www.HRVC.com Mott’s Channel Seafood is a Wrightsville Beach landmark. Long’s personal favorite is swordfish, which he marinates in Italian dressing for a couple hours and then seasons with garlic powder and cooks with olive oil. He also likes almond-crusted black grouper and seared tuna. Long is proud of his staff. “They are just having fun, and everyone is eventually trained to clean every type of fish. We start them on scaling and then cutting heads off. They begin filleting sheepshead and eventually take on sushi-grade tuna,” he says. Trinity Hunt works mornings at Mott’s before going to work at Boca Bay as a sous chef. He offers a recipe: “Pan sear in duck fat with a little salt and pepper and make a little sauce, if desired, by adding white wine and lemon juice to the pan drippings.” Long has no plans to slow down. If anything, he is looking forward to longer trips in a new custom 41' boat that will allow him to pursue swordfish. The larger ones hang out 90 miles offshore in 2,000 feet of water, definitely requiring a bigger boat and a love of the ocean. “I’m blessed to be around the water and doing something I enjoy every day,” he says. “I go to work each day and like what I do.” In the near future, Long plans to expand the retail counter and include other specialty items. Terry Reilly, having left the corporate world, is now enjoying Phase 2 of his life, which includes freelance writing on a variety of topics.
  • 16. September 2013 16 Wilmington’s Premier Rehabilitation Center 40 Newly Remodeled Private Rooms 3 State of the Art Rehabilitation Gyms • Person-Centered Care Planning • 24-Hour Skilled Nursing Care • Short-Term Rehabilitation • Pneumex Partial Weight Bearing Machine • Home Management Training • Outpatient Therapy • E Stim • Stroke Recovery • Ultra Sound • Specialized Diets • Physical Therapy • Speech Therapy • Occupational Therapy • Vital Stim 121 Racine Drive • Wilmington, NC • 910.452.4070 www.livinoutloudmag.com Not-so-trivial A question of chow By René Leister, LOL Team 1. What do you call the white part of an egg? 2. How many calories are in a stick of celery? 3. What vegetable, when placed in a shoe, will keep leather soft and smelling fresh and clean? www.livinoutloudmag.com
  • 17. September 2013 17 THE SIXTIES Solutions on on page 22 www.livinoutloudmag.com Puzzles ACROSS 1. Coffee + chocolate 6. Drunkard’s sound? 9. What little piggy did 13. Makes eyes at 14. Under the weather 15. *”The Graduate” or “Easy Rider 16. Un-written exams 17. Downhill equipment 18. Chilled 19. *1960s Activists and agitators 21. State of good health and fitness 23. Miner’s bounty 24. *Popular hairstyle 25. To eat a little at a time, as in hot soup 28. Layer 30. Devoid of reverence 35. Bookkeeping entry 37. *”The ____ of the Game” TV series 39. Denotes an accomplishment 40. Novice 41. Ivan and Nicholas, e.g. 43. Atmosphere 44. Relating to the ilium 46. On the cutting edge 47. *Ngo Dinh ____ 48. *”The Party’s Over” singer 50. Excellent 52. Get the picture 53. *”I read the ____ today oh boy” 55. African grazer 57. *Power plant 60. *Liverpool group, following “the” 64. Luau greeting 65. *”Posion ___” covered by the Stones and the Hollies 67. Beauty pageant wear 68. Short African 69. Butterfly catcher 70. Cupcake topper 71. Epic poem 72. “Fancy that!” 73. “Who ___?” DOWN 1. *Eagle’s landing spot 2. Fairytale beast 3. Bird’s foot 4. *Oscar winner “_____, Dolly!” 5. Declare with confidence 6. Middle Ages subj. 7. Kind of person 8. North face, e.g. 9. Refuses to 10. Bad to the bone 11. Cote d’Azur locale 12. Casual attire 15. *Detroit’s soul recorder 20. Deceive by a mock action 22. *The Sixties, e.g. 24. Large fleets 25. *Greensboro Woolworth’s event 26. Of service 27. Jeopardy 29. Comfort 31. *”Take a ____ off,” sang The Band in ‘68 32. Lady’s pocketbook 33. Loose rocks at base of mountain 34. State of dishonor 36. Extinct flightless birds 38. Therefore 42. “The Playboy of the Western World” author 45. *”I Love You More Today” singer Twitty 49. Adams ___ Beckham 51. Related on mother’s side 54. Twist before hanging on clothesline 56. Ancient city in Africa 57. Let heads or tails decide 58. *Woodstock’s had a dove on a guitar 59. Electrical resistance units 60. Eight bits 61. Animal den 62. European sea eagle 63. Droops 64. *”You damn dirty ___,” shouted Heston 66. V
  • 18. September 2013 18 S h a n a T u c k e r C h a m b e r S o u l C el l o a n d S o n g s www.livinoutloudmag.com
