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Success secrets
1. S U C C E S S S E C R E T S
WE ARE WHAT WE THINK ABOUT
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2. ABOUT SUCCESS
All the information presented in the slides is either experienced by the
writer or observations from experiences & Success stories of others.
Miracles will happen when you believe in these and practice. These are
lessons learnt and best practices to achieve your dreams/Goals. For
more details contact me @ sbokam@gmail.com
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3. SUCCESS PHILOSOPHY
Belief is a magnetfor success
Success is a journey, there is no end. Enjoy the journey
Don’t postpone your happiness
Get over frompast
To have a successful journey towards Goals, we have to look forwardand drive
We spendmost of our time talking to us, this is calledself talk, it is the basis for thoughtsand
actions
You cancreate fortunesby working more on yourself
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4. SUCCESS PHILOSOPHY CONTD.
Have unquestionable belief in you
Whatever happensdon’t lose faith and make a commitment that nothing canmove/disturb you
Believe that everything is happening for good
Goodpeople whenexposedto difficult situations they become better andnot bitter. Have an
attitude of whatever happens is for our owngood.
Learnfromfailures and move forward
If something unexpectedhappens andcauses loss of money, create pain . Acceptit andmove
forward.
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5. SUCCESS PHILOSOPHY CONTD.
Remember that whenthere is setback : God( if you believe) /Universe wants to teach a lessonto
you – learn the lessonandmove forward
100/100 : No one is perfect, 100-10= 90, you are goodat so many things, don't worry about 10%
. Focus on 90%. Most of the people talk about10 % - ignore their strengths.
If you see goodin others, you will become better
Positive thinking is not to expectbest to happenevery time .
You can't become an expert in riding bicycle or driving Car without initial hiccups
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6. SUCCESS PHILOSOPHY CONTD.
Everything happens for a reasonin life - you have to accept and move along . Don'tcomplain
about the pain or injustice happened/ experienced, just learnfromit andmove on
If there is injustice , the God/Universe is planning to teach you a lesson, provide wisdomor
more strength to handle bigger challenges in future
What does it mean it takes time to become an expert, have belief, burning desire invest effort
withpassionon your Goals andwait with patience . Work withPHD ( Passion, Hunger and
Desire ) on your Goals, you are going to achieve it , no one can stopyou achieving success - it is a
matter of time
Don't lookoutside for success, look inside, identify your strength and buildyour career on your
strengths
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7. THOUGHTS ARE SEEDS
Thoughts
Words
BeliefsActions
Results/
Habits
The words you consistently
select will shape your destiny
– Anthony Robbins
Words are, of course, the
most powerful drug used
by mankind –Rudyard
Kipling
Thought has got tremendous power.
Thought can heal diseases. Thoughts
can transform the mentality of
persons
Thoughts are giant-powers.
They are more powerful than
electricity. They control your
life, mould your character,
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8. ATTITUDE
Attitudes are mirrors of the mind. They reflectyour thinking
Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference -WinstonChurchill
Attitude is everything -If you have this you can get anything
People may hearyour words, but they feel your attitude - John C Maxwell
Attitude is like a price tag, it shows howvaluable you are
A bad attitude is like a flat tyre. If you do not changeit, you’ll never go anywhere.
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9. MORE ON ATTITUDE
The greatestdiscovery of my generationis that humanbeings can change their lives by altering their
attitudes- WilliamJames
A positive attitude is a person’spassport to a better tomorrow
Your Attitude is your windowto the world
Better keepyourself cleanand bright;you are the windowthroughwhich you mustsee the world –
George BarnardShaw
A happy personis not a personin a certainset of circumstances, but rather a personwithcertain set
of attitudes - Hugh Downs
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10. BELIEF
Make a Commitment and you’ll move mountains!
What this power is I cannot say; all I knowis that it exists and it becomes available only when a man is
in that state of mindin which he knows exactly what he wantsand is fully determined not to quit
until he finds it - Alexander GrahamBell
If you can dreamit , you can do it - Walt Disney
Say you are well, or all is well withyou, and Godshall hear your words and make themcome true –
Ella Wheeler Wilcox
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12. WOW FACTOR - BELIEF
Have WOWfactor : Give your best in whatever you do & enjoy – whether it is relatedto work,
eating, playing etc..
