Stephen R. Covey's book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People®, has been a top-seller for the simple reason that it ignores trends and pop psychology for proven principles of fairness, integrity, honesty, and human dignity. Celebrating its fifteenth year of helping people solve personal and professional problems, this special anniversary edition includes a new foreword and afterword written by Covey exploring the question of whether the 7 Habits are still relevant and answering some of the most common questions he has received over the past 15 years.

1. Group 30
1. Keo Song 47764 6. Pich Panha 74416
2. Lean Sreynich 66728 7. Porng Kuychheng 67206
3. Mao Sovithyea 65990 8. Sorn Piseth 65597
4. Sam Sanstar 51467
5. Khan Chanphanith 54808
Subject : Personal Growth and Development
Instructor: Dr. Kol Pheng
The 7 HABITS of Highly Effective Teens – Sean COVEY

2. I Am the Force
Habit I Be Proactive

3. Proactive Person
 Are not easily offended
 Take responsibility for their choices
 Think before they act
 Bounce back when something bad happens
 Always find a way to make it happen
 Focus on things they can do something about,
and don’t worry about things they can’t

4. Reactive Person
 Are easily offended
 Blame others
 Get angry and say things they later regret
 Whine and complain
 Wait for things to happen to them
 Change only when they have to

5. Say no to Reactive

6. CHOICE IS YOURS

8. Habit II Begin with the
End in Mind

9.  You have to set your goal before you go.
 You are the drivers of you life and you have to
draw your way to go.
 Taking Control of your Destiny.
 You have to think the positives and negatives
consequence for what you plan to do.
 The way you choose will be affect to your future.

10. CROSSROADS OF LIFE
 The Paths you choose today can be
shape you forever.

11. What About Friend?
 Friend can have influence on you.
 Sometime we better have no friend
rather than to have the wrong friend.
 The paths that you had said will
influence by your Friend.
 What type of friend do you want to
have?

12. What About sex?
 It is the important decision with huge
consequence
 We are free to choose our paths, but we
can’t choose the consequence which
come with them.
 The consequence of your action will be
affect of your future life.

13. What About school?
 You have to decide which school will be
shape your future in the major way.
 Which school will you choose?

14. A Personal Mission
Statement
 More you find out for your own personal
mission statement is more you can shape
your goal.
 Write the personal mission statement is
like you had prepare or set your plan to do.

15. Getting Started on your
Mission Statement
 Method#1: The Quote Collection. Collect one to five of
your very favorite quotes onto one sheet of paper.
 Method#2: The Brain Dump. Speed write about your
mission for fifteen minutes.
 Method#3: The Retreat. Plan a large chunk of time, like
an entire afternoon.
 Method#4: The big Lazy. If you’re really lazy, use the
U.S Army’s slogan “Be all that you can be.

16. Habit III Put first things first

17.  The Habit 3 of Will Power ( The Strength
to say yes to your most important thing ).
 The Habit 3 of Won’t Power ( the strength
to say no to less important thing and to
peer pressure).

18. Packing More Into Your LIFE
-The better you organize yourself, the
more you’ll able to pack in- more time
for join your life style.
-Especially important thing between
important and urgent .
-We spend our time in four different time
quadrants.

19. The time quadrants

20.  Quadrant 1: The procrastinator
-Thing that are both urgent and important. There will
always be Q1 thing that we can’t control and that must
get done, like helping a sick
Child or meeting an important deadline.
Quadrant 2 : the Prioritizer
-Q2 is made of the thing that are important but, not urgent.

21.  Quadrant 3: The yes Man
- Q3 represents thing that are urgent but not important.
- It is characterized by trying to please other people and
responding to their every desire.
Quadrant 4 : The Slacker
- Q4 is the category of waste and excess. These actives
are neither urgent nor important.

22.  Pick Up A Planner:
-Planner of some sort that has calendar to
write down appointments assignment, to do
list, and goals.
Plan weekly
- Step1: Identify your big rocks.
- Step 2 : Block out time for your big rock
- Step 3 : Schedule everything Else .

23.  Adapt Daily:
- Weekly plan in place, adapt each day as needed.
 Does it really work ?
-You bet it does..
 The Other Half:
-Time Management isn’t all there is to Habit. It’s only
other half is learning to overcome fear and peer
pressure.

25. Think Win-Win
 Think Win-Win is an attitude toward life, a mental
frame of mind that says I can win, and so you can.
It’s not me or you, it’s both of us.

26. Win-Lose-The Totem Pole
 Win-Lose is an
attitude toward life
that says the pie of
success is only so big.
It is competitive and
comparing.

27. Lose-Win-The Doormat
 Lose-Win is an
attitude you’ll find
yourself setting like
low expectations
and compromising
your standards
again and again.

28. Lose-Lose-The Downward Spiral
 Lose-Lose says, “If I’m going to down, then
you’re going to down with me, sucker.”

29. Win-Win-The All-You-Can-Eat Buffet
 Win-win is a belief
everyone can win. It's
not either you or me.
It's both of us. It's not
matter of who gets the
biggest piece of pie.

