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       BOOK I   WISDOM OF THE AGES
WISDOM OF THE AGES
" Knowledge is a process of
"Choices are thewisdom of
 piling up facts; hinges lies
destiny” simplification”
 in their

               ~Pythagoras
            ~ Martin Fischer



                                                                                         H E R S I N M O T IO N
                                                                                  FA T




                                  A Father shares wisdom drawn from his reading, learning from others and lessons or
                                  decisions, be they good or bad, that he has learned along the way.

                                  These are based on hard experience or from reflection. This is shared so your son or
                                  daughter learns from your Insights, hopefully to not make the same mistakes and
                                  learns from what you believe works.

                                  This unit is a treasure trove! We include the five key learning principles from 52
                                  books, for 52 weeks, from some of the world’s greatest sages, leaders and fathers
                                  who have a mass of wisdom to share. This includes writings from the 6th Century
                                  B.C. to today. Many fathers have not had the opportunity or the time to read the
                                  vast pool of books avaiable to them let alone had time to share these with their
                                  growing child. We provide these in a summary version with our sincere purpose
                                  that you may dip into these, find those that resonate with you and merge them
                                  with your own experiences - a vision to enrich both you and those around you.
                                  The art of life is both profound and its duration fleetingly short, so with our sincere
                                  love for you and life’s journey!

                                  Enjoy and Share

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                                 AUTHOR                                   TITLE                              YEAR

                          1      Lao Tzu                                  The Tao te Ching                   6th Century B.C.
                          2      Sun Tzu                                  The Art of War                     4th Century B.C.
                          3      Marcus Aurelius                          Meditations                        AD 170
                          4      Horatio Alger                            Ragged Dick                        1867
                          5      Ralph Waldo Emerson                      The Selected Writings of           1882
                                                                          Ralph Waldo Emerson
                          6      Orison Swett Marden                      Pushing to the Front, or           1894
                                                                          Success under Difficulties
                          7      James Allen                              As A Man Thinketh                  1903
                          8      Andrew Carnegie                          Autobiography of Andrew            1920
                                                                          Carnegie
                          9      Russell Conwell                          Acres of Diamonds                  1921
                          10     George Clason                            The Richest Man in Babylon         1926
                          11     Napoleon Hill                            Think & Grow Rich                  1937
                          12     Florence Scovel Schinn                   The Secret Door to Success         1940
                          13     Dale Carnegie                            Stop Worrying And Start Living     1944
                          14     Vicktor Frankel                          Man's Search For Meaning           1946
                          15     Claude Bristol                           The Magic of Believing             1948
                          16     Les Giblin                               How to have Confidence and         1956
                                                                          Power in Dealing with People
                          17 David Schwartz                               The Magic of Thinking Big          1959
                          18 Napoleon Hill &                              Success through a Positive         1960
                             W. Clement Stone                             Mental Attitude
                          19 Catherine Ponder                             The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity     1962
                          20 W. Timothy Gallwey                           The Inner Game of Tennis           1974
                          21 Zig Ziglar                                   See You At The Top                 1975
                          22 Tom Hopkins                                  The Official Guide                 1982
                                                                          to Success
                          23 David Reynolds                               Constructive Loving                1984
                          24 Louise Hay                                   You Can Heal Your Life             1984
                          25 Anthony Robbins                              Unlimited Power: The New           1986
                                                                          Science of Personal Achievement
                          26 Warren Bennis                                On Becoming a Leader               1989
                          27 Stephen Covey                                The 7 Habits of Highly Effective   1989
                                                                          People
                          28 Brian Tracy                                  Maximum Achievement                1993
                          29 Deepak Chopra                                The Seven Spiritual Laws Of        1994
                                                                          Success
                          30 Warren Buffet                                Buffet: The Making of an           1995
                             (by Roger Lowenstein)                        American Capitalist

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“You cannot do anything                  AUTHOR                                   TITLE                              YEAR
about the length of your life
                                  31     Nathaniel Branden                        The Six Pillars Of Self-Esteem     1995
but you can do something
                                  32     Robert Kiyosaki                          Rich Dad Poor Dad                  1997
about it’s width and depth”       33     Don Miguel Ruiz                          The Four Agreements                1997
                                  34     Spencer Johnson                          Who Moved My Cheese                1998
               ~Shira Tehrani     35     Cheryl Richardson                        Take Time for Your Life            1998
                                  36     Debbie Ford                              The Dark Side Of The Light         1998
                                                                                  Chasers
                                  37     Michael Dell                             Direct from Dell                   1999
                                  38     Dan Millman                              Body Mind Mastery                  1999
                                  39     Richard Koch                             The 80/20 Principle                1999
                                  40     Bill Phillips                            Body For Life                      1999
                                  41     Thomas Stanley                           The Millionaire Mind               2000
                                  42     Robin Sharma                             The Saint, The Surfer And The      2002
                                                                                  CEO
                                  43 Martin Seligman                              Authentic Happiness                2002
                                  44 Richard Wiseman                              The Luck Factor                    2003
                                  45 Byron Katie                                  Loving What Is                     2003
                                  46 Jack Canfield                                The Success Principles             2004
                                  47 Wayne Dyer                                   The Power Of Intention             2005
                                  48 Rhonda Byrne                                 The Secret                         2006
                                  49 Russell Simmons                              Do You!                            2007
                                  50 Rupert McKerron                              How To Have A Big Life             2007
                                  51 Marci Shimoff with                           Happy For No Reason                2008
                                     Carol Kline
                                  52 Esther and Jerry Hicks                       Money, And The Law Of Attraction   2008


                                  Bonus Extra:

                                  A series of Quotations are included at the back of this Unit. You can use these or your
                                  own favorite quotes to weave into your conversations to enhance your content when
                                  sharing stories and wisdom with your Son.


                                                                          Read well, think clearly.
                                                          Expose his mind to good stuff, eventually good stuff will come out!




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Book 1                                 Lao Tzu
                                       The Tao te Ching
- 6th Century B.C.

- Philosopher in ancient               • I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion.
  China
                                       • A great nation is like a man. When he makes a mistake, he realizes
- Central figure in Chinese              it. Having realized it, he admits it. Having admitted it, he corrects it.
  culture
                                       • The Master gives himself up to whatever the moment brings.
- Name of book means
“The Way”                              • Prevent trouble before it arises.

                                       • If you realize that all things change, there is nothing you will try to
                                         hold on to.




                                      ELEM E n T
                                  KEY



                                       If your happiness depends on money, you will never be happy with
                                       yourself. Be content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are.




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BOOK 2                                  Sun Tzu
                                        The Art of War
- 4th century B.C.
                                        • Leadership through character: have self knowledge, observe others
- Same era as Confucius                   and the situation for knowledge is the principal weapon.
in Northern China
                                        • Be attuned to the Tao, the guiding spirit of the Universe.

- Brilliant military strategist         • The ultimate warrior is one who wins the war by forcing the enemy to
                                          surrender without fighting any battles.
- Not only about war but
about an approach to life               • Take the larger view and see the whole situation clearly, control the
                                          form of engagement without reacting to it.
- Widely used in business
  schools and by business               • Do not prolong but seek to be a master of timing, if you battle then
  leaders                                 build momentum and strike hard and get away quickly.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        War is the ultimate form of conflict.

                                        The best way to approach conflict is be detached for the angry general
                                        loses.




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BOOK 3                                 Marcus Aurelius
                                       Meditations
- 170 A.D., often translated
                                       • Never confuse yourself by visions of an entire lifetime at once.
- Journal of a Roman
  Emperor in a war                     • The approval of such men, who do not even stand well in their own
  campaign                               eyes, has no value for him.

                                       • When force of circumstance upsets your equanimity, lose no time in
                                         recovering your self-control and do not remain out of tune longer than
                                         you can help.

                                       • Everything – a horse, a vine – is created for some duty… for what
                                         task, then, were you yourself created? A man’s true delight is to do
                                         the things he was made for.