Sowing and Reaping
Mind is like a garden, you are gardener, self talkis more important
Lawof attraction- what you focus on grows in life/expands
Focus on your Strengths and not weaknesses
Self Belief on your abilities
Love – start loving yourself,if youare not doing – start it , it improvesself esteem& self confidence. If
youdon’t love yourself otherswon’t loveyou.
Buildyour assets ( positive attitude, good deeds, Integrityetc..)for self development – it is like
depositing moneyin your bankaccount – one day it will get converted intoCash
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13. WHY SOME PEOPLE SUCCEED
We are what we think about - As a Man Thinketh . In Sanskrit it is calledas “Yad BhavamTad Bhavati “
You become what you believe :
You thinkyouare weak?Yes, you are!
You thinkyouare strong?Yes, youare!
Everything is in yourmind and so all youwant to change is your mind
Whatever you think, youwill manifest it in your life - Nothingwill happenin the real worldunless it has
alreadyhappenedin your mind
You thinkyoubecome a millionaire,youwill become one
You fearyouwill be poor forever, youwill remainpoor
In simple words, what youthink in your mind will happen in your real life. This is calledas ‘Lawof
Attraction”. Secret to success
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14. WHY SOME PEOPLE SUCCEED
The range of our success depends on strength of our foundation & thoughts
If the foundation is basedon Belief, Positive Attitude, Value System& Core Competency
Making foundationis in our hands whether you want buildhut, simple house , multistory building or
skyscraper
We have choice and optionwhat we wantto become
What happens is ‘whathappens for everybody’ – how we reactto circumstances decides our success
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15. WHAT YOU NEED TO SUCCEED
Goals/Dreams&
Visualization
Burning
Desire& 1 %
increment
Everyday
Sowing&
Reaping
Belief&
Affirmations
Positive
Attitude
Discipline &
Commitment
Countyour
Blessings
Put your heart,mind, and soul intoevenyour smallest acts. Thisis the secret of success.
Big ThingsHappen When You Do Little Things Right
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16. LAW OF SOWING AND REAPING
What you SOWis what you Reap
Thoughts are seeds
Mindis like a garden/Fertile Land
You canreap whatever you want
If you don’t SOWany seeds, weeds will come out
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17. CHOOSE YOUR ASSOCIATES
Choose your associateswisely
Lawof attraction helps like a magnet
Whatever you focus expands and energy flows
You can’t change anyone – we caninfluence people withour attitude & character – Leads to
change
You canchoose anything exceptyour parents – respect them
If you don’t like your presentaddress – you canchange it – You are not a Tree
You canchange your : Attitude, Goals/Dream, Boss, Employer, Friends & Partner
Get associatedwithpeople who will helpyou to grow
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18. LEARN FROM MASTERS
Have you ever noticedKids, if something unpleasant
happens to them– they will forgetabout it and will
focus on the next activity – they don’tcarry the
baggage. This is a greatlessonwe can learn, if we
practice it and implement, it yields excellent results.
Helps you focus on whatever you do and give 100%
Howto get ridof past : have an attitude of kid
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19. IMPORTANT FACTS
One personwitha commitment is worth more than 100 people who have only an interest
Ourcapabilities are beyondour limitations
Every master was a beginner and every expert was an average person at some point of time
What you give is what you get
GIGO– Good[Garbage] In Good[Garbage] Out
If you want to growin life stretch your self , come out of your comfort zone - trust your self, listen
to your inner self
Nothing comes free in life, you have to work hardand earn
Healthis not absence of decease , it is enthusiasmto work
Every morning you getupyou have a choice which voice to listen
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20. IMPORTANT FACTS
Life is full of opportunities - one door closes another door opens- one idiot goes out of your life –
another wise personcomes in
If you keepknocking you will finddoors of opportunities
Failure is the opportunity to beginagainmore intelligently - Henry ford
We are all better thanKings & Queens - what they did not have 100 years back we have
Ourstruggles in life developour strengths. Without struggles, we never growand never get
stronger, so it’s important for us to tackle challenges on our own, andnot be relying on help from
others
Every obstacle we come across in life gives us an opportunity to improve our circumstances, and
whilst the lazy complain, the others are creating opportunities through their kind hearts,
generosity, and willingnessto get things done.
