2. What is Etiquette?
A fancy word for getting along with others
Politeness
Poise
Confidence
A code that governs the expectations of social behavior
3. Why Do We Need Etiquette?
There’s no such thing as a vacation from good manners.
To be at ease by showing more confidence and poise in
business & social situations.
Increases the likelihood that your calls, appointments and
emails will be received positively.
To come across as the polished professional you really are!
5. Make a Good First Impression
You meet a colleague for the first time. How do you
introduce yourself?
A.Give them a big hug
B.Say “What’s up dude…cool to meet you.”
C.Say “I’m (name), nice to meet you.
D.Offer a firm handshake and make eye-contact
E.Both C and D
6. Make a Good First Impression
Avoid slang
Establish eye contact
Avoid “the hug”
Avoid a limp handshake
Always introduce yourself
Know who should be introduced first
Higher-ups first
Females before males
Present a business card
If a higher up, only do this if they do it first
7. Elevator etiquette
Common sense dictates that the people closest to the
elevator doors get on first.
If you want to be at the front when it’s time to get out, go in
and stand by the buttons, out of the way.
Or go in last.
Or if you are in the very front waiting for your floor,
however, you show good manners if you move outside the
doors to allow people to exit from the back
9. Do’s and Don’ts
Do wait for a female business colleague to initiate the
greeting. Indian men do not generally shake hands with
women out of respect.
Do use titles whenever possible, such as “Professor” or
“Doctor”. If the person doesn’t have an official title, use
“Mr.”,“Mrs.”, or “Miss” and their last name.
Don’t refuse any food or drink offered to you during
business meetings.
10. Dress for Success
It’s “Casual Friday”…what would you wear to
the office?
Guys Girls
A.A business suit A. A business suit
B.Shorts and sandals B. A mini skirt and halter top
C.Ripped jeans C. Tight jeans
D.Khakis and a polo D. Nice slacks and a nice blouse
11. Dress for Success
Dress for the occasion
Avoid over-accessorizing
Steer clear of anything too gaudy, too short, or too tight
Think of “Casual Friday” as if it were an ordinary day without a
necktie or business suit – and, you still have to “look”
professional!
12. Cubicle Etiquette
Imagine an invisible door. Don’t just enter someone’s cubicle.
If they look deep in thought, leave them alone.
If they are on the phone, don’t try to get their attention with
gestures.
Be aware how your voice projects.
Speaker phones and cubes don’t mix.
13. Cubicle Etiquette
Others can hear what you say, and could judge you by your
words.
Keep personal phone conversations to a minimum.
Don’t be a cubicle “lurker”.
Keep your cubicle neat and uncluttered.
14.
15. “Netiquette” – Internet Manners
“I need thisASAP”
“Come see me now”
“Why did you tell them this?”
“I NEED MORETIME”
“Meet me in the braek room”
To: jennifer@nmsu.edu
Cc: robert@nmsu.edu
Cc: Sandi@nmsu.edu
Cc: matt@nmsu.edu
Why are these rude/annoying??
16. “Netiquette” – Internet Manners
Be concise, clear, and conversational in style
Your words are a forward or blind-copy away from anyone
Don’t abuse the Cc: button
Spel check, spell chek, speill chick
Avoid the “chain mail” trap
Don’t be too informal
In most instances, use lowercase
Uppercase implies shouting
17. “The 5 Commandments”
E-mail only those to whom the message pertains
M-ake a point to respond promptly
A-lways check spelling and grammar
I-nclude your telephone number in your message
L-earn “nettiquette”
What you write can be forever stored!!
19. Travel Do’s and Don’ts
Flying is the most common mode of transportation.While flying,
remember:
Get to the airport early
Don’t hold up the security line
Dress appropriately
Be considerate when walking down the aisles
Share the armrest
Don’t recline your seat all the way back
20. More Do’s and Don’ts
Drink water, not alcohol
Mind your business
Don’t talk to your neighbor unless they want to
Avoid getting up and down
When exiting, let those in front of you exit first
22. Social Situations: How not to be a Social
Outcast
View the event as an opportunity to network.
Prepare some small talk in advance.
Mingle and circulate. Don’t be a clique!
Dress appropriately
Go easy on the food and drink.
Seek out the host to show appreciation for the event.
Don’t overstay your welcome.
Remember, people are taking notes. Don’t give them a
performance they will remember forever.
23. Eating in Public:
You sit at the table and want to take a
drink of water. There is a glass on your
left and right. Which one do you drink
from?
A.Right
B.Left
C.Grab one from another table
D.Forget it, I will go thirsty!!
25. Eating in Public:
You excuse yourself to use the
restroom. Where do you place
your napkin?
A.On the floor
B.Folded on the table
C.On your chair
D.Take it with you
26. Eating in Public:
You have finished eating your meal.
How do you let the waiter know?
A.Yell at him.
B.Mash your napkin on your plate so you
won’t eat anymore.
C.Push your plate(s) away from you.
D.Place your utensils at 10:20 (10 and 4).
27. Remember:
Eat from the outside in
Liquids to the right, solids to the left
5 letters: D-R-I-N-K / R-I-G-H-T
4 letters: F-O-O-D / L-E-F-T
No elbows on the table
Don’t talk with your mouth full
Use your napkin properly
Have good posture
Pace yourself – Don’t eat too fast or slow
No makeup at the table
Don’t use your cell phone
Pass correctly – Don’t reach over people.
Pass salt and pepper together
29. Cell Phone Quiz
I keep my cell phone on during meetings so everyone can reach
me.
I answer the phone in a restaurant.
I tend to talk louder on my cell phone than I do using a landline.
I instantly answer my phone when it rings no matter how many
people are close around me.
30. How Did You Fare?
Yes to 4 statements:You are reachable but others probably think
you are rude.
Yes to 3 statements: Now you’re maybe a little lower on the
“rude” scale.
Yes to 1 or 2 statements:You are more civil than most cell users.
No to all statements:You are the master of cell phone etiquette.
31. Cell Do’s and Cell Don’ts
Use your “inside voice” or even quieter.
Walk away from others when talking.
Turn your phone off or on vibrate during events.
Never answer your phone during an event.
Be careful when driving.
32. Common Etiquette Mistakes
Making introductions in the wrong order.
Showing up late for an important appointment.
Talking on your cell at the table or during events.
Improper napkin use.
Drinking too much at functions.
Improper uses of email.
Walking into a person’s cubicle without asking permission.
33. Work
Conferences
On the phone
Traveling
Dining
Yeah, great stuff, but when will I use it?
Social events
In line at store
Online
Entertaining
Driving
Etiquette is the key to surviving all human contact
with your self-esteem, sense of humor, and self-
confidence intact!!
34. What do you think are the advantages of
BUSINESS ETIQUETTE ?
35. In Conclusion…
“Your manners are always under examination, and by
committees little suspected, awarding or denying you
very high prizes when you least expect it”
-Ralph Waldo Emerson