Love and Respect by roel tolentino

Roel Tolentino, MD, MBA
Personality and
Relationship
Coach
Security Bank Case Room
AIM Conference Center
Buenavidez St. Makati City
RSVP
630 pm
Feb. 1, 2018
(Thursday)
Book by
Emerson and Sarah Emmerichs

Love and Respect
However, let each one of you love his
wife as himself, and let the wife see
that she respects her husband.
Ephesians 5:33 ESV

• Love And Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggeric
is a phenomenal marriage tool
that should be in the hands of every
husband and wife.
• This book has drastically changed
my approach to marriage.

Presenting:
Stop the Crazy Cycle

WHAT IS THE “Crazy Cycle”?
When a wife feels unloved, she
tends to react in ways that feel
disrespectful to her husband.
“Crazy Cycle.”

WHAT IS THE “Crazy Cycle”?
When a husband feels
disrespected, he tends to react in
ways that feel unloving to his wife.
And around and around they go
—on the “Crazy Cycle.”

“The Crazy Cycle” happens when
spouses focus on their own needs and
overlook the needs of the other.

“But all this information will do a
marriage little good unless both
spouses commit themselves to the
practice of being UNCONDITIONAL.”

……..with the husband..with the husband
giving the wifegiving the wife
UNCONDITIONAL LOVEUNCONDITIONAL LOVE
and by the wife giving herand by the wife giving her
husband UNCONDITIONALhusband UNCONDITIONAL
RESPECT!RESPECT!

Very IMPORTANT THING:
Unconditional respect is as powerful for him as
unconditional love is for her.
It’s the secret to marriage that every couples seeks,
and yet few couples ever find.

“As far as the Lord is
concerned, men and
women need each other.”
1 Corinthians 11:11 (CEV)
(She needs his love; He needs her respect)

“Love and respect are
means to use wisdom
and understanding to
establish your home”
Proverbs 24:3 (CEV)

KEY:
“Love and Respect
Must Be Unconditional”

CASE STUDY
• Married for 12 years.
• No sex for more than 10 years after
giving birth.
• Husband sleeps in another woman's
house every weekend.

How Does A Husband
Spell Love To His Wife?
C-O-U-P-L-E

Closeness
Openness
Understanding
Peacemaking
Loyalty
Esteem

Closeness
Move toward her
Accept her need to talk
and connect

Openness
Share your thoughts with her

Understanding
Just listen
Be careful in “fixing” her
problems

Peacemaking
Resolve problems
Say you are sorry

Loyalty
Be loyal forever
Promise that she is love of
your life and your only
woman

Esteem
Give your highest value to
her as a person
Let her know what she does
and think are important

Husband Spell Love
C-O-U-P-L-E

How Does A Wife Spell
Respect To Her
Husband?
C-H-A-I-R-S

Conquest
Hierarchy
Authority
Insight
Relationship
Sexuality

Conquest
Appreciate his desire to work
and achieve
Stand behind; support
endeavors

Hierarchy
Appreciate his desire to
protect and provide

Authority
Give primary authority
Let him be the leader

Insight
Appreciate his desire to
analyze and counsel

Relationship
Appreciate his desire for
shoulder-to-shoulder friendship
You should be both friend and
lover

Sexuality
Appreciate his desire for
sexual intimacy
Honor his need for sexual
release even though you do
not need it

Husband Spell Love
C-H-A-I-R-S

Understand that Men have Blue Sunglasses
and
Hearing-Aids, and Women have Pink Ones!

Unlike Hollywood, the Bible is
very realistic.
Marriage is difficult, in large
part because men and
women are so different.

Whoever is more mature should change first.
He/She may not respond to your change in the
way and in the timeframe you like.

You have no control over
how and when they choose
to change.

CASE STUDY
• Married for almost 20 years.
• Woman is very busy taking care of
sister with cancer.
• She has no time for the husband.

CASE STUDY
• Married for almost 20 years.
• Husband is workaholic. Spends less
time with family. No quarrels but no
romance.
• What will the wife do?

If there is no Love and Respect among couple,
how can you expect your children to show Love
and Respect?

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Openness
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Openness
Understanding
Peacemaking
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Peacemaking
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Openness
Understanding
Peacemaking
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Peacemaking
Loyalty
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Openness
Understanding
Peacemaking
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Openness
Understanding
Peacemaking
Loyalty
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Authority
Insight
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Openness
Understanding
Peacemaking
Loyalty
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Insight
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Closeness
Openness
Understanding
Peacemaking
Loyalty
Esteem
Conquest
Hierarchy
Authority
Insight
Relationship
Sexuality

We understand one
another!
Recommended
books:
Personality Plus
5 Love Languages

Roel Tolentino, MD, MBA
Personality and
Relationship
Coach
Security Bank Case Room
AIM Conference Center
Buenavidez St. Makati City
RSVP Roel 09164079417,
630 pm
Feb. 1, 2018
(Thursday)
Book by
Emerson and Sarah Emmerichs

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