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Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Your Inner
Leader +
Coaching
Shahin Sheidaei
Agile & Beyond 2018
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Nice to meet you!
● Principal Coach at Elevate Change
○ Agile/Lean Coach
○ Disruptor, Developer, & Change Agent
● I am passionate about Coaching, Facilitation, & Communities
○ Simple Coaching Model (simplecoachingmodel.com)
○ Agile Lunch (agilelunch.org)
○ Powerful Questions (powerfulquestion.sheidaei.com)
Shahin Sheidaei
shahin@sheidaei.com
@sheidaei
/in/sheidaei
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Small Talk
What to expect?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Small Talk
What determines a good leader?
Introductions
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
leader
noun lead·er  ˈlē-dər 
1 : something that leads
2 : a person who leads
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Small Talk
Coaching
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
What is Coaching?
1
many
Telling Guiding
Teaching
Mentoring
Consulting
Facilitating
Coaching
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Small Talk
Coaching Group
● 3 People in a group
● Observer, Coach and Coachee
○ Observer observes, records and provides feedback
○ Coach listens and ask questions
○ Coachee provides a scenario to be coached on
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Small Talk
First Things First!
● Coach & Coachee
○ Coach : Ask for permission
■ Implicit or explicit
■ Thanks for your time, and ask me for having a conversation. Would I have your permission
to coach you?
○ Coachee: Share your thoughts
■ Be honest with the coach
● Observer: Come to me!
○ Take a look at observation handouts
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Simple Coaching Model
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Simple Coaching Model
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Simple Coaching Model
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Let me tell you my story!
I feel like you don’t know me that much!
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Levels of Listening
● Level 0 Listening ~ Not even listening
○ They talk, you don’t hear
● Level­ 1 Listening ~ Listening to Yourself
○ Thinking about your own experiences
○ Thinking of pieces of advice you can give
● Level­ 2 Listening ~ Listening to Them
○ You are listening to them
○ You are curious with them. You are dancing at the moment with them.
○ It is obvious from your posture, your body language, your attention to them
● Level­ 3 Listening ~ Listening to All
○ Listening to more than what it’s said, their body language, environment, noise, anything that can
help you listen to them.
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
What crossroads are you at?
What’s on your mind?
About What?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Debrief - Listening
Active Listening
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Which One?
What did we do
wrong?
Who is responsible for
build breaking?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Which One?
What if there was
an alternative way
to solve this
impediment?
Can you explain
why that happened?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Powerful Questions
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
What would you like to talk
about?
About What?
What’s a leadership challenge
you want to talk about?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Debrief -
Powerful Questions
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
What Else?
About What?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Debrief - Being Silent
Being Silent
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Simple Coaching Model
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
What's the challenge for you?
It’s About Them
What's stopping you?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Debrief - Them v.s. situation
Coaching Them
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
What do you want?
It’s About Them
What does it take from you to
achieve your goal?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Debrief -
Talkative?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Simple Coaching Model
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com What’s Next?
What are your options?
What are saying no to?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Debrief -
Leading Question
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com What’s Next?
What are the next steps?
What would help?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Debrief -
Long Questions
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Simple Coaching Model
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
What will you do (& by
when)?
Reflection
What was most useful?
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Debrief -
There are many,
Pick One
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Coaching & Leadership
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Coaching & Leadership
1
many
Telling Guiding
Teaching
Mentoring
Consulting
Facilitating
Coaching
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Coaching & Leadership
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
Thanks!