  • 19. September 2013 19 Livin’ out loud | travel www.livinoutloudmag.com Snowbird Mountain Lodge For finding peace in your soul, there is nothing like watching cloud shadows pass over ridge upon ridge of densely wooded mountains, or waking at dawn to hear the faint barking of dogs in the valleys below as they greet the new day – and each other. These are two of my favorite experiences during our annual visits to Snowbird Mountain Lodge, nestled on a hillside among the Snowbird Mountains in North Carolina’s Graham County. It’s a place of pilgrimage each September for us and a small group of friends. The lodge preserves its rustic character despite improvements over the years. The current proprietor, Robert Rankin, has built several guest cottages near the lodge that offer more plush accommodations than do the lodge rooms. The lodge rooms, where we stay, are simple but comfortable and their décor reflects North Carolina mountain culture. Several years ago, Rankin built tennis courts on a flat patch of land near the lodge. Those tennis courts, through a quirk in state law, classified Snowbird Mountain Lodge as a resort, allowing it to sell and serve alcoholic beverages in otherwise bone-dry Graham County. Some of Snowbird’s many pleasures stem from what it purposely does not offer: There is not a television on the property, and telephone service for guests is limited to a pay phone just off the lobby. Some guests have been known to get a cell phone signal, but it’s not reliable. In a bow to the inevitable intrusion of technology, however, there is wireless service on the property and a public computer in the vast great room that is otherwise devoted to reading, conversation, and relaxing. Snowbird’s other pleasures include its excellent food, well-stocked bar and supply of good wines. But hands down, the best thing about a stay at Snowbird is the view from the lodge and from terraces and decks and rocky perches around the property. Year after year, that enormous expanse of Blue Ridge landscape changes not only with the seasons but also with the play of light and weather. It has endured, much the same, for eons, and gives real meaning to the phrase, “Old as the hills.” Time means something different to us during our long weekends at Snowbird. Each day, housekeeping staff leaves a card on each guest bed with the day’s weather forecast and the times of sunset and sunrise. Down a well-traveled path in one direction from the lodge is sunrise point, where early risers (with coffee cup in hand, if they choose) can watch sunlight gradually spill onto the surrounding hillsides and chase away the mists rising from the valleys below. Sunset point, in the opposite direction, provides a prospect of each day’s close. Otherwise, time at Snowbird is free-flowing, punctuated only by breakfast and dinner, which are served between specific hours and for which guests are asked to reserve a time. At breakfast, guests get a packed lunch to enjoy wherever the day’s activities take them. Those activities can include hiking, canoeing, sightseeing or just curling up with a book or a puzzle near the great room’s massive fireplace. Snowbird does offer occasional planned programs: outdoor activities, art workshops or music sessions. There is time for a nap or a game of tennis. Regardless of what we engage in, our group of friends loves the opportunity to reconnect in an unhurried way. Snowbird is not for everyone. It does not cater to families and its amenities appeal to folks who enjoy not being busy – or accessible – for a stretch of days. From the Wilmington area, it’s a good day’s drive to this mountaintop, far from shopping malls, fast food and mass entertainment. But we’ve found that what lies at the end of that drive – a long weekend at Snowbird – reclaims us and recharges our souls for another year. Snowbird Mountain Lodge is open from early February through Thanksgiving. For more information, visit www.snowbirdlodge.com. By Jenny Callison, LOL Contributor
  • 20. September 2013 20 The Schoolboys! The end of Alzheimer’s starts with you! RAFFLE PRIZES | MUSIC | FOOD | FUN www.livinoutloudmag.com Ron Copley, Ph.D Chartered Financial Analyst “We are committed to serving our clients with expert fee-based investment guidance that is truly independent and transparent, with no commissions or hidden fees.” Give us a call to schedule your complete, no obligation financial checkup today! (910) 452 – 7147 Check us out online at www.CopleyInvestmentManagement.com