                                       • Nothing is worth doing pointlessly.




                                      ELEM E n T
                                  KEY




                                       Your mind will be like its habitual thoughts; for the soul becomes dyed
                                       with the color of its thoughts. If you are distressed by anything external,
                                       the pain is not due to the thing itself but to your own estimate of it; and
                                       this you have the power to revoke at any moment.




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BOOK 4                                  Horatio Alger
                                        Ragged Dick
- 1867

- Horatio was admitted to               • Be diligent, seek good fortune and you will make your own luck
  Harvard at 16 and spoke
  four languages                        • Whatever you do, do it to the best of your ability

- He ran away to Paris at               • Be a reader
  one stage
                                        • Save, but be generous
- Returned to USA, ordained
  as a minister and focused             • Honesty, never cheat, steal or lie
  on plight of disadvantaged
  children                              • Do not drink or smoke

- Novel of a poor boy in New
  York in squalid 1800’s
  who goes from shining
  shoes to respectability
  and wealth
tt


                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Whatever you do, do it honestly and to the best of your ability and you
                                        will make your own luck




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BOOK 5                                  Ralph Waldo Emerson
                                        The Selected Writings Of Ralph Waldo Emerson
- 1882

- 19th Century leading                  • Trust thyself.
American philosopher
                                        • Sow a thought and you reap an action; sow an act and you reap a
                                          habit; sow a habit and you reap a character; sow a character and you
                                          reap a destiny.

                                        • Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no
                                          path and leave a trail. God will not have his work made manifest by
                                          cowards. Always, always, always, always do what you are afraid to do.

                                        • Good thoughts are no better than good dreams, unless they be
                                          executed!

                                        • Good luck is another name for tenacity of purpose.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Enthusiasm is one of the most powerful engines of success. When you
                                        do a thing, do it with all your might. Put your whole soul into it. Stamp it
                                        with your own personality. Be active, be energetic, be enthusiastic and
                                        faithful, and you will accomplish your object. Nothing great was ever
                                        achieved without enthusiasm.




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BOOK 6                                  Orison Swett Marden
                                        Pushing To The Front, or Success Under Difficulties
- 1894

- Book has 70 chapters and              • Follow your calling – do whatever you choose, yet become a master
  900 pages and a seminal                 at it.
  work of its time
                                        • A slow penny is surer than a quick dollar.
- Lived in foster homes after
  parents died when he was              • Nerve, pluck, persistence and grit.
  only 7
                                        • Overcome difficulties for character is built through adversity.
- Several Harvard degrees
                                        • Seize common occasions and make them great.
- He built and subsequently
  lost a hotel chain business

- Published on average two
  books a year




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        There are few things that cannot be achieved by sheer determination
                                        and effort.




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BOOK 7                                 James Allen
                                       As A Man Thinketh
- 1903, republished several
  times and is a small
  48-page book                         • You will be what you will to be. The oak sleeps in the acorn.

- Did not finish school,               • A man's mind may be likened to a garden, which may be intelligently
  having to work early to                cultivated or allowed to run wild; but whether cultivated or neglected,
  support family as father               it must, and will, bring forth. If no useful seeds are put into it, then an
  was murdered                           abundance of useless weed seeds will fall therein, and will continue
                                         to produce their kind.
- At 38, moved to small
  cottage to a life of                 •The body is the servant of the mind. It obeys the operations of the
  contemplation                         mind, whether they be deliberately chosen or automatically
                                        expressed. With unlawful thoughts the body sinks rapidly into disease
- Enduring classic for over a           and decay.
  century
                                       • The dreamers are the saviors of the world. Calmness of mind is one
- Wrote 19 books in                      of the beautiful jewels of wisdom. Until thought is linked with purpose
  Victorian England                      there is no intelligent accomplishment.

                                       • There can be no progress, no achievement without sacrifice.


                                      ELEM E n T
                                  KEY




                                       As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. All that a man achieves and all
                                       that he fails to achieve is the direct result of his own thoughts.




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BOOK 8                                  Andrew Carnegie
                                        Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie
- 1920

- In his day, the world’s               • Leaders are readers and wealth is created from better knowledge and
  richest man                             better thinking.

- Born 1835, self made he               • Master you: master your moods, ensuring a sunny disposition; to be
  started as a railway clerk              ‘yourself’ you have to have spent time working out who you are; travel
                                          broadens a man.
- Worked his way to building
  the largest iron and steel            • Talk to people, not at them; enlarge your circle.
  factory
                                        • Work with others, using their reputations and spreading risk.
- Donated $100 million to
  public libraries                      • Seek knowledge and value with higher motives, not money alone.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Focus, for ‘I have rarely if ever met a man who achieved prominence in
                                        money-making….who was interested in many concerns’.




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BOOK 9                                 Russell Conwell
                                       Acres of Diamonds
- 1921
- Author fought in the Civil           • Be open-minded.
  War as a commissioned
  officer                              • Great service is basic to prosperity.

- He was a lawyer, travelling          • Genuine service is simple.
  reporter and pastor,
  founding Temple University           • Leave time for meditation and contemplation of your diamonds that
  in Philadelphia                        are likely to be so near.

- Fable of man who lived in            • Greatest people are always straightforward.
  Persia who sold his farm
  to go seek his fortune, yet
  it ended in death and
  tragedy

- On the farm he sold, the
  new owner noticed a glint
  in the watery sands, acres
  of diamonds


                                      ELEM E n T
                                  KEY




                                       Wealth is often close by and folly going off to seek your fortune.

                                       There is no need to look beyond yourself and your immediate
                                       circumstances to find the seeds of your fortune.




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BOOK 10                                 George Clason
                                        The Richest Man in Babylon
- 1926

- More than 1.5 million                 • Law 1: pay yourself first, money comes to those who save 10%
  copies sold
                                        • Law 2: money multiplies for those who invest it
- Fable of two poor friends,
  a musician and chariot                • Law 3: money stays with the person who entrusts it to wise people
  builder, in ancient Babylon
  who seek a wealthy                    • Law 4: money is lost when invested in things with which you are not
  friend’s advice as wealth               familiar
  does not create happiness,
  it does enhance the                   • Law 5: money is lost at a fast rate when pursuing get-rich-quick
  quality of life                         schemes




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Without wisdom, gold is quickly lost by those who have it, but with
                                        wisdom, gold can be secured by those who have it not.




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BOOK 11                                 Napoleon Hill
                                        Think & Grow Rich
- 1937

- 15 million copies                     •Wealth creation is a product of the mind, combining reasoning,
                                         imagination and tenacity
- Born 1883 in a poor one
  room cabin                            •Attuned to Infinite Intelligence is a source of ideas and ultimately
                                         wealth
- Advisor to President
  Roosevelt 20 years                    • Thoughts create their physical equivalent overtime
  interviewing wealthy
  tycoons including Ford,               • Natural sexual energy can be harnessed and channeled
  Edison & Andrew Carnegie
                                        •Uniqueness, expressed in a refined idea or product, consistently
- His quest was to                       focused upon will lead to great monetary reward
  understand “how the
  wealthy become that way”




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Tend to the source of wealth, which is inherently intangible (faith, vision
                                        and persistence)




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BOOK 12                                 Florence Scovel Schinn
                                        The Secret Door to Success
- 1940
                                        • Let go long enough for the law of attraction to operate, you have
                                          never seen an anxious magnet
- Published shortly before
  her death
                                        • In a relaxed state of expectancy, expect the best
- Uses Biblical and related
                                        • Prepare for good things and act, prosperously
  illustrative stories
                                        • Intuition is the Infinite Intelligence’s magic
- Artistic career and
  children’s book illustrator
                                        • Practice faith over fear for success is a system
- Published shortly before
  her death

- Author of several
  successful books




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Have faith and dissolve your barriers through positive expectations.