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21. IMPORTANT FACTS
To succeedin life you don't have to do wonders . Do simple/small things right - Give your 100 %
and enjoy whatever you do.
Everything in this worldworks on basics - we ignore - take it casual . If you are not serious about
life you don'tget anything big in life
Whenyou change the way you look at things , the things you lookat change
If you wish to reapyou must plant, planters deserve reaping/receiving
Life is not designedto give what we need, life is designedto give what we deserve
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22. IMPORTANT FACTS
If thereis anythingthatis stoppingyoufromsuccess, that is fear
Imagine- if a kid stops walking because he is falling- can he walk? Is thereany meaning forsuch a fear , allour
fearsare likethat
We don'tget killedby what we eat but by what is eating us.
Worryingis likesitting on a roaring chair, it givesyou somethingto do but it takesyounowhere
Nothinggreatis ever achievedwithout criticism
A smile is an inexpensiveway to improve yourlooks
Success dependson support of otherpeople
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23. COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS
Whenwe count our blessings, we concentrateon all the good things in our livesinsteadof the negative
Whenyouarise in the morning, give thanks for the morning light,for your life andstrength. Givethanksfor
yourfoodand the joy of living. If yousee no reason for givingthanks, the fault lieswithyourself
If youpractice gratitude a little, your life willchange a little. If youpractice gratitude a lot everyday,your life
will change dramaticallyand in ways that youcan hardlyimagine
Whenwe’re not countingour blessings, we can fall intothe trapof unintentionallycounting negative things.
We count negative thingswhenwe talk about the things we don’t have. We count negative things when we
criticize or findfault withother people, when we complainabout traffic, waitingin lines, delays, the
government, not enoughmoney, or the weather
Whenwe count negative things theyincrease too, but on top of that,witheverynegative thing we count, we
cancel out blessings that were on their way
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24. TEAM WORK IS DREAM WORK
Talent wins games, but teamwork and intelligence wins championships. -Michael Jordan
Coming together is a beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is success. -Henry Ford
It is literally true that you can succeedbest andquickest by helping others to succeed. -NapoleonHill
So powerful is the light of unity that it can illuminate the whole earth. -Bahaullah
With an enthusiasticteamyou can achieve almost anything.-Tahir Shah
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25. THINGS TO DO
Recharge your body/mind
Use apps judiciously- some apps in mobile phone drainyour battery. Same is the case withyour
thoughts.
Some thoughtswill makeyoufeelweak, reduces your self confidence anddrainyourenergy.
Keepyourself awayfromenergydrainers
Branding – create branding for yourself in whatever you do
Create your story /movie/trailer - Like Bahubali
You are thehero, producer, writer & director for your story
Lawof attraction - what you focus on grows/expands in life. It works like a magnet
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26. THINGS TO DO
Don't blame others when you receive a setback. Remember, how you think when you lose
determines how long it will be until you win.
Exercise or meditate for at least 20 minutes a day
Smile - baby smiles 500to 1000times a day and is healthy . How many times you do ?
Bestrevenge is massive success
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27. SUCCESS LEAVES TRACKS
The mostsuccessful people in any field in the world have kept their focus on their strengths and not
their weaknesses. Andthat’s why they achievedsuccess
Bill Clintonand Steve Jobs have had glaring weaknesses but they definitely didn't achieve success by
focusing on them
Look at your ownlife. Most of us have the tendency to complainand grumble at something which we
aren’t goodat
But have you ever thought how life would have been if we would focusedon our strengths andpositive
things we posses?
Shift in your focus fromweaknesses to strengths can instill confidence and positivity
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28. LEADERS WHO INSPIRED ME
SwamiVivekananda
Karoly Takacs
Steve Jobs
Thomas Alva Edison
Nepolian Hill
Jim Rohn
Brian Tracy
Mahatma Gandhi
Beethoven
Mother Teresa
Nikola Tesla
Swami Sukhabodananda
Henry Ford
Robin Sharma
Less Brown
Nelson Mandela
Gowtham Budha
Chintakindi Mallesham
Anthony Robbins
John C Maxwell
Anand Mahindra
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29. CASE STUDY : CONNECTING THE DOTS
Lookingbackwardsyoucan connect the dots – it is 100%true – youcan introspect your journey
Whatever I put in these slides, I practice dailyas I believe it happened to me and it happened to others.