  • 21. September 2013 21 Livin’ large in brief Around Town www.livinoutloudmag.com Travelin’ Out Loud takes to the canyons Livin’ Out Loud is not just your magazine, it’s your lifestyle. Your friends at LOL have found a great way for you to celebrate the best time of our lives with the opportunity to travel in style at reduced prices: Travelin’ Out Loud, our new travel club for Livin’ Out Loud readers. This past July, some two dozen St. James Plantation residents and an equal number of high school students and college interns gathered for the seventh year to build and restore oyster reefs in waters off the North Carolina coast. “Oysters are tremendous filters for these waters and estuaries,” said resident and IBM retiree Taylor Ryan. Ryan began the program to address water quality and oyster habitats in the waters surrounding St. James Plantation in Brunswick County. “Each oyster cleans between 30 and 50 gallons of water per day, and these reefs provide a necessary habitat for other species to nest, as well.” The program is a key research sanctuary for UNC Wilmington’s Center for Marine Sciences, and is recognized by conservancy groups for its measurable environmental impact. - Margee Herring We’ll be partnering with Premier World Travel, and we’re excited to announce our first trip: Great Trains and Grand Canyons, six days beginning May 4, 2014, in and around Sedona and the Grand Canyon. We have taken the guesswork out of vacation travel in this all-inclusive, pre-planned excursion designed to delight you. Enjoy the breathtaking sights of Sedona and the Grand Canyon without any worries about travel details on a trip planned especially for the boomer and senior lifestyle. Join us on Tuesday, October 22 at 5 p.m. for our pre-trip social at the North Brunswick County Chamber of Commerce, 151 Poole Road Ste. 3, Leland. Meet the other travelers, get detailed information, and ask questions. - Rene’ Leister The Friends of the Arboretum and the Wilmington Art Association are seeking artists to exhibit their work at Art in the Arboretum 2013, an annual outdoor showcase. Slated for Oct. 5 and 6, this year’s divisions will include handcrafted jewelry, glass, textiles, metal work, stepping stones, wood, painting and photography. “Although the theme of the show is related to gardens and nature, artists are encouraged to submit their best works no matter what the subject,” said Anita Jacques, WAA show chairperson. The show is open to emerging and professional artists 18 and older, with all work accepted through a juried process. Full registration details are available at: www.wilmington-art.org/ index.php or get registration forms at the arboretum offices. For details, contact Jacques at 409-4064 or anitajacqueart@gmail.com Oysters for the future Art in the Arboretum seeks artists
  • 22. September 2013 22 puzzle solutions from pages 17 Wilmington’s Preferred Continuum of Lifestyle Choices Your destination for The Ultimate in Retirement Living One of the best features about Brightmore of Wilmington is the fact that we offer a continuum of lifestyle choices! We focus on the individual resident, yet our diversity and flexibility enable us to operate very distinct living style communities. Independent Living, Assisted Living and Personal Care — all in one location. Multiple lifestyle options help us build a relationship that can last a lifetime! THREE DISTINCT COMMUNITIES ALL ON ONE CAMPUS WILMINGTON, NORTH CAROLINA 28403 www.BrightmoreofWilmington.com www.livinoutloudmag.com Brightmore Independent Living 2324 Forty-First Street (910) 350-1980 (800) 556-6899 The Kempton at Brightmore Assisted Living 2298 Forty-First Street (910) 332-6899 • (888) 751-1544 The Commons at Brightmore Personal Care 2320 Forty-First Street (910) 392-6899 Cremation with integrity for your peace of mind. Andrews Mortuary and Crematory was the first funeral home in Wilmington to have their own cremation facility. Since 1983, we have been providing families who choose cremation with the compassionate, capable and trust-worthy service they have come to expect from Andrews Mortuary. Our crematory staff are trained and certified, and our standards meet and exceed all State and National standards. Just another reason Andrews is the preferred funeral and cremation provider for Wilmington area families. www.AndrewsMortuary.com (910) 762-7788 Trivia answers 1. The white part of an egg is called the glair. 2. Celery has negative calories. It takes more calories to eat a piece of celery than the celery has in it to begin with. 3. A quarter of raw potato placed in each shoe at night will keep the leather soft and the shoes smelling fresh and clean.