● Simple Coaching Model (simplecoachingmodel.com)
● Let’s give him feedback
Shahin Sheidaei
shahin@sheidaei.com
@sheidaei
/in/sheidaei

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Your Inner Leader + Coaching - Agile & Beyond

  • 1. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Your Inner Leader + Coaching Shahin Sheidaei Agile & Beyond 2018
  • 2. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Nice to meet you! ● Principal Coach at Elevate Change ○ Agile/Lean Coach ○ Disruptor, Developer, & Change Agent ● I am passionate about Coaching, Facilitation, & Communities ○ Simple Coaching Model (simplecoachingmodel.com) ○ Agile Lunch (agilelunch.org) ○ Powerful Questions (powerfulquestion.sheidaei.com) Shahin Sheidaei shahin@sheidaei.com @sheidaei /in/sheidaei
  • 3. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Small Talk What to expect?
  • 4. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Small Talk What determines a good leader? Introductions
  • 5. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com leader noun lead·er ˈlē-dər 1 : something that leads 2 : a person who leads
  • 6. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Small Talk Coaching
  • 7. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com What is Coaching? 1 many Telling Guiding Teaching Mentoring Consulting Facilitating Coaching
  • 8. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Small Talk Coaching Group ● 3 People in a group ● Observer, Coach and Coachee ○ Observer observes, records and provides feedback ○ Coach listens and ask questions ○ Coachee provides a scenario to be coached on
  • 9. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Small Talk First Things First! ● Coach & Coachee ○ Coach : Ask for permission ■ Implicit or explicit ■ Thanks for your time, and ask me for having a conversation. Would I have your permission to coach you? ○ Coachee: Share your thoughts ■ Be honest with the coach ● Observer: Come to me! ○ Take a look at observation handouts
  • 10. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Simple Coaching Model
  • 11. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Simple Coaching Model
  • 12. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Simple Coaching Model
  • 13. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Let me tell you my story! I feel like you don’t know me that much!
  • 14. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Levels of Listening ● Level 0 Listening ~ Not even listening ○ They talk, you don’t hear ● Level­ 1 Listening ~ Listening to Yourself ○ Thinking about your own experiences ○ Thinking of pieces of advice you can give ● Level­ 2 Listening ~ Listening to Them ○ You are listening to them ○ You are curious with them. You are dancing at the moment with them. ○ It is obvious from your posture, your body language, your attention to them ● Level­ 3 Listening ~ Listening to All ○ Listening to more than what it’s said, their body language, environment, noise, anything that can help you listen to them.
  • 15. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com What crossroads are you at? What’s on your mind? About What?
  • 16. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Debrief - Listening Active Listening
  • 17. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Which One? What did we do wrong? Who is responsible for build breaking?
  • 18. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Which One? What if there was an alternative way to solve this impediment? Can you explain why that happened?
  • 19. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Powerful Questions
  • 20. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com What would you like to talk about? About What? What’s a leadership challenge you want to talk about?
  • 21. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Debrief - Powerful Questions
  • 22. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com What Else? About What?
  • 23. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Debrief - Being Silent Being Silent
  • 24. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Simple Coaching Model
  • 25. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com What's the challenge for you? It’s About Them What's stopping you?
  • 26. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Debrief - Them v.s. situation Coaching Them
  • 27. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com What do you want? It’s About Them What does it take from you to achieve your goal?
  • 28. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Debrief - Talkative?
  • 29. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Simple Coaching Model
  • 30. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com What’s Next? What are your options? What are saying no to?
  • 31. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Debrief - Leading Question
  • 32. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com What’s Next? What are the next steps? What would help?
  • 33. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Debrief - Long Questions
  • 34. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Simple Coaching Model
  • 35. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com What will you do (& by when)? Reflection What was most useful?
  • 36. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Debrief - There are many, Pick One
  • 37. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Coaching & Leadership
  • 38. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Coaching & Leadership 1 many Telling Guiding Teaching Mentoring Consulting Facilitating Coaching
  • 39. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Coaching & Leadership
  • 40. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com
  • 41. Shahin Sheidaei | sheidaei.com Thanks! ● Simple Coaching Model (simplecoachingmodel.com) ● Let’s give him feedback Shahin Sheidaei shahin@sheidaei.com @sheidaei /in/sheidaei