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BOOK 13                                Dale Carnegie
                                       How To Stop Worrying And Start Living
- 1944, republished many
  times
                                       • Live in “day-tight compartments”
- More than 6 million copies
  sold                                 • Stop going around in circles, arrive at a fixed purpose and make
                                         definite decisions
- Recognized leader in self
  improvement teachings                • Don’t cry over spilled milk

                                       • Rest often, before you get tired, just learn how to relax

                                       • Realize that people are not thinking about you and rather focus
                                         on getting busy




                                      ELEM E n T
                                  KEY




                                       Worry will make you ill. Given that knowledge isn’t power until applied:

                                       1.   Write down what is worrying you
                                       2.   Write down what you can do about it
                                       3.   Decide what to do
                                       4.   Start immediately to carry out that decision



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Book 14                                 Viktor Frankel
                                        Man’s Search For Meaning
- 1946, republished 1997
                                        • Everything can be taken from a man but one thing, to choose one’s
- Holocaust survivor                      attitude in any given set of circumstance, to choose one’s own way.

- M.D. and PhD                          •Discover life’s meaning in
                                              (a) having a deed
- Chronicles Nazi                             (b) experience and encounters with others
  concentration camp                          (c) attitude we adopt to suffering
  experiences
                                        • What man actually needs is not a tensionless state but rather the
                                          striving and struggling for some goal worthy of him.

                                        •Logotherapy: man’s main concern is fulfilling a meaning and
                                         actualizing values, rather than in the mere gratification of drives.

                                        • Don’t aim at success as a target, for like happiness it cannot be
                                          pursued, it must ensure as an unintended consequence of one’s
                                          personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself.

                                        • Be unique but it will be difficult – everyone’s task is as unique as is
                                          his specific opportunity to implement it, what is to give light must
                                          endure burning.


                                      ELEM E n T
                                  KEY




                                        We have ultimate responsibility for choosing our responses to
                                        challenges and manifesting our personal meaningful life. Love is the
                                        ultimate and the highest goal to which man can aspire – a man who
                                        has nothing can still have bliss.



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BOOK 15                                 Claude Bristol
                                        The Magic of Believing
- 1948

- Author was a World War I              • Belief underpins destiny, your subconscious servant.
  soldier, journalist and
  speaker eventually                    • The intensity of your beliefs and thoughts act as a transmitter to
  becoming an investment                  future events.
  banker and businessman
                                        • Mental pictures of wealth are as positive as mental pictures of what
- The book is difficult to                you fear, are destructive.
  read yet simple in its
  message                               • The terrific force of thought repetition, combined with action.

                                        • Developing a ‘knowing’ in your beliefs is the main determinant of
                                          success.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        The golden thread is Belief. Undoubtedly, we become what we envisage.




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BOOK 16                                 Les Giblin
                                        How to have Confidence and Power in Dealing with People
- 1956

- Author of several books               • Recognize everyone has a divine spark within them.

- Skills consultant to large            • Believe each person you deal with is important.
  U.S. companies
                                        • Calmly present the facts, allowing each to make up their own mind,
- Recognized as Salesman                  do not force the argument.
  of the Year (1965)
                                        • Self esteem is important - do not put the other person in a position
                                          where they need to save face, be sarcastic or poke fun.

                                        • Engage and draw forth relaxed friendliness.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Genuinely give appreciation and acceptance of others.




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BOOK 17                                 David Schwartz
                                        The Magic of Thinking Big
- 1959

- Several million copies sold           • Big ideas and big plans are no more difficult than small plans.

- Author’s belief that a                • Plenty of room at the top – enlarge your personal desire and
  person is best measured                 imagination of yourself and act on it.
  by the size of their dreams
                                        • Spend time alone with your thoughts and find the quiet route to
- Professor at Georgia State              success.
  University
                                        • “Excusitis” is failure’s disease, use conscious self-belief.
- Businessman and author
  of several bestsellers                • Go first class, get advice and spend time with successful people.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Believe Big, the size of your success is determined by the size of your
                                        desires and belief.




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BOOK 18                                 Napoleon Hill & W. Clement Stone
                                        Success through a Positive Mental Attitude
- 1960

- W. Clement Stone, died                • “It can be done” philosophy where focus on faith and not fear.
  age 100, born in poverty
  and self made, donated                • Embrace life for wealth is attracted to those who have pleasing
  $275 million to charity                 personalities whose attitude is big, generous and merciful.

- Napoleon Hill was advisor             • First 5 Principles: positive mental attitude; definiteness of purpose;
  to President Roosevelt                  going the extra mile; accurate thinking; self discipline.
  and for 20 years
  interviewed wealthy                   • The next 5 Principles: the master mind; applied faith; a pleasing
  tycoons including Ford,                 personality; personal initiative; enthusiasm.
  Edison & Andrew Carnegie
                                        • The last 7 Principles: controlled attention; teamwork; learning from
                                          defeat; creative vision; budgeting time and money; maintain physical
                                          and mental health; using cosmic or universal force.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        A clear goal matched with a consistent Positive Mental Attitude can
                                        transform your life.




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BOOK 19                                 Catherine Ponder
                                        The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity
- 1962

- She studied business                  • Poverty is not a virtue, it is a vice
  before becoming an
  ordained minister                     • Desire + visualization + affirmation = success

- Has written twelve books              • Prosperity is circulation, not congestion, and make way for growth

- Sought after lecturer                 • Systematic giving
  across the nation
                                        • Prosperity thinking is a healthy state of mind that has a positive
                                          attitude to money




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Appreciate universe’s abundance and your right to prosperity.




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BOOK 20                                 W. Timothy Gallwey
                                        The Inner Game of Tennis
- 1974

- Harvard University tennis             • Conscious trying too hard often produces negative results.
  captain
                                        • Watching success is more impactful than critical instruction.
- Professional coach
                                        • Your two selves, the mental coach and the one who actually plays.
- Inner Game series for
  tennis, golf, skiing, music           • Quiet your mind and mental clutter, do not judge a shot or yourself.
  and work
                                        • Reward is not winning, the larger game is calmly playing to the best of
                                          your ability.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Secret is not to try too hard – keep the mind calm, trusting the body to
                                        get into spontaneous flow.




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BOOK 21                                 Zig Ziglar
                                        See You At The Top
- 1975

- Sold over 2 million copies            • You are born to win, create goals and you must commit them to
  and re-issued in 2000                   paper.

- Book is timeless yet                  • You are what you take in for they will manifest in your personality, be
  rambles with many stories               it television, pornography or good reading, seek out the best. Best
  and old-fashion views                   guide to your conduct is the people you spend time with.

- Poor childhood in Great               • Success builds upon a solid marriage, the key to that is loyalty.
  Depression, one of 12
  siblings                              • Keep life fresh by avoid the hardening of attitudes and seek out good
                                          habits.
- From cookware salesman
  to top motivational                   • Do not be ‘phoney’, build strong values of hard work, spiritual faith
  speaker                                 and service based on taking care of the physical, spiritual and
                                          mental.
- Spoken alongside USA
  Presidents and active in
  youth drug avoidance

- Author of several books
                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        You can have everything in life if you will just help others get what they
                                        want.




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BOOK 22                                 Tom Hopkins
                                        The Official Guide to Success
- 1982

- Dropped out of college                • Successful men are ruthless with their time.

- Author of 12 Bestsellers              • Winners do the most productive thing possible at each given
                                          moment.
- International Top Sales
  Trainer                               • Choose to flip your switch from lose to win.

                                        • Continually grow and create new goals and expectations.

                                        • Go beyond goals and have a greater aim.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        The most valuable thing you can ever own is your image of yourself as a
                                        winner in the great game of life – act as if you are marked out for great
                                        things.




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BOOK 23                                 David Reynolds
                                        Constructive Living
- 1984

- Authority on Japanese                 • Accept and listen to your feelings. The best way to influence how you
  psychotherapies                         feel is by your consistent behavior.

- World Health Organization             • Ask in every moment “now, what needs to be done”.
  advisor in China
                                        • Feelings Follow Behavior: do not DO depression, slumping your body,
- Published in university and             repeating same negative phrases.
  popular press in multiple
  languages                             • Miserable people tend to be self-focused, we do then we feel!

