This document contains information about negotiating skills training provided by Derek Arden, including his contact information and websites. It discusses common barriers to negotiating and lists negotiating skills. Graphics rate negotiating skills on a scale and show a scoresheet for tracking skills. It also provides tips, tactics and strategies for negotiation preparation, listening, questioning, influencing, bargaining, managing conflict and more.
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Look at the chart and say the COLOUR not
the word
YELLOW BLUE ORANGE BLACK
RED GREEN PURPLE YELLOW
RED ORANGE GREEN BLACK
BLUE RED PURPLE GREEN BLUE
LEFT – RIGHT CONFLICT
Your right brain tries to say the colour but
your left brain insists on reading the words
25. In a study of qualified accountants60% said they were not good negotiators
Henley Business Schoolfound that good negotiatorsearned 100% more
Chartered Institute of
Management survey
Negotiation second
most requested training
subject
Legal Directors at Law firm
56% didn't think they were good negotiators
Black Swan
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28. “Olny srmat poelpe can raed this.
The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig
to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy,
it deosn't mttaer in what oredr the ltteers in a word are,
the olny iprmoatnt tihng is that the first and last ltteer be
in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses
and you can still
raed it wouthit a porbelm.
This is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not
raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the word as a
I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! If you can raed this
psas it on !!”
29. Email / Social media
Telephone
Skype
Face to face?
How do you negotiate?
Emoticons :-)
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Preparation and Plan
1st Impressions
Questioning
Listening
Use your head
Body Language
Watch out for lying
Strategies and tactics
Influencing
Bargaining
Managing Conflict
Confidence
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Scoresheet
31.
32. RULES - In pairs
The objective of the game is to score as many lines as possible.
The game is the same as noughts and crosses.
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33. RULES - In pairs
The objective of the game is to score as many lines as possible.
The game is the same as noughts and crosses.
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34. X X
X X
X X
X
X
X
0 0 0
0 0 0
000
If you help others win - you might just win more
WIN / WIN / WIN
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Preparation and Plan
1st Impressions
Questioning
Listening
Use your head
Body Language
Watch out for lying
Strategies and tactics
Influencing
Bargaining
Managing Conflict
Confidence
32
Scoresheet
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Preparation and Plan 43
1st Impressions 61
Questioning 71
Listening 85
Use your head 97
Body Language 117
Watch out for lying 139
Strategies and tactics 151
Influencing 171
Bargaining 197
Managing Conflict 217
Confidence 237
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47. TACTICS
Good Guy / bad guy
Higher
Authority
Time
Observers
Time outDumb is smart
Flinching
Plus many many other
psychological manoeuvres
151
48. Bargaining
and
Haggling
Separate the people fromthe problem
Keep summarising
Use variables
USP’s
Trading “If you - then we”
Have room to manouevre
BP - TP - WAP —AP
Don’t accept the first
offer
“Flinch”
Split the difference? CARE
Never say “no
problem”Why?
They just asked -
you trade!