  • 23. September 2013 23 By Janet Oliver, Librarian, New Hanover County Public Library ‘World of Pies’ Fiction By Karen Stolz Don’t read this on an empty stomach. This is Stolz’s debut novel, a collection of short stories about 12- year-old Roxanne, who lives in Annette, Texas. It’s the summer of 1962 and Roxanne is in love with baseball. Each story captures Roxanne as she grows and becomes a young woman, marries, deals with the death of her father and even witnesses the first female mail carrier in her tiny town. Roxanne’s world revolves around Southern food and the book is filled with recipes just ripe for a church social. It is mouthwatering. presents Great Trains Grand Canyons featuring ve nights in Sedona May 4, 2014 www.livinoutloudmag.com Inclusions •Roundtrip Airfare - ILM •5 Nights Accommodations •Sightseeing per itinerary •Admissions per itinerary •8 Meals 5-Breakfasts 3-Dinners •Hotel Transfers •Professional Tour Director •Motorcoach Transportation •Baggage Handling ‘Waiter Rant’ Nonfiction By Steve Dublanica According to the waiter, “Eighty percent of customers are nice people just looking for something to eat. The remaining 20 percent, however, are socially maladjusted psychopaths.” This book offers first-hand experience (from N.Y.) of the waiter’s view of customers. It is witty, outrageous and unabashed and filled with tales of customer stupidity and arrogant misbehavior. This book allows you to discover ways to get good customer service, suggestions on proper tipping etiquette, and other untactful tidbits. It is a fun and sometimes funny read. Available in book and eBook through the New Hanover County Public Library’s N.C. Digital Library. From www.nhclibrary.org click on Downloadable for eBooks and more. Tasty tomes for September reading Livin’ my way books As the hot humid days give way to fall, I’m working through a handful of books: C. S. Lewis’ “The Problem of Pain;” the epic “Titan, the Life of John D. Rockefeller, Sr.” by Ron Chernow; the audiobook edition of “Becoming Clementine” by Jennifer Niven; and “Grace Will Lead Me Home” by Katherine Valentine. In addition to these titles, here are my monthly picks for September. Janet Oliver is a librarian, wife, mom, huge dog lover, quilter, gardener and borderline fantastic cook. She loves to travel and read.
  • 24. September 2013 24 Roles Reversing? Do You Have a Plan? Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Found ation www.livinoutloudmag.com 910-254-0599 Offices in Wilmington and Southport www.olsenelderlaw.com www.wilmingtoneldercarechannel.com
  • 25. September 2013 25 “An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.” www.livinoutloudmag.com Evaluating Your Investment Performance A friend of mine recently told me he was earning a good return from his brokerage account because he was receiving a steady stream of dividends. What this gentleman failed to understand is that the return calculation includes two components: dividend yield (income) plus changes in principal (capital gain or loss). While he was looking only at the dividend yield and not paying attention to the change in principal, the steady stream of dividends he was receiving was actually coming from a decline in the principal value of his account. This happened because his financial adviser was selling off principal in order to provide the requisite cash needed for distribution, meaning that my friend was actually receiving a return of his own money. Needless to say, he was some kind of upset when he finally realized what was happening. My friend’s experience illustrates the importance of distinguishing between a “return of” principal and “return on” principal. The purpose of this article is to explain these two concepts and to show how yield and changes in principal affect the calculation of total return. I’ll also show you how to use this information when evaluating your investment performance. Case I (no dividend, no contributions, no withdrawals). If you deposit $100 into your account at the beginning of the year and have $105 at the end of the year, your return is calculated as follows: Livin’ the dream financial planning By Ronald E. Copley, Phd, CFA This type of analysis would be appropriate for a growth stock that pays no