Internet safety for parents Spring 2014 Uploaded and shared by Integrity Computer Concepts You may freely distribute and share this presentation with friends, neighbors and family. Scott Burnett 949-689-5078

1. Help! I’m the parent of a tech-savvy kid!
Tech safety for parents

2. HELP!!

3. The Burnetts

4. What are we going to learn today?
Part 1 “WHAT”
• What kids are doing online
• Where technology is going
• What to look for
Part 2 “HOW”
• Practical filters
• Monitoring applications
• Common sense rules to put into place at
home
Q & A

5. Current Statistics
• Teens spend about 5 hours a day online
• 15% have met up in person somebody they met online
• 17% have hacked into a friends social media account or email
• 25% of teens have cheated on a test using a mobile phone
• 32% have accessed pornography online (purposely)
• Only 50% of kids have parental controls on their computers
• 70% of teens hide their online behavior from parents
• Parents MUST stay in the know. We can not give up!

6. Part 1
What in the world
are my kids doing
online?

7. Social Networking

8. Social Networking
3 Rules for Social Networking
• Know the platform
• Follow your child
• Know their password

9. Social Networking
Instagram
• Turn off public sharing
• Turn off GPS tagging
• Talk about what they are posting
• Follow their Instagram feed

10. Social Networking
Facebook and Twitter

11. Social Networking
Vine
• 6 seconds of looping video
• Owned by Twitter
• Easy to post & find porn on Vine

12. Social Networking
Social Media Clean up!
•Talk to your child
•Google their name
•Review all their profiles
•Help them remove unused profiles
•Don’t forget the blogs…

13. Pornography
• 1 in 9 websites online are pornographic
• Put a filter program on ANY computer that
your child will use.

14. Pornography
• Family Computer
• Laptop
• Cell phone
• iPad / Tablet
• Game console
• Friends house
• Put a filter program on ANY device that your
child will use, especially when they are
young.

15. Pornography
• The average child accidentally stumbles
onto pornographic website by age 12
• The time for the “new” pornography talk is
BEFORE this happens, not after..

16. Anonymity
Secret
Whisper

17. Yik Yak
• 4 months old (March 2014)
• Mostly east coast & Southern CA
• 400,000 users
• Cross / Twitter and SnapChat
• Designed for college students
• Completely anonymous
• Share with 100 up to 10,000
• a VIRTUAL bathroom wall

18. Online Predators
Secrecy is the predators greatest
weapon
Communication is a parents
greatest defense.

19. Online Predators
2 questions predators always ask
1) Where is your computer?
2) Are you alone?

20. Online Predators
Catfishing
someone who pretends to be someone they're not using Facebook or
other social media to create false identities, particularly to pursue
deceptive online romances.
Sextortion
When a person uses guilt, power, or knowledge of certain secrecy, to
force another person into having sex or performing sexual favors.

21. Cyber Bullying

22. Cyber Bullying
Rebecca Ann Sedwick
12 Years old.
Died from suicide 8/10/13

23. Cyber Bullying

24. Danger! Beware!
Completely Anonymous

25. Cyber Bullying
1) Ask the tough uncomfortable questions!
Ask “What if…” questions.
2) Keep the laptop and cell phone out of the
bedroom for as long as possible.
3) Look for the signs of bullying.
Depression, excessive sleeping, complains
of headaches / stomach aches.
4) Remove apps that are commonly used for
bullying.
5) Look at your kids texts. Monitor their apps.

26. Cyber Bullying

27. Sexting
Definition…
Sending of sexually explicit photos
or text through one’s mobile phone
to friends or suitors.

28. Sexting

29. Hook up Apps
Tinder, Blendr, Grindr, Skout, and
Swoon

30. Hook up Apps
Down
Pure

31. We are the first
generation of
parents that
have had to deal
with the new
phenomenon!
Colleges and
employers are
looking!

32. Part 2
How do I keep my kids
safe from the ever
changing world of
technology!?!

33. Virus – Malware - Phishing

34. Virus – Malware - Phishing
KidZui

36. Passwords

37. The most common problem
Location….Location….Location…

38. Cell phones at night…

39. Cell phones at night…
Zip Mini
thejoyfactory.com
Keyword: integrity

40. Cell phones at night…
Scott’s low
cost budget
version…..
The iBasket

41. Contracts!
• Cell phone contract
• www.iccguru.com/cellphonecontract.doc
• Computer Contract
• www.iccguru.com/computercontract.doc

42. Software you can
use to keep your
kids safe

43. Google and YouTube
• Google’s “Safe Search”

44. Google and YouTube
• YouTube’s “Safety Mode”

45. WebFilter
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

46. WebFilter
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
Virtual Parent Software
Helps Supervise child's online activities

47. WholehouseWebFilter
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

48. MonitoringSoftware
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

49. iPad
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

50. SetupiOSrestrictions
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

51. TextMessageMonitoring
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

52. TextMessageMonitoring
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

53. CellPhonelocation
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

54. CellPhoneparentalControl
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
• Set internet usage rules
• Disable ALL internet on phone
• See list of currently installed apps
• See internet usage per app
• Weekly reports, emailed
• http://curbi.com/c/iccguru

55. AndroidCellPhones
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

56. SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
CellPhoneCarriers

57. Scott’s Final Tips
1)Educate yourselves on social media
whenever possible
2)Know the log-ins of all your children's
accounts
3) Remove technology at bedtime
4)Talk about consequences of social media
5)Consider some monitoring software

58. Connect with your KIDS