30. Habit V Seek First To Understand,
Then to be understood

31.  - The key to communication and having power and
influence with people can be sum up in these
sentence:
 • Seek first to understand, then to be understood
 • Listen first, and then talk second
 - So that mean you can’t trust people who give
you solution before they understand what you
need.

32.  - Many people have left out the most important
key to communication, which is listening. It is the
deepest need of the human heart to be
understood.
These are the conditions of human need to avoid and
need to use :
 1.Five poor listening styles:
 2.Genuine listening (in the action)
 3.Communicating with parent

33.  1. Five Poor listening styles
 Here, these are the 5 types of the poor listening:
 A. Spacing out
 We ignore people because our mind is wandering
off in another way.
 B. Pretend listening
 We still aren’t paying much attention to the
speaker, but at least we pretend to make some
insightful comments.

34.  C. Selective Listening
 Pay attention only to the part that interests us
 D. Word listening
 We listen only to the words (not body language or the true
meaning)
 Thus, you miss out on what’s really being said
 E. Self-centered listening
 Happens when we see everything from our own point of
view We usually reply in three ways (judge, advise,
probe)
 • Judging: as we listen to someone, sometime we make
judgments about them and what they are saying.
 • Advising: this is when we give advice drawn from our
own
 experience.
 • Probing: occurs when you try to dig up emotions
before people
 are ready to share about them.

35.  2. Genuine listening:
 There are three components of genuine listening:
 • First, listen with your eyes, heart, and ears.
 • Second, Stand in their shoes.you stand of other people
mind and try to understand about them.
 • Third, practice mirroring. It’s only reflect of what you
 saying in front of mirror

36.  3.Communication with parents:
 If you take the time to understand and listen to
your parents, two incredible things will happen.
 • First, you’ll gain a greater respect for them
 • Second, if you take the time to understand and
listen to your parent, you’ll get your way much
more often.
 So, if they feel that you understand them, they’ll
be much more willing to listen to you, and they
will much more flexible, and they will trust you
more.

37.  Seeking first to understand requires consideration, but
seeking to be understood require courage.
 Giving feedback is an important part of seeking to be
understood.
 • First, you need to ask yourself of the question “Will
this feedback really help to you and suitable to you?”.
 • Second, you need to change the word “I” instead of
“You”. That mean when you want to have critic to
someone, you must to think about your feeling to
compare with their feeling.

38. Habit VI Synergize

39.  “Alone we can do so little; together
we can do so much”
~Hellen Keller

40. What does Synergize mean?
 Synergize is achieved when two or more
people work together to create a better
solution than either could alone.

41. Synergy is
Celebrating differences
Teamwork
Open-mindedness
Finding new and better
way
Synergy is not
Tolerating difference
Working independently
Thinking you’re always
right
Compromise

42. Synergize Is Everywhere
 Synergy is everywhere in nature. Many plants
and animals live together in symbiotic
relationships.
 • Synergize is not anything new. A good band is a
great examples of synergy.

43. Celebrating Differences
 Synergy doesn’t just happen. It’s a process. Learn
to celebrate them.
 Since this diversity around you is ever increasing,
there are 3 possible approaches that can take:
Level 1:
Shun
diversity
Level2:
Tolerate
diversity
Level 3:
Celebrate
diversity

44. Teamwork and Synergy
 Great teams are usually made up of five
or more different types of people:
• PLODDERS
• FOLLOWERS
• INNOVATORS
• HARMONIZERS
• SHOW- OFFS

45. Habit VII Sharpen The Saw

46.  • Habit 7 is all about keeping your personal
self“sharp” so that you can better deal with
life and so that you feel that you are worth
a lot!
 • It means renewing and strengthening the
four key dimensions of your life. they are
body, brain, hart,and soul

47. Balance Is Better
 Why is balance so important?
One dimension of life will affect
the other three.
 To sharpen yourself in a good way is to
have balance in all four dimension areas.

48. Four Dimension Of Your Life
Body
Heart Soul
Brain

49. Caring For Your Body
 • First dimension of life is your body.
 • You need to take care of your body, and your body
will take care of you.
 • Here are the four key ingredients to a healthy body
are:
 ❖Good sleeping habit
 ❖Physical relaxation
 ❖Good nutrition
 ❖Proper exercise
Body

50. Caring For Your Brain
 Second dimension of life is your brain.
 • Developing brain power through your schooling,
extracurricular activities, hobbies, jobs and other
mind-enlarging experiences.
 • There are many ways to exercise or sharpen your
mind.
Brain

51. Caring For Your Heart
 Third dimension of life is your heart.
 • The best way to sharpen your heart is to focus
on building relationship bank account.
 • RBA (Relationship Bank Account) deposits:
 ❖Keep promises
 ❖Do small acts of kindness
 ❖Be loyal
 ❖Listen
 ❖Say you’re sorry
 ❖Set clear expectations
Heart

52. Caring For Your Soul
 • The last dimension of life is your soul.
 • Your soul is a very private area of your life.
 • You can feed your soul in many different
ways:
 ❖Meditating
 ❖Writing in your journal
 ❖Reading inspiring book
 ❖Thinking deeply
Soul