Presenter: Donna Rice Hughes The vast majority of boys are exposed to pornography before they turn 18, and the average age of first exposure is just 12 years old. How well do you understand what seeing pornography does to a child and that child's view of sexuality? What about shame? This panel presentation will prepare you for the next time parents come asking for advice about what to do now that their child has seen pornography. Find out what you should teach parents before their children have that first exposure.

1. Presentation Copyrighted
Prepared by: Donna Rice Hughes
Internet Porn:
The Largest
Unregulated
Social Experiment
in History (Seto)

2. Sexual Exploitation of Children Online:
The Perfect Storm
CONNECTED
KIDS
98% youth
37% of 3 - 4 yrs. old
87% of 5-7 yrs.old
SEXUAL
PREDATORS
Easy &
anonymous
access to kids
Internet Porn
Pandemic
1/3 of teens carry
moblie x-rated
theaters in their
pockets.
LAW
ENFORCMENT
CHALLENGES
UNREGULATED
ACCESS
(obscenity law
unenforced; CDA &
COPA overturned)
OVERWELMED
ILL-EQUIPPED
PARENTS

3. Is Pornography Protected by the
First Amendment?
Harmful to
Minors/
Indecency
Obscenity
Child
Pornography
(Workbook page 32)

4. Kids Imitate What They See
• Middle-school aged boys who view X-rated content are almost
three times more likely to report oral sex and sexual intercourse
than boys who do not use sexually explicit material
• “Five-Year Olds ‘Are Imitating Net Porn,’” Daily Mail (UK),
November 20, 2009.
• Youth who look at violent x-rated material are six times more
likely to report forcing someone to do something sexual online or
in-person versus youth not exposed to x-rated material. (Internet
Solutions for Kids, Center for Disease & Control, November,
2010)
• According to UK statistics, pornography turned more than 4,500
British children – some as young as 5 yrs old– into sexual
offenders between 2009-2012

5. Internet Safety 101
Empowering Parents
Parents fall into four basic
categories…
1.“It’s not that bad.”
2.“Not my kids.”
3.“I’ve got it covered”
4.“No more Internet.”Internet Safety 101 excerpts
© Enough Is Enough
www.internetsafety101.org

6. Teens Advice to Parents
Pornography is the Wallpaper of our Children’s Lives
• VIDEO CLIP

7. Internet Safety 101:
“Rules ‘N Tools”Viewing time: 19 minutes
PARENTS ARE THE FIRST LINE OF
DEFENSE
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of
cure

8. Safety 101 Excerpts

9. Rules
Non Technical Measures
• Establish an ongoing dialogue and keep lines of communication open.
• Supervise use of all Internet-enabled devices.
• Know your child’s online activities and friends.
• Regularly check the online communities your children use, such as social networking
and gaming sites, to see what information they are posting.
• Supervise the photos and videos your kids post and send online.
• Discourage the use of webcams and mobile video devices.
•Teach your children how to protect personal information posted online and to follow
the same rules with respect to the personal information of others.
• Instruct your children to avoid meeting face-to-face with someone they only know
online or through their mobile device.
•Teach your children how to respond to cyberbullies.
• Establish an agreement with your children about Internet use at home and outside of
the home.
Internet Safety 101 excerpts
© Enough Is Enough
www.internetsafety101.org

10. Tools
‣ Set age-appropriate filters.
‣ Consider using monitoring software, especially if you sense your child is at risk.
‣ Periodically check your child’s online activity by viewing your browser’s history.
• Set time limits and consider using time limiting software.
• Disallow access to chat rooms and only allow live audio chat with extreme caution.
• Limit your child’s instant messaging (IM) contacts to a parent-approved buddy list.
• Use safe search engines.
• Set up the family’s cyber-security protections.
• Utilize parental controls on your child’s mobile phone and other mobile devices.
SEE AGE-BASED GUIDELINES
Technical Measures
Internet Safety 101 excerpts
© Enough Is Enough
www.internetsafety101.org

11. Internet Safety 101 Trailer

12. Internet Safety 101® Program
Educate  Equip  Empower
PREVENTION
• 4-part DVD teaching series & Workbook
• Pornography 101
• Predators 101
• Web 2.0
– Social Networking
– Mobile Internet (cell phones, pda’s, mp3 players, ipads)
– Online Gaming
– Cyberbullying
• Safety 101: Rules ‘N Tools®
• Facilitator’s Kit
• PLUG N PLAY
• Individual or Small Group Use
• InternetSafety101.org
“The Internet Safety 101®
Program is a tailor-made
response to the Internet child
safety crisis facing the nation!”
− President, Virginia PTA

13. • “Satan comes to kill, steal and destroy, but I come that
they might have LIFE”. John 10:10
• For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against
principalities, powers, rules of the darkness of this age, therefore
take up the whole armor of God. Ephesians 6:13
• Role of the Church- “Internet Porn Pandemic” Research Article-
Christian Apologetics Journal
Pray for your childen, Listen to Holy Spirit, Teach children to guard their
hearts and minds
SPIRITUAL WAR

15. What One Person Can Do
One Child, One Home, One Community at a Time
• GET 101 for your family, your small group, PTA, church, library (Plug
‘n Play)
• GET 101 TV SERIES ON PBS in your city
• SUPPORT OUR EFFORTS-WE CAN’T DO IT WITHOUT YOU
• Porn Free WiFi Campaign www.pornfreewifi.org
– Sign up from Email updates
– Join our prayer team
MAKE A GENERATIONAL IMPACT
www.internetsafety101.org; www. friendlywifi.org