Lookintothis story …..
A man whohas not completedhis graduation. Who usedto collect Coke bottles& sellfor 5 cents, walk7
miles overweekend to Hari Krishnatempleto have hisfull meal
Started hisbusiness in a garage became CEOof the one of the worlds best innovative & Successful
Organization
Later firedfromthecompanyhe has started
Whenthissetbackhappenedto him–he has options - Positive (Proactive)/Negative(Reactive)
He startedagainwitha PositiveMentalAttitude– rest is history
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30. CASE STUDY CONTD..
He is none other thanSteve Jobs
You knowwhenhe was firedfromApple– what brought himback to Apple
Burning Desire & His Dreams
Passion & Enthusiasm
Belief & Positive MentalAttitude
He startedNeXT & associatedwithPixer
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31. CASE STUDY CONTD..
This is what I have mentionedin my slides, if you believe start working onyour dreams you can
create fortunes
You may not have requiredresources & skills – it doesn’t matter – Universe listens to you and you
will get associatedwithpeople they will help you
All youneed is Dream/Goal -Belief - Passion – Burning Desire
Start putting your efforts – Rest willhappen
Howis not yourproblem. The Lawof attraction – Power of subconsciousmind works here if youare
alignedwithyourGoals
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32. CASE STUDY CONCLUSION
I have observedthese working for N number of people, it also worksfor you.
Summary takeaways fromthis Case study
He startedApple whenit was difficult to have his full meal
If you have Courage to followyour heartwithcommitment, dedication& discipline – rest will be
takencare
Can you imagine the state of a personafter getting firedfroma company he has started
Need lot of courage to come out of the agony& focuson future
It is not easyto get out of past under these circumstances, but if youpractice, anything is possible
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33. QUOTES
No pressure, no diamonds
Think, act andtalk withenthusiasmandyou’ll attract positive results–Michael LeBoeuf
You can’t always control circumstances. But you can control your ownthoughts -Charles Popplestone
If you can dreamit , you can do it - Walt Disney
Efforts only fully releases its rewardafter a personrefuses to quit
Every adversity carries with it the seedof an equivalent or greater benefit
With Ordinary talent and extraordinary perseverance, all things are attainable - Sir Thomas Buxton
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34. QUOTES
Adversity brings out our hiddenpotential – Jeff Keller
The people who always talk about a lackof money generally don’t accumulate much of it - Jeff Keller
Do the thing you fear and the deathof fear is certain– Ralph Waldo Emerson
The only way to escape fromthe prisonof fear is action– Joe Tye
Success is going from failure to failure withoutloss of enthusiasm– WinstonChurchill
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35. SUMMARY
Friends,I have acquiredtheseskills throughstudyof several books , listeningto audiotapes, reading& watchingof
Ramayana, Mahabharata and Bible.
In a nutshell; The teachingsof theepics like Ramayana, Mahabharataand Bibleare same – it talksabout what to do and
what not to do.
For example; Mahabharata has every problemthat is happeningin the societytoday and itssolution.Everytime I read or
watchI findnew dimensionto the solution
I see lotof material on the web on different topicswhereyou have to go through100 hoursof trainingto understandtheory.
I have beenpracticingall the principlesput into theseslidesand introspect [Steve Jobshas calledthis “lookingbackyoucan
connect the dots” ] withmy experiences& othersexperiences ; I have developeduniquestyleof findingthe root causefor
successor failure
I can talk on thesesubject hours togetherwithevidence,trust me this is not theoryit is proven
I thought of sharingthisknowledgeand helpothers , this is just beginning, morewill follow.
Thank youforreadingthis,shareyourfeedback
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So, We are what we thinkabout
If you keep knocking you will find opendoors ( of opportunity)
What you SOWis what youReap