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What Got You Here Wont Get You
     There: How successful people
    become even more successful by
          Marshall Goldsmith




                        Simple Not Easy Tips For Success


Marshall Goldsmith--author, coach, and savvy marketer--spells out the
twenty most common bad habits of executives in this book, but you dont
need to be an executive to benefit from his advice. Everyone could stand
to take responsibility for their actions, keep a positive and generous
attitude, and work on (not celebrate) their faults--which is, essentially, the
message of the book.

Here, in Goldsmiths own words, are the twenty habits to avoid:

1. Winning too much: The need to win at all costs and in all situations--
when it matters, when it doesnt, and when its totally beside the point

2. Adding too much value: The overwhelming desire to add our two cents
to every discussion

3. Passing judgment: The need to rate others and impose our standards
on them

4. Making destructive comments: The needless sarcasms and cutting
remarks that we think make us sound sharp and witty

5. Starting with No, But, or However: The overuse of these negative
qualifiers which secretly say to everyone, Im right. Youre wrong.

6. Telling the world how smart we are: The need to show people were
smarter than they think we are

7. Speaking when angry: Using emotional volatility as a management tool
8. Negativity, or Let me explain why that wont work: The need to share our
negative thoughts even when we werent asked

9. Withholding information: The refusal to share information in order to
maintain an advantage over others

10. Failing to give proper recognition: The inability to praise and reward

11. Claiming credit that we dont deserve: The most annoying way to
overestimate our contribution to any success

12. Making excuses: The need to reposition our annoying behavior as a
permanent fixture so people excuse us for it

13. Clinging to the past: The need to deflect blame away from ourselves
and onto events and people from our past; a subset of blaming everyone
else

14. Playing favorites: Failing to see that we are treating someone unfairly

15. Refusing to express regret: The inability to take responsibility for our
actions, admit when were wrong, or recognize how our actions affect
others

16. Not listening: The most passive-aggressive form of disrespect for
colleagues

17. Failing to express gratitude: The most basic form of bad manners

18. Punishing the messenger: The misguided need to attack the innocent
who are usually trying to help us

19. Passing the buck: The need to blame everyone but ourselves

20. An excessive need to be me: Exalting our faults as virtues simply
because theyre who we are

As a coach, I have seen executives exhibit these habits. Its not that
surprising really. Many of these habits develop because executives are
accustomed to success and, therefore, reluctant to acce pt failure. These
executives dont always get to work with people who are as smart or
talented as they are, which can be frustrating and spark anger.

While the habits Goldsmith addresses are understandable, they arent
defensible. Leaders often come to this realization themselves. They reach
a point in their careers where they want to be respected more than feared.
They want to change the way they show up.
Goldsmith gives wonderful illustrations of these twenty habits and some
suggestions on how to move away from them. So do yourself a favor and
get this book, which is available in paperback, audio, and kindle. What Got
You Here Wont Get You There: How Successful People Become Even
More Successful

    For More 5 Star Customer Reviews and Lowest Price:
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What got you here wont get you there how successful people become even more successful by marshall goldsmith what got you here wont get you there

  • 1. What Got You Here Wont Get You There: How successful people become even more successful by Marshall Goldsmith Simple Not Easy Tips For Success Marshall Goldsmith--author, coach, and savvy marketer--spells out the twenty most common bad habits of executives in this book, but you dont need to be an executive to benefit from his advice. Everyone could stand to take responsibility for their actions, keep a positive and generous attitude, and work on (not celebrate) their faults--which is, essentially, the message of the book. Here, in Goldsmiths own words, are the twenty habits to avoid: 1. Winning too much: The need to win at all costs and in all situations-- when it matters, when it doesnt, and when its totally beside the point 2. Adding too much value: The overwhelming desire to add our two cents to every discussion 3. Passing judgment: The need to rate others and impose our standards on them 4. Making destructive comments: The needless sarcasms and cutting remarks that we think make us sound sharp and witty 5. Starting with No, But, or However: The overuse of these negative qualifiers which secretly say to everyone, Im right. Youre wrong. 6. Telling the world how smart we are: The need to show people were smarter than they think we are 7. Speaking when angry: Using emotional volatility as a management tool
  • 2. 8. Negativity, or Let me explain why that wont work: The need to share our negative thoughts even when we werent asked 9. Withholding information: The refusal to share information in order to maintain an advantage over others 10. Failing to give proper recognition: The inability to praise and reward 11. Claiming credit that we dont deserve: The most annoying way to overestimate our contribution to any success 12. Making excuses: The need to reposition our annoying behavior as a permanent fixture so people excuse us for it 13. Clinging to the past: The need to deflect blame away from ourselves and onto events and people from our past; a subset of blaming everyone else 14. Playing favorites: Failing to see that we are treating someone unfairly 15. Refusing to express regret: The inability to take responsibility for our actions, admit when were wrong, or recognize how our actions affect others 16. Not listening: The most passive-aggressive form of disrespect for colleagues 17. Failing to express gratitude: The most basic form of bad manners 18. Punishing the messenger: The misguided need to attack the innocent who are usually trying to help us 19. Passing the buck: The need to blame everyone but ourselves 20. An excessive need to be me: Exalting our faults as virtues simply because theyre who we are As a coach, I have seen executives exhibit these habits. Its not that surprising really. Many of these habits develop because executives are accustomed to success and, therefore, reluctant to acce pt failure. These executives dont always get to work with people who are as smart or talented as they are, which can be frustrating and spark anger. While the habits Goldsmith addresses are understandable, they arent defensible. Leaders often come to this realization themselves. They reach a point in their careers where they want to be respected more than feared. They want to change the way they show up.
  • 3. Goldsmith gives wonderful illustrations of these twenty habits and some suggestions on how to move away from them. So do yourself a favor and get this book, which is available in paperback, audio, and kindle. What Got You Here Wont Get You There: How Successful People Become Even More Successful For More 5 Star Customer Reviews and Lowest Price: What Got You Here Wont Get You There: How successful people become even more successful by Marshall Goldsmith - 5 Star Customer Reviews and Lowest Price!