dividends or a zero-coupon bond that pays no interest. Case II (positive dividend, no withdrawals, no contributions). If we assume the same facts as above except that now you receive a dividend (or interest) of $4 at the end of the year, we need to modify the return calculation by adding the dividend to the calculation as follows: Benjamin Franklin (End Val - Beg Val) Beg Val Total Return = ($105 - $100)/$100 5% = (End Val - Beg Val) + Div Total Return = Beg Val = [($105 - $100) + $4]/ $100 = [($105 - $100) / $100] + ($4 / $100) = 5% (Capital Gain) + 4% (Yield) = 9% In this case, the capital gain plus yield give you a total return of 9 percent. But what happens to total return if the dividend yield were to stay constant at 4% while the value of the account declined by -6% (capital loss)? In this case, the total return would equal -2%, which means that you may think you are earning a nice return from dividends like my friend did, whereas in reality you are taking a net loss. Case III (positive dividend, positive contribution). Let’s change the scenario again. What if you contributed an additional $2 to the account at the end of the year, holding everything else constant? In this case, the calculation would have to be modified as follows: (End Val – Cont) Beg Val + Div Beg Val Total Return = ={[($105 - $2) - $100] + $4}/ $100 = 7% In reality, the ending value was really only $103 since $2 of the $105 ending value came from your contribution at the end of the year. See the logic? But what if you made the contribution at the beginning of the year? Now, we would have to modify the calculation even further by changing the beginning value as follows: End Val-(Beg Val+Cont)+Div Total Return = Beg Val = {[($105 – ($100 + $2)] + $4} / ($100 + $2) = $7 / $102 = 6.8% In this example, the difference in return from the timing of the contribution is small, but it can be significant depending on the amount of money involved. For example, if you were to make a $7 contribution at the beginning of the year and hold everything else constant, the calculation would change rather drastically as follows: End Val-(Beg Val+Cont)+Div Total Return = = [($105 - $107) + $4] / $107 = 1.9% (Beg Val + Cont) In other words, the contribution at the beginning of the year effectively makes the beginning value higher by the amount of the contribution. So instead of beginning with $100 as we had before, you actually began with $107.
  • 26. September 2013 26 www.livinoutloudmag.com JOIN THE BUZZ! Cape Fear Literacy Council’s 26th Annual SPELLING BEE FOR LITERACY Thursday, September 19 at 7 PM Pine Valley United Methodist Church, 3788 Shipyard Boulevard Be a sponsor, sign up your team or join us to watch the fun! Teams of 3 adults $375 ~ Free Admission 910-251-0911 or www.cfliteracy.org Emcees: Si Cantwell of StarNews Media Frances Weller of WECT TV 6 Bee Keeper Sponsor Media Sponsors Call today for a free, no obligation assessment How do I evaluate my returns? With a basic understanding of how total return is calculated, you should compare the return on your investment to the return of an appropriate benchmark when evaluating performance. A good rule to use is the “matching principal.” Accordingly, if you are investing for growth using a diversified portfolio of large-cap stocks, the proper benchmark is a large-cap index such as the SP 500. For an income-generating strategy, the benchmark should be a bond index such as the U.S. Aggregate Bond Index. For a preservation of capital strategy, the rate of inflation is a good benchmark. Whichever benchmark you are using, it should reflect a total return as opposed to just a change in principal value. You may be surprised to know that many financial websites such as Yahoo.com/ finance present returns that only reflect a change in principal. By ignoring the yield component, these data can mislead you into thinking that your investment is performing poorly when in fact it may be performing well once you account for the yield component. Ron Copley Ph.D., CFA is principal of Copley Investment Management. “I have had the privilege and honor of serving my country as a combat Green Beret in Vietnam, and surviving by the grace of God to become a loving husband and caring father,” he says.
