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EALING
MAIDENHEAD
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What stops many
people negotiating?
Don’t like conflict?
Afraid to ask?
Lack of confidence?
Life is one
MASSIVE
Negotiation
6
True or false?
NEGOTIATING
Selling
Presenting
Haggling
Influencing
Conflict Management
Pitching
Positive Psychology
Buying
NEGOTIATING
Selling
Presenting
Haggling
Influencing
Conflict Management
Pitching
Positive Psychology
Buying
Rate your Negotiating Skillson a scale of
0----------100
Logic
Reading
Writing
Maths
Analytical
Visual
Intuition
Emotions
Colours
Big Picture
p97
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Look at the chart and say the COLOUR not
the word
YELLOW BLUE ORANGE BLACK
RED GREEN PURPLE YELLOW
RED ORANGE GREEN BLACK
BLUE RED PURPLE GREEN BLUE
LEFT – RIGHT CONFLICT
Your right brain tries to say the colour but
your left brain insists on reading the words
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Which direction does
the arrow go in FEDEX
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Which direction does
the arrow go in FEDEX
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In a study of qualified accountants60% said they were not good negotiators
Henley Business Schoolfound that good negotiatorsearned 100% more
Chartered Institute of
Management survey
Negotiation second
most requested training
subject
Legal Directors at Law firm
56% didn't think they were good negotiators
Black Swan
p14
p15
Pyshlocgoy
Psychology
“Olny srmat poelpe can raed this. 

The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig
to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy,
it deosn't mttaer in what oredr the ltteers in a word are,
the olny iprmoatnt tihng is that the first and last ltteer be
in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses
and you can still
raed it wouthit a porbelm.
This is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not
raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the word as a
I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! If you can raed this
psas it on !!”
Email / Social media
Telephone
Skype
Face to face?
How do you negotiate?
Emoticons :-)
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Preparation and Plan
1st Impressions
Questioning
Listening
Use your head
Body Language
Watch out for lying
Strategies and tactics
Influencing
Bargaining
Managing Conflict
Confidence
32
Scoresheet
RULES - In pairs
The objective of the game is to score as many lines as possible.
The game is the same as noughts and crosses.
p22
RULES - In pairs
The objective of the game is to score as many lines as possible.
The game is the same as noughts and crosses.
p22
X 00
X X
X X
X X
X
X
X
0 0 0
0 0 0
000
If you help others win - you might just win more
WIN / WIN / WIN
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ASSUMPTIONS
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ASSUMPTIONS
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ASSUMPTIONS
Where people were prepared to lie
141 Jeff Hancock
PREPARATION
BP - Best Position
TP - Target Position
WAP - Walk away position
AP - Alternative position
Positions
p47
BP
BP
TP
TP
WAP
WAP
ZOPA
p46
SCORE
SHEET
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Preparation and Plan
1st Impressions
Questioning
Listening
Use your head
Body Language
Watch out for lying
Strategies and tactics
Influencing
Bargaining
Managing Conflict
Confidence
32
Scoresheet
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Preparation and Plan 43
1st Impressions 61
Questioning 71
Listening 85
Use your head 97
Body Language 117
Watch out for lying 139
Strategies and tactics 151
Influencing 171
Bargaining 197
Managing Conflict 217
Confidence 237
32
TACTICS
Good Guy / bad guy
Higher
Authority
Time
Observers
Time outDumb is smart
Flinching
Plus many many other
psychological manoeuvres
151
Bargaining
and
Haggling
Separate the people fromthe problem
Keep summarising
Use variables
USP’s
Trading “If you - then we”
Have room to manouevre
BP - TP - WAP —AP
Don’t accept the first
offer
“Flinch”
Split the difference? CARE
Never say “no
problem”Why?
They just asked -
you trade!
“You become - who
you spend time with”
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T!P TOP T!PS!
HOTSPOTS!
WARNINGS!
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