                                        • Our behavior is controllable in a way our feelings are not. Work on the
                                          self by developing control of our actions.

                                        • Accept fear as a healthy emotion yet keep it in check, accept life as it
                                          is now with no need to wish it were otherwise.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        We cannot control our feelings directly, do what needs to be done
                                        regardless of whether you feel terrible or great.




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BOOK 24                                 Louise Hay
                                        You Can Heal Your Life
- 1984
                                        • Turn “I should” into “I could choose to”.
- 30 million copies in
  35 countries
                                        • Some things and some thoughts will not serve you so let them go, do
                                          mental house cleaning.
- She founded Hay House
  Publishing Company
                                        • Blame is one of the surest ways to stay in a problem.

                                        • Do not worry about money, a bill means some-one trusted you .

                                        • Do not be critical of yourself, lovingly see yourself as the child you
                                          were. Think thoughts that make you happy.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Approve of yourself, exactly as you are.




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BOOK 25                                 Anthony Robbins
                                        Unlimited Power: The New Science of Personal Achievement
- 1986

- Recognized motivational               • Model successful people’s behavior and habits.
  and self-help leader
                                        • Success lies in your simple ability to take action.
- Based on principles of NLP
  (neuro-linguistic                     • Run your brain, manipulate out negative films and reframe events
  programming)                            positively.

- His foundation does                   • Great goals produce great action.
  substantial charity work
                                        • Build rapport skills with others as a conscious skill.
- His company is a prolific
  producer of coaching and
  life-skills material




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Success leaves clues, model successful people and act upon this.




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BOOK 26                                 Warren Bennis
                                        On Becoming a Leader
- 1989

- Bennis fought in World                • Life is not a competition, but a flowering of seeking your potential.
  War II and has a PhD from
  MIT                                   • Leadership is the act of becoming more true to yourself, an
                                          engagement with life itself.
- Leading figure in
  academic research in                  • Heroes are made, not borne, and it is a conscious decision.
  leadership
                                        • Personal integrity, a compelling vision and ability to enjoy risk and
- He is on the board of                   uncertainty define leadership.
  several renown
  Universities                          • Amazon the Internet retailer: “Word hard, play hard, change the
                                          world”.
- He interviewed many U.S.
  leaders, including Neil
  Armstrong who went to
  the moon and Ray Kroc,
  founder of McDonalds



                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Leadership is being interested in expressing yourself, not proving
                                        yourself.




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BOOK 27                                 Stephen Covey
                                        The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
- 1989

- Time voted him one of top             • Habit 1                   Be proactive (Personal Choice)
  25 most influential
  Americans                             • Habit 2                   Begin with the end in mind (Personal Vision)

- University Professor                  • Habit 3                   Put first things first (Integrity & Execution)

- His company does over                 • Habit 4                   Think Win/Win (Mutual Benefit)
  $500 million revenue
  in Leadership and                     • Habit 5                   Seek first to understand, then to be understood
  Performance                                                       (Mutual Understanding)

- Author fought in the Civil            • Habit 6                   Synergize (Mutual Creation)
  War as a commissioned
  officer                               • Habit 7                   Renewal (Balanced Self-Renewal)




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Good character, balance and effort – you reap what you sow.




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BOOK 28                                 Brian Tracy
                                        Maximum Achievement
- 2000

- Grew up in poverty                    • Become an expert of setting and writing goals for we are shaped by
  wearing charity store                   our ambitions.
  clothes
                                        • Less than 3% of people have written goals.
- Worked on Norwegian
  freighter and travelled the           • No unrealistic goals, only unrealistic deadlines.
  world
                                        • Goals to be congruent with what brings you inner peace.
- Wanderer to a focused
  person with an MBA and a              • Loving relationships and acquiring knowledge through reading should
  top salesman                            feature high on your goal setting.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        The Master Skill is written, clear goals.




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BOOK 29                                 Deepak Chopra
                                        The Seven Spiritual Laws Of Success
- 1994

- Several International                 • Law of Karma: listen with the heart and witness choices each
  Bestsellers                             moment.

- Seminars and workshops                • Law of Least Effort: practice acceptance and take responsibility.
  with attendees who travel
  from all over the world               • Law of Giving & Receiving: circulation is abundance in all things.

                                        • Law of Pure Potentiality: meditate, commune with nature and practice
                                          non-judgment.

                                        • Law of Intention & Desire: be silent, list your desires and give them
                                          over to the Universe.

                                        • Law of Detachment: no rigid or forced solutions, be open to
                                          uncertainty and infinite possibilities.

                                        • Law of Dharma: discover the higher self, use your unique talents and
                                          serve others.


                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Success is finding joy and the ability to fulfill desires with effortless
                                        ease.




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BOOK 30                                 Warren Buffet (by Roger Lowenstein)
                                        The Making of an American Capitalist
- 1995

- World’s second most                   • ‘Value investing” emphasizing research, analysis and looking only to
  wealthiest man                          the facts of fundamental business value.

- Self made $100,000 into               • Frugal
  over $35 billion
                                        • Take risks based on research, do not gamble.
- Poor upbringing made him
  obsess over how to create             • Long term magic of compounding interest.
  wealth, starting with paper
  delivery routes                       • Hold on to good investments for the long term.

- Still lives in same small
  home bought in 1950’s in
  Omaha Nebraska, publicly
  has wife and a girlfriend

- Donates billions of dollars
  to charity


                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Success requires perseverance and courage to stick to your decisions.




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BOOK 31                                 Nathaniel Branden
                                        The Six Pillar’s Of Self-Esteem
- 1995

- Author of 20 books,                   • Practice means a way of behaving that is also a way of being. Small
  4 million copies in                     improvements make a big difference.
  18 languages
                                        • The Practice of Living Consciously
- PhD, lecturer, psychologist
  and International leading             • The Practice of Self-Acceptance
  figure in self-esteem
                                        • The Practice of Self-Responsibility

                                        • The Practice of Self-Assertiveness

                                        • The Practice of Living Purposefully

                                        • The Practice of Personal Integrity




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Of all the judgments we pass in life, none is as important as the one
                                        we pass on ourself. Refuse to be in an adversarial relationship with
                                        yourself or what makes you happy.




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BOOK 32                                 Robert Kiyosaki
                                        Rich Dad, Poor Dad - What The Rich Teach Their Children
- 1997

- Born in Hawaii                        • The rat race working for a pay check is a fear based mind set.

- A Marine and ex-Xerox                 • Specialization and working for money is better served by
  salesman, made his                      accumulating assets and let the money work for you.
  fortune as entrepreneur
  and investing                         • Be educated, put effort into becoming financially literate.

- Born in Hawaii                        • Be disciplined, control your money through controlling your emotions
                                          and separate greed from sound financial decisions.
- His firm produces finance
  educational products and              • Opportunities come from new ideas.
  book series




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        The key knowledge of the wealthy lies in understanding that anything
                                        that does not grow or generate a return, is a liability.




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BOOK 33                                 Don Miguel Ruiz
                                        The Four Agreements
- 1997

- Grew up in rural Mexico in            • First Agreement:                               Be Impeccable With Your Word
  a family of healers
                                        • Second Agreement:                              Don’t Take Anything Personally
- Bestselling author and
  surgeon                               • Third Agreement:                               Don’t Make Assumptions

                                        • Fourth Agreement:                              Always Do Your Best




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        The first step toward personal freedom is awareness.




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BOOK 34                                 Spencer Johnson
                                        Who Moved My Cheese
- 1998

- 12 million copies                     • There will be other cheeses

- Medical doctor and author             • Loss through change can devastate, or can choose to laugh and
  of several bestsellers                  move on

- Fable of mice in a maze               • What would you do if you weren’t afraid?
  confronted with change,
  someone moved their                   • Creatively visualize finding new cheese
  cheese
                                        • Feel the fear and do it anyway
- Fable of dealing with loss
 and change generally,
 think relationships,
 savings, jobs




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        When life happens and your cheese is moved, move on and accept the
                                        next challenge, it is about perspective.