  • 27. September 2013 27 Livin’ large festivals them, and vendors offer other foods and many traditional goods of the coast. There will also be live music and events including a road race that draws national attention. for the Festival by the Sea. Traditional arts and crafts, great food and live music celebrate all the things that make coastal Brunswick County special. There’s even a horseshoe tournament. It’s also the one day a year that people can walk over the bridge at Holden Beach and take in the fantastic view of the islands from a vantage point high above ordinary local elevations. The parking is free and the fun is contagious. 1320 Hwy 117 South Burgaw, NC 28425 1.800.895.1224 www.safewaychevy.com Before we let go By J.D. Jones, LOL Contributor Just can’t let go of the summer? You’re not alone Three Brunswick County beaches are waving their arms and calling for the tourists to return, or throwing a party for locals by dancing in the streets to celebrate their communities. Whichever way you view the fall festivals at Sunset Beach, Ocean Isle Beach and Holden Beach, there is something for everyone. Music, food, entertainment and activities for all ages give the festivals a flavor that's half county fair and all local flair. If you've never explored Brunswick County after the summer crowds leave, you have missed a large part of what the area is all about. The seventh annual Sunset at Sunset festival will be on Oct. 5. Dedicated to sharing all that makes coastal North Carolina a draw for thousands every year, the festival presents vendors, live music, special events and a 5K beach run/fitness walk for adults and children. The weather is still warm enough to hold the flavor of a beach day without all the crowds of the tourist season. At Ocean Isle Beach it’s the 33rd annual Oyster Festival the weekend of October 10-20. The headliner food is oysters and the many ways that we enjoy October 26-27 finds us at Holden Beach Whether you’re a visitor seeking an experience with a lot of local flavor or one of the locals celebrating the return of your streets, now’s your chance to enjoy Brunswick County after the tourists have gone home. J.D. Jones is an author and speaker and lover of the simple things of life who recently became a grandfather for the first time. We guarantee you the best price on your beach toys. www.livinoutloudmag.com Relax. Enjoy Life. We’ll beat any other dealer’s price by $500 or we’ll pay you $1,000!
  • 28. September 2013 28 ARE YOU PREPARED? 2013 Hurricane Season June 1 - November 30 Before Have a family emergency plan in place. Know your evacuation routes and locate emergency shelters. Don’t get caught by surprise. There is not enough time to think of everything you need to do when a hurricane gets close. As a hurricane moves closer to our area, begin monitoring the weather reports every hour. Listen for hurricane watches and warnings. Put fuel in all vehicles and withdraw some cash from the bank. Gas stations and banks may be closed after a hurricane. During If authorities ask you to evacuate, do so promptly. If you evacuate, be alert to flooded or washed-out roads. Just a few inches of water can float a car. Remember: Turn Around, Don’t Drown After Keep a photo I.D. that shows your home address. This may become important when asking a police officer or National Guard member for permission to re-enter your neighborhood. There is never enough time to get ready for nature’s fiercest weather. GIVE YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY A HEAD START New Hanover County Emergency Management (910) 798-6900 www.livinoutloudmag.com At Pacifica Wilmington, we take pride in offering Assisted Living and Legacies, our Specialized Memory Care Program. Our personalized programs provide quality care to our residents who require additional care to meet their daily living needs. We invite you to come and tour and meet our team and residents. 910.338.9621 2744 South 17th Street Wilmington, NC 28412 License No. HAL-065-032 www.pacificaseniorliving.com Want the world to beat a path to your door? Wilmington Wines on Castle Street now offers delivery. Three delivery options are available for purchases: flat rate FedEx shipping, pickup at the store, or free local delivery. Wilmington Wine’s online store aims to make customers feel the same way they do when they step into the brick-and-mortar store. The website features an exclusive sale on a Wine of the Day, offering low-allocation wines of 800 or fewer cases, hand-selected by Wilmington Wine staff, with limited availability. A daily email is available to keep customers informed on these deals. For more information, visit www.wilmingtonwineshop. com or contact Chrissy Bonney at 202-4749 or chrissy@ wilmingtonwineshop.com. By René Leister, LOL Team
  • 29. September 2013 29 Livin’ it up recipe Herbal refresher By René Leister, LOL Team Mint. Basil. Shiso. Lemon Verbena. Rosemary. Cilantro. Dill. Whether they're muddled, infused, or simply snipped for a pretty and fragrant garnish, fresh herbs make a wonderful addition to summer cocktails. Here is an herbal (and boozy) drink recipe we love: Pineapple Basil Cocktail Makes one drink 3 medium to large basil leaves, rolled and sliced into thin strips Quarter of a lime 1/4 cup pineapple juice 1 1/2 oz gin Ice Club soda Put the basil and lime in the bottom of a glass and muddle, either using a muddler or the handle of a wooden spoon. Add pineapple juice, gin, and ice cubes, and top with club soda. Garnish with a slice of pineapple, a lime wedge, or a sprig of basil. Your ONE STOP SHOP for Home Care Equipment • Oxygen Nebulizers • CPAP Equipment • Lift Chairs • Hospital Beds • Wheelchairs • Diabetic Shoes 908 S.16th Street Wilmington, NC 28401 Phone: 910.762.7007 • 800.300.7770 www.medicalcenterrespiratory.com www.livinoutloudmag.com A salad for September By René Leister, LOL Team There’s nothing better than Welcome Welcome Service LLC is the only welcoming service in Southeastern NC. We have been in business for more than 30 years welcoming newcomers and new businesses to the area. Be part of an advertising plan that gets to newcomers and new businesses immediately. Call Nancy Wilcox at 910-793-0950 cabbage, cucumbers, grapes, leafy greens, peaches, peanuts, sweet potatoes, pumpkins, squash and tomatoes. Let’s choose a few of these and see what we come up with…. September Salad Serves 8 1/3 cup extra virgin olive oil 2 tablespoons minced shallot 2 tablespoons white balsamic vinegar 1 1/2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice 8 cups mixed baby greens, including arugula (4 to 6 ounces) 4 medium vine-ripened tomatoes, cut into wedges 2 small yellow peaches, wiped clean of fuzz, thinly sliced 2 cucumbers, peeled and thinly sliced 2 handfuls of fresh green beans 1 pound grapes 2 Granny Smith apples, cored and sliced a fresh fruit and vegetable salad on a warm September evening. In season this month in North Carolina are apples, green beans, Whisk the first four ingredients to blend in a medium bowl. Season dressing to taste Thai Yoga Massage Yoga-Ayurveda New Clients 20% off www.WilmingtonAyurveda.com or email me at nkwilcox@ec.rr.com with salt and pepper. Combine remaining ingredients except apples, in a large shallow bowl. Toss with enough dressing to coat lightly. Serve with apple slices on side.
  • 30. September 2013 30 Thoughts from the back porch It’s all a matter of perspective The move from altitude to sea level is now complete and I have taken the next step in being fully acclimated to living by the sea. I have a boat! OK – it’s not a yacht. Nor is it a sleek, fast-running offshore fishing vessel. Really, it’s not even a flat-bottomed john boat. My vessel of choice is a single-seat, arm-powered fishing machine better known as a kayak. The view from water level is extraordinary. You are eye to eye with pelicans and sea gulls. Ospreys look down upon you and laugh. Small jumping fish, swimming like their life depends on it (because it does) fling themselves skyward, notice me sitting there and murmur a fishy apology. Since it takes a mere five inches of water to float my craft, I can go just about anywhere – as long as I pay attention Adult Day Services Your Partners in Care. Proudly Welcoming Veterans! • Affordable Rates • Recreational Activities • Transportation Available • Medicaid Provider www.livinoutloudmag.com to the tides and do not end up stuck in the mud as a quick-flowing outgoing tide leaves me stranded and an object of ridicule on the nightly news and an instant YouTube sensation for dummy of the month. If solitude is what you seek, solitude is what you get. As extraordinary as it is, the view from water level also changes your perspective. That is not necessarily a bad thing. Taking a look at your surroundings from the perspective of a long-legged water bird reminds you of just how insignificant we are sometimes. It helps remind you that we are just one small part of a much bigger world. You feel the strength of the water world around you so much more powerfully when the only thing between you and the sea is a relatively thin configuration of plastic. An offshore fishing vessel’s wake seems like a tsunami and a passing shrimp boat makes you feel like a shrimp. There are times we need to be reminded that the universe does not revolve around us. The kayak experience also reminds us to simplify. I must carry everything I need for the trip with me: fishing gear, life jacket, lunch and everything in between. There’s not much room and no one to fall back on. It seems like all of my attempts at simplifying my life get complicated again before I can complete the simplification task. The limits of the kayak force the issue. As we prepare for another seasonal change, from summer to fall and from tourist season to off season, why don’t you consider joining me in changing perspective? You don’t have to get a kayak (though I would welcome the company) but you do need to make up your mind to simplify and see things from a different perspective. You just might find you like it a lot. Grab a paddle and come along – the view is wonderful! –Steve Spangler 220 Avondale Ave. Ste. 103, Wilmington 910-799-8818 • Nursing Care • Includes Meals/Snacks Hours: Mon. - Fri. 7:30am-6:00pm adultdayservicesinc.com Call now, to learn more and receive a FREE half day for your loved one with our certified caregivers! Spangler Come grow with us. Livin Out Loud is the “go to” guide for our area’s largest and fastest growing population. call or email: 910.338.1205 info@livinoutloudmag.com