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BOOK 35                                 Cheryl Richardson
                                        Take Time for Your Life
- 1998

- Book was a New York                   • Slowing down to succeed
  Times Bestseller
                                        • Put yourself first
- On Oprah and Today
  Shows                                 •Your schedule should reflect your priorities

- Professional Speaker                  • Pay others to do tasks to free your valuable time

                                        • Take responsibility for your financial health




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Regular ‘downtime’ and reflection is important for your sanity and
                                        success.




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BOOK 36                                 Debbie Ford
                                        The Dark Side Of The Light Chasers
- 1998

- Five times New York Times             • The shadow inside is the person you would rather not be.
  bestseller
                                        • White, like perfect love, is not the absence of color but the inclusion
- Coach and TV appearance                 of all color.
  personality
                                        • The divine and the diabolical lie dormant within us, look within to your
                                          own psyche, integrate and see this is OK to become whole.

                                        • List your least favorite attributes, play with them until you can see the
                                          gifts in these. Divine is not perfect, it is being whole.

                                        • Be gentle with others and do not judge harshly, gently watching for
                                          some of your attributes in others.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Whether you like it or not, if you are human you have a shadow or
                                        attributes you do not like. Become whole by seeing them and their gift
                                        to you.




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BOOK 37                                 Michael Dell
                                        Direct from Dell: Strategies that Revolutionized an Industry
- 1999

- Started Dell, computers               • Think unconventionally
  direct to consumers
                                        • Despise the status quo
- Loved taking computers
  apart, idea germinated in             • Set big goals that may just be do-able
  freshman year
                                        • Love change
- Multi-billion dollar
  company with over 40,000              • Focus on your possibilities
  employees

- Self-made




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Do fewer things, better. The simpler you make life for people, the more
                                        valuable you will be.




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BOOK 38                                 Dan Millman
                                        Body Mind Mastery
- 1999

- Former world champion
  athlete                               • You reshape your life by being aware and integrating your body, mind
                                          and emotions through training.
- College Professor
                                        • Fear of failure generates vicious circles that create what you fear.
- Bestselling author                      Make peace with failure, treating as an old friend playing a practical
  published in more than                  joke.
  20 languages
                                        • Be free of self-criticism, just keep practicing and be gentle with
                                          yourself.

                                        • Stay relaxed and focus on constructive action.

                                        • Your body will sculpt over time with daily habits of exercise and diet
                                          so keep your desire for change strong.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        This, and every moment, is the moment of truth. Freedom from mental
                                        distractions equals power.




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BOOK 39                                 Richard Koch
                                        The 80/20 Principle
- 1999

- Author, businessman and               • Pareto Principle of 80/20 is everywhere – 20% of people own 80% of
  consultant                              wealth; 20% of criminals commit 80% of crimes.

- Several International                 • 20% of what you do yields 80% of results, with 80% of your effort
  bestsellers                             yielding very little, the Principle of Least Effort.

                                        • Applies to goals, business, friends, diet, relationships and all areas of
                                          your life.

                                        • Be unreasonable and go after big, but few, focused goals.

                                        • Spend time and emotional energy only those things that are
                                          important to you.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        20% of effort gets 80% of results. Target a limited number of activities
                                        and goals and ruthlessly focus - do less to achieve more!




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BOOK 40                                 Bill Phillips
                                        Body For Life
- 1999

- A New York Times                      • Identify reasons to change, get a future vision of yourself and decide
  Bestseller                              to change.

- 12 week training and diet             • Identify 3 old habits holding you back and 3 new empowering habits.
  regimen
                                        • Eat 6 small healthy meals per day having carbohydrates and protein,
- Hundreds of thousands                   including vegetables with at least two of the meals.
  used the program
                                        • Muscle is 70% water, drink 10 glasses per day.
- Inspirational personal case
  stories                               • Alternate days, 20 minutes aerobic exercise and 45 minute strength
                                          training (Sunday’s free). Repetitions not as important as building to
                                          High Points (maximum intensity) per muscle group.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Can transform your body in 12 weeks, when you gain control of your
                                        body, you will gain control of your life.




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BOOK 41                                 Thomas Stanley
                                        The Millionaire Mind
- 2000

- Author interviewed and                • Wealth is linked to courage and belief in their ability to generate
  questioned over                         wealth.
  700 wealthy people
                                        • Do a variety of jobs, then settle to do work that you love to do.
- Part of successful
  bestseller Millionaire                • The harder you work, the luckier you get.
  series
                                        • Millionaire’s are frugal yet don’t do DIY, control you finances from the
- Holds a business                        start and do not be reliant on credit.
  doctorate and was a
  Professor at Georgia                  • A successful marriage is a significant factor in success.
  University




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Millionaire minds are not born, they are a set of habits and attitudes
                                        anyone can cultivate.




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BOOK 42                                 Robin Sharma
                                        The Saint, The Surfer And The CEO
- 2002

- Former lawyer, now                    • Saint’s insight: trust and open up to how the world really works. To
  bestselling author and                  thine own self be true, direct yourself at what you love to do.
  professional speaker
                                        • Surfer’s insight: reflect, if your inner world is healthy and complete,
- Fictional work of Jack                  the simplest basic things will fill your heart and soul.
  Valentine who meets his
  Dad’s mentors                         • Surfer’s insight: live with a greater sense of perspective and
                                          appreciation of life and the truth.
- Also wrote, The Monk Who
  Sold His Ferrari, an                  • Surfer’s insight: live your best life.
  International bestseller
                                        • CEO insight: the one who gives the most, wins (do the best you can
                                          and serve others).




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        There is a sleeping giant inside everyone, miracles happen when you
                                        open your inner self and that giant awakes.




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BOOK 43                                 Martin Seligman
                                        Authentic Happiness
- 2002

- Former President of the               • Happiness and well-being are the desired outcomes of Positive
  American Psychological                  Psychology.
  Association
                                        • Through the ages, the six core virtues are : (1) wisdom and
- Bestselling author                      knowledge (2) courage (3) love and humanity (4) sense of justice (5)
                                          temperance (6) spirituality and transcendence.
- University Professor
                                        • Do not devote overly much effort to correcting your weaknesses, build
                                          and use your signature strengths.

                                        • Wealth creates a ‘pleasant life’, a good life is using your signature
                                          strengths daily to produce authentic happiness and abundance.

                                        • Beyond a job or career, for if you can find a way to use your signature
                                          strengths at work often, and they also contribute to the greater good,
                                          you have a calling.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        The good life consists in deriving happiness by using your signature
                                        strengths every day in the main realms of living. The meaningful life
                                        adds one more component: using these strengths to forward
                                        knowledge, power or goodness.




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BOOK 44                                 Richard Wiseman
                                        The Luck Factor
- 2003

- Started as a professional             • The lucky personality creates, notices and acts upon chance
  magician                                opportunities in their lives to manufacture their luck.

- Doctorate from Edinburgh              • Have a relaxed attitude to people and life, the openness to
  University                              new experiences allows you see what is there.

- Book followed an eight                • Trust your intuition and foster a better relationship with
  year study                              your unconscious.

- Several scholarly articles            • Expect the best, believe and persevere as this becomes
  and television                          self-fulfilling.
  appearances business
  advisor and lecturer                  • Lucky people also have bad times, yet they seek out the
                                          learning experience and never believe that their bad times
                                          are permanent.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Luck is less related to chance than we may think, it is about a lucky
                                        mindset and approach to life.




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BOOK 45                                 Byron Katie
                                        Loving What Is
- 2003

- Several bestsellers                   • When I argue with reality, I lose.

- Her mission is to end                 • Stay in your business and out of others, see everything as a friend.
  suffering due to stressful
 beliefs and see reality                • Do not be overwhelmed by stressful thoughts but they are
                                          compassionate alarm clocks alerting us.

                                        • Problems often misperception in wrong thinking.

                                        • Throw “should” away, stress comes from the stories we tell
                                          ourselves.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Take a stressful thought and ask

                                                      -   Is it true?
                                                      -   Can I absolutely know it is true?
                                                      -   How do I react when I think that thought?
                                                      -   Who would I be without the thought?
                                                      -   Turn it around and state it as an opposite and reflect!


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BOOK 46                                 Jack Canfield
                                        The Success Principles
- 2004

- He has sold more than                 • Take 100% responsibility
  100 million copies,
  including Chicken Soup                • Get a purpose and be clear why you are here, believing the world and
  for the Soul series                     events will conspire to help you achieve.

- Success coach with                    • Make a list of 30 things you want to do, 30 things you want to have
  audiences across                        and 30 things you want to be, before you die.
  20 countries
                                        • It is all about attitude and being prepared to do your own push-ups.

                                        • Focus on your goals and remember that others are not thinking about
                                          you but are too busy worrying about their own lives.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        If you are clear where you are going and take several steps in that
                                        direction everyday, you eventually have to get there.




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BOOK 47                                 Wayne Dyer
                                        The Power Of Intention
- 2005

- Holds a PhD                           • Act as if everything you desire is already here.

- Internationally acclaimed             • Four steps of intention are Discipline, Wisdom, Love and Surrender.
  speaker and author of
  more than 30 books                    • Hit the delete button every time fear appears.

                                        • Contemplate what you want instead of what you don’t have.

                                        • Say ‘Yes’ to life, you must be what it is you are seeking; if you want
                                          peace, start by being peace.




                                       ELEM E n T
                                   KEY




                                        Surrender, there is a force greater than you guiding the universe and
                                        manifesting your desires. Relax and trust this power of intention.




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BOOK 48                                  Rhonda Byrne
                                         The Secret
- 2006

- Many thought leaders                   • Law of Attraction means ‘like attracts like’, so when you think a
  contributed to book                      thought, you are also attracting ‘like’ thoughts and events to you.

- Global phenomena and                   • Nothing, good or bad, can come into your experience unless you
  International                            summon it through persistent thoughts.
  accompanying film
  release                                • Step 1: Ask

- Record rate of sales for               • Step 2: Believe
  the first 5 million copies
  sold                                   •Step 3: Receive

                                         • To receive, you must be open and feel good.




                                        stiEM E n T
                                        EL ons
                                   QE e
                                   KuY




                                         The Great Secret of Life is the Law of Attraction.




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BOOK 49                                  Russell Simmons
                                         Do You!
- 2007

- “Innovative and influential            • See your vision and stick with it. Focus on your effort instead of
  figure” - New York Times                 results of that effort.

- Hip-hop mogul                          • Focus on Doing You, meditate for a clear and focused mind and it will
                                           last a lifetime.
- Uses inspiring stories to
  teach the lessons                      • Start each day by reflecting on all the things you can be grateful for,
                                           love the world!
- Spiritual entrepreneur
                                         • Use your talents and do not stall for the pain of avoiding work is more
                                           than the actual work itself.

                                         • Age ain’t nothing but a number and the biggest thing that separates
                                           you from the success you seek is fear.




                                        stiEM E n T
                                        EL ons
                                   QE e
                                   KuY




                                         In the end, the overriding factor in whether or not you realize your
                                         dreams is going to be you. Not the world. YOU.




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BOOK 50                                  Rupert McKerron
                                         How To Have A Big Life
- 2007

- Merchant Banker and                    • Your talent brings you joy and points to your purpose in life, so listen
  entrepreneur                             to your feelings and intuition to follow your dreams.

- Left London due to                     • Control and mock the anxious little voice of your conscious mind.
  Chronic Fatigue Syndrome
  to pursue his dreams in                • Daily repetition of positive affirmation statements, even if not feel
  South Africa                             right initially, to guide the subconscious.

                                         • Have big written goals that are unique for you, understanding you will
                                           not get there in a straight line – just do it!

                                         • Enjoy living in the present and choose to see the world, not as tough
                                           or unfair, but abundant and full of opportunities.




                                        stiEM E n T
                                        EL ons
                                   QE e
                                   KuY




                                         Do what is right for YOU.




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BOOK 51                                  Marci Shimoff with Carol Kline
                                         Happy For No Reason
- 2008

- New York Times                         • Depression is a global illness. Do not pursue happiness, make a
  bestselling author                       habit of it.

- Co-author of five Chicken              • Internal “happiness setpoint” that is 50% genetic, 10%
  Soup for the Soul Series                 circumstances and wealth but 40% habitual thoughts and feelings.
                                           Increase your setpoint by looking at your habits.
- Featured in The Secret
  sensation                              • Respond to events in a way that supports your inner peace, quieten
                                           your mind and Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTs), authentically be
- Prolific International                   velcro for positivity and teflon for negativity.
  speaker
                                         • Cherokee Indian story – inside each person are two battling wolves,
                                           Unhappiness and Happiness. Which will win? The one that you feed.

                                         • Actively remove “blaming” and have the true intention to notice
                                           everything good.




                                        stiEM E n T
                                        EL ons
                                   QE e
                                   KuY




                                         Happy for no reason is not a grinning fool. It is about an underlying
                                         state of well-being where you live from happiness rather than for
                                         happiness.




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BOOK 52                                  Esther and Jerry Hicks
                                         Money, And The Law Of Attraction
- 2008

- International Bestseller               • Most valuable skill is directing your thoughts to what you want, then
                                           giving undivided attention to that.
- Claims to channel from
  spiritual link                         • Consciously pivot out of negative thoughts to positive when they
                                           arise.
- Abraham-Hicks teachings
  Hold workshops in 60                   • There is nothing you cannot be or do and your work here is to seek
  cities per year                          joy.

                                         • Shortage of a connection to the Energy that creates the world is at
                                           the heart of any shortage you experience in other areas.

                                         • For when you feel good, you are in harmony with your greater intent.




                                        stiEM E n T
                                        EL ons
                                   QE e
                                   KuY




                                         Nothing more detrimental to positively attract the life you want, are
                                         negative emotions and thoughts.




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                                                                                         H E R S I N M O T IO N
                                                                                  FA T




                                  QUOTES - WISDOM SOUND BITES

                                  Kernels of truth are often evident in short quotations

                                  I call it Bumper Sticker insight

                                  Read through some of these, if any resonant or catch your eye, think on why that is
                                  and what truth lies within the quote that would enhance your life if acted upon




See Book II For Fathers & Sons
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“We judge ourselves by            “Our deeds determine us, as much as we determine our deeds”
what we feel capable of           ~Joseph Conrad - Achievement
doing, while others judge us      “I have always thought the actions of men the best interpreters of their thoughts”
by what we have already           ~John Locke - Achievement
done”
                                  “Action is eloquence”
         ~ Henry Longfellow       ~Shakespeare - Achievement

                                  “Better to wear out than rust out”
                                  ~Anonymous - Action

                                  “Nothing accomplishes nothing”
                                  ~Bahya Paguda - Action

                                  “Lose an hour in the morning and you will be looking for it the rest of the day”
                                  ~Lord Chesterfield - Action

                                  “To be or not to be, that is your decision”
                                  ~Pat Paradwoski - Action

                                  “There is only one proof of ability - results. Men with ability in action get results”
                                  ~Harry Banks - Action

                                  “Adventures are to the adventurous”
                                  ~Benjamin Disraeli - Adventure

                                  “If you want the rainbow, you have to put up with the rain”
                                  ~Dolly Parton - Adversity

                                  “Adversity causes some men to break, others to break records”
                                  ~William Arthur Ward - Adversity

                                  “It is difficulties that show what men are”
                                  ~Epictetus - Adversity

                                  “Do not hold everything as gold that shines like gold”
                                  ~Alain de Lille - Appearances




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“Excellence can be attained        “We may convince others by our arguments; but we can only persuade them by their own”
if you…care more than the          ~Joseph Joubert - Arguments
others think is wise; risk         “Your attitude determines your altitude”
more than the others think         ~Zig Ziglar - Attitude
is safe; dream more than
others think is practical and      “A new attitude…invariable creates a new result”
expect more than others            ~Anonymous - Attitude
think is possible”                 “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do
                                   than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour.
     ~Anonymous - Attitude         Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover”
                                   ~ Mark Twain - Attitude

                                   “If you think you can, or if you think you cannot; You are probably right”
                                   ~Henry Ford - Beliefs

                                   “Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go”
                                   ~T.S Elliot - Boldness

                                   “A life in fear is a life half lived”
                                   ~Anonymous - Boldness

                                   “It is better to die on your feet than to live on your knees”
                                   ~Dolores Ibarruri - Boldness

                                   “Let thy speech be short, comprehending much in few word”
                                   ~The Bible - Ecclesiasticus 32:8 Brevity

                                   “Nothing astonishes men so much as common sense and plain dealing”
                                   ~Ralph Waldo Emerson - Business

                                   “Good bargains are pick-pockets”
                                   ~Thomas Fuller - Business

                                   “The buyer needs a hundred eyes, the seller but one”
                                   ~George Herbet - Business

                                   “Be ever watchful of advice where the giver stands to gain”
                                   ~Anonymous - Business




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“When one's character             “The only certainty is that nothing is certain”
begins to fall under              ~Pliny the Elder - Certainty
suspicion and disfavour,          “Doubt is not a pleasant condition, but certainty is an absurd one”
how swift, then, is the work      ~Voltaire - Certainty
of disintegration and
destruction.”                     “Things are not to happen to you, they must happen because of you”
                                  ~Anon - Change
                 ~Mark Twain      “The easiest way to manage change is to create it”
                                  ~Dr. Molapo - Change

                                  “A prisoner of the past; or pioneer of the future”
                                  ~Anon - Change

                                  “If you want something that you have never had before; You must do something you
                                  have never done before”
                                  ~Anon - Change

                                  “Sow a thought and you reap an action; sow an act and you reap a habit; sow a habit
                                  and you reap a character; sow a character and you reap a destiny”
                                  ~Ralph Waldo Emerson - Character

                                  “Everyone is a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody”
                                  ~Mark Twain - Character

                                  “A man's character may be learned from the adjectives which he habitually uses in
                                  conversation.
                                  ~Mark Twain - Character

                                  ”As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he”
                                  ~James Allen - Character

                                  “The man who has confidence in himself gains the confidence of others”
                                  ~Hasidic saying - Confidence

                                  “They can because they think they can”
                                  ~Virgil - Confidence

                                  “You can do anything in this world if you're prepared to take the consequences”
                                  ~W. Somerset Maugham - Consequences



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Book I Wisdom of the Ages

  • 1. © FATHERS IN MOTION TM BOOK I WISDOM OF THE AGES
  • 2. WISDOM OF THE AGES " Knowledge is a process of "Choices are thewisdom of piling up facts; hinges lies destiny” simplification” in their ~Pythagoras ~ Martin Fischer H E R S I N M O T IO N FA T A Father shares wisdom drawn from his reading, learning from others and lessons or decisions, be they good or bad, that he has learned along the way. These are based on hard experience or from reflection. This is shared so your son or daughter learns from your Insights, hopefully to not make the same mistakes and learns from what you believe works. This unit is a treasure trove! We include the five key learning principles from 52 books, for 52 weeks, from some of the world’s greatest sages, leaders and fathers who have a mass of wisdom to share. This includes writings from the 6th Century B.C. to today. Many fathers have not had the opportunity or the time to read the vast pool of books avaiable to them let alone had time to share these with their growing child. We provide these in a summary version with our sincere purpose that you may dip into these, find those that resonate with you and merge them with your own experiences - a vision to enrich both you and those around you. The art of life is both profound and its duration fleetingly short, so with our sincere love for you and life’s journey! Enjoy and Share See Book II For Fathers & Sons Fathers In Motion A Unique Life Guide www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 3. WISDOM OF THE AGES AUTHOR TITLE YEAR 1 Lao Tzu The Tao te Ching 6th Century B.C. 2 Sun Tzu The Art of War 4th Century B.C. 3 Marcus Aurelius Meditations AD 170 4 Horatio Alger Ragged Dick 1867 5 Ralph Waldo Emerson The Selected Writings of 1882 Ralph Waldo Emerson 6 Orison Swett Marden Pushing to the Front, or 1894 Success under Difficulties 7 James Allen As A Man Thinketh 1903 8 Andrew Carnegie Autobiography of Andrew 1920 Carnegie 9 Russell Conwell Acres of Diamonds 1921 10 George Clason The Richest Man in Babylon 1926 11 Napoleon Hill Think & Grow Rich 1937 12 Florence Scovel Schinn The Secret Door to Success 1940 13 Dale Carnegie Stop Worrying And Start Living 1944 14 Vicktor Frankel Man's Search For Meaning 1946 15 Claude Bristol The Magic of Believing 1948 16 Les Giblin How to have Confidence and 1956 Power in Dealing with People 17 David Schwartz The Magic of Thinking Big 1959 18 Napoleon Hill & Success through a Positive 1960 W. Clement Stone Mental Attitude 19 Catherine Ponder The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity 1962 20 W. Timothy Gallwey The Inner Game of Tennis 1974 21 Zig Ziglar See You At The Top 1975 22 Tom Hopkins The Official Guide 1982 to Success 23 David Reynolds Constructive Loving 1984 24 Louise Hay You Can Heal Your Life 1984 25 Anthony Robbins Unlimited Power: The New 1986 Science of Personal Achievement 26 Warren Bennis On Becoming a Leader 1989 27 Stephen Covey The 7 Habits of Highly Effective 1989 People 28 Brian Tracy Maximum Achievement 1993 29 Deepak Chopra The Seven Spiritual Laws Of 1994 Success 30 Warren Buffet Buffet: The Making of an 1995 (by Roger Lowenstein) American Capitalist www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 4. WISDOM OF THE AGES “You cannot do anything AUTHOR TITLE YEAR about the length of your life 31 Nathaniel Branden The Six Pillars Of Self-Esteem 1995 but you can do something 32 Robert Kiyosaki Rich Dad Poor Dad 1997 about it’s width and depth” 33 Don Miguel Ruiz The Four Agreements 1997 34 Spencer Johnson Who Moved My Cheese 1998 ~Shira Tehrani 35 Cheryl Richardson Take Time for Your Life 1998 36 Debbie Ford The Dark Side Of The Light 1998 Chasers 37 Michael Dell Direct from Dell 1999 38 Dan Millman Body Mind Mastery 1999 39 Richard Koch The 80/20 Principle 1999 40 Bill Phillips Body For Life 1999 41 Thomas Stanley The Millionaire Mind 2000 42 Robin Sharma The Saint, The Surfer And The 2002 CEO 43 Martin Seligman Authentic Happiness 2002 44 Richard Wiseman The Luck Factor 2003 45 Byron Katie Loving What Is 2003 46 Jack Canfield The Success Principles 2004 47 Wayne Dyer The Power Of Intention 2005 48 Rhonda Byrne The Secret 2006 49 Russell Simmons Do You! 2007 50 Rupert McKerron How To Have A Big Life 2007 51 Marci Shimoff with Happy For No Reason 2008 Carol Kline 52 Esther and Jerry Hicks Money, And The Law Of Attraction 2008 Bonus Extra: A series of Quotations are included at the back of this Unit. You can use these or your own favorite quotes to weave into your conversations to enhance your content when sharing stories and wisdom with your Son. Read well, think clearly. Expose his mind to good stuff, eventually good stuff will come out! www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 5. WISDOM OF THE AGES Book 1 Lao Tzu The Tao te Ching - 6th Century B.C. - Philosopher in ancient • I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. China • A great nation is like a man. When he makes a mistake, he realizes - Central figure in Chinese it. Having realized it, he admits it. Having admitted it, he corrects it. culture • The Master gives himself up to whatever the moment brings. - Name of book means “The Way” • Prevent trouble before it arises. • If you realize that all things change, there is nothing you will try to hold on to. ELEM E n T KEY If your happiness depends on money, you will never be happy with yourself. Be content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 6. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 2 Sun Tzu The Art of War - 4th century B.C. • Leadership through character: have self knowledge, observe others - Same era as Confucius and the situation for knowledge is the principal weapon. in Northern China • Be attuned to the Tao, the guiding spirit of the Universe. - Brilliant military strategist • The ultimate warrior is one who wins the war by forcing the enemy to surrender without fighting any battles. - Not only about war but about an approach to life • Take the larger view and see the whole situation clearly, control the form of engagement without reacting to it. - Widely used in business schools and by business • Do not prolong but seek to be a master of timing, if you battle then leaders build momentum and strike hard and get away quickly. ELEM E n T KEY War is the ultimate form of conflict. The best way to approach conflict is be detached for the angry general loses. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 7. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 3 Marcus Aurelius Meditations - 170 A.D., often translated • Never confuse yourself by visions of an entire lifetime at once. - Journal of a Roman Emperor in a war • The approval of such men, who do not even stand well in their own campaign eyes, has no value for him. • When force of circumstance upsets your equanimity, lose no time in recovering your self-control and do not remain out of tune longer than you can help. • Everything – a horse, a vine – is created for some duty… for what task, then, were you yourself created? A man’s true delight is to do the things he was made for. • Nothing is worth doing pointlessly. ELEM E n T KEY Your mind will be like its habitual thoughts; for the soul becomes dyed with the color of its thoughts. If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself but to your own estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 8. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 4 Horatio Alger Ragged Dick - 1867 - Horatio was admitted to • Be diligent, seek good fortune and you will make your own luck Harvard at 16 and spoke four languages • Whatever you do, do it to the best of your ability - He ran away to Paris at • Be a reader one stage • Save, but be generous - Returned to USA, ordained as a minister and focused • Honesty, never cheat, steal or lie on plight of disadvantaged children • Do not drink or smoke - Novel of a poor boy in New York in squalid 1800’s who goes from shining shoes to respectability and wealth tt ELEM E n T KEY Whatever you do, do it honestly and to the best of your ability and you will make your own luck www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 9. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 5 Ralph Waldo Emerson The Selected Writings Of Ralph Waldo Emerson - 1882 - 19th Century leading • Trust thyself. American philosopher • Sow a thought and you reap an action; sow an act and you reap a habit; sow a habit and you reap a character; sow a character and you reap a destiny. • Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. God will not have his work made manifest by cowards. Always, always, always, always do what you are afraid to do. • Good thoughts are no better than good dreams, unless they be executed! • Good luck is another name for tenacity of purpose. ELEM E n T KEY Enthusiasm is one of the most powerful engines of success. When you do a thing, do it with all your might. Put your whole soul into it. Stamp it with your own personality. Be active, be energetic, be enthusiastic and faithful, and you will accomplish your object. Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 10. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 6 Orison Swett Marden Pushing To The Front, or Success Under Difficulties - 1894 - Book has 70 chapters and • Follow your calling – do whatever you choose, yet become a master 900 pages and a seminal at it. work of its time • A slow penny is surer than a quick dollar. - Lived in foster homes after parents died when he was • Nerve, pluck, persistence and grit. only 7 • Overcome difficulties for character is built through adversity. - Several Harvard degrees • Seize common occasions and make them great. - He built and subsequently lost a hotel chain business - Published on average two books a year ELEM E n T KEY There are few things that cannot be achieved by sheer determination and effort. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 11. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 7 James Allen As A Man Thinketh - 1903, republished several times and is a small 48-page book • You will be what you will to be. The oak sleeps in the acorn. - Did not finish school, • A man's mind may be likened to a garden, which may be intelligently having to work early to cultivated or allowed to run wild; but whether cultivated or neglected, support family as father it must, and will, bring forth. If no useful seeds are put into it, then an was murdered abundance of useless weed seeds will fall therein, and will continue to produce their kind. - At 38, moved to small cottage to a life of •The body is the servant of the mind. It obeys the operations of the contemplation mind, whether they be deliberately chosen or automatically expressed. With unlawful thoughts the body sinks rapidly into disease - Enduring classic for over a and decay. century • The dreamers are the saviors of the world. Calmness of mind is one - Wrote 19 books in of the beautiful jewels of wisdom. Until thought is linked with purpose Victorian England there is no intelligent accomplishment. • There can be no progress, no achievement without sacrifice. ELEM E n T KEY As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. All that a man achieves and all that he fails to achieve is the direct result of his own thoughts. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 12. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 8 Andrew Carnegie Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie - 1920 - In his day, the world’s • Leaders are readers and wealth is created from better knowledge and richest man better thinking. - Born 1835, self made he • Master you: master your moods, ensuring a sunny disposition; to be started as a railway clerk ‘yourself’ you have to have spent time working out who you are; travel broadens a man. - Worked his way to building the largest iron and steel • Talk to people, not at them; enlarge your circle. factory • Work with others, using their reputations and spreading risk. - Donated $100 million to public libraries • Seek knowledge and value with higher motives, not money alone. ELEM E n T KEY Focus, for ‘I have rarely if ever met a man who achieved prominence in money-making….who was interested in many concerns’. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 13. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 9 Russell Conwell Acres of Diamonds - 1921 - Author fought in the Civil • Be open-minded. War as a commissioned officer • Great service is basic to prosperity. - He was a lawyer, travelling • Genuine service is simple. reporter and pastor, founding Temple University • Leave time for meditation and contemplation of your diamonds that in Philadelphia are likely to be so near. - Fable of man who lived in • Greatest people are always straightforward. Persia who sold his farm to go seek his fortune, yet it ended in death and tragedy - On the farm he sold, the new owner noticed a glint in the watery sands, acres of diamonds ELEM E n T KEY Wealth is often close by and folly going off to seek your fortune. There is no need to look beyond yourself and your immediate circumstances to find the seeds of your fortune. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 14. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 10 George Clason The Richest Man in Babylon - 1926 - More than 1.5 million • Law 1: pay yourself first, money comes to those who save 10% copies sold • Law 2: money multiplies for those who invest it - Fable of two poor friends, a musician and chariot • Law 3: money stays with the person who entrusts it to wise people builder, in ancient Babylon who seek a wealthy • Law 4: money is lost when invested in things with which you are not friend’s advice as wealth familiar does not create happiness, it does enhance the • Law 5: money is lost at a fast rate when pursuing get-rich-quick quality of life schemes ELEM E n T KEY Without wisdom, gold is quickly lost by those who have it, but with wisdom, gold can be secured by those who have it not. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 15. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 11 Napoleon Hill Think & Grow Rich - 1937 - 15 million copies •Wealth creation is a product of the mind, combining reasoning, imagination and tenacity - Born 1883 in a poor one room cabin •Attuned to Infinite Intelligence is a source of ideas and ultimately wealth - Advisor to President Roosevelt 20 years • Thoughts create their physical equivalent overtime interviewing wealthy tycoons including Ford, • Natural sexual energy can be harnessed and channeled Edison & Andrew Carnegie •Uniqueness, expressed in a refined idea or product, consistently - His quest was to focused upon will lead to great monetary reward understand “how the wealthy become that way” ELEM E n T KEY Tend to the source of wealth, which is inherently intangible (faith, vision and persistence) www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 16. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 12 Florence Scovel Schinn The Secret Door to Success - 1940 • Let go long enough for the law of attraction to operate, you have never seen an anxious magnet - Published shortly before her death • In a relaxed state of expectancy, expect the best - Uses Biblical and related • Prepare for good things and act, prosperously illustrative stories • Intuition is the Infinite Intelligence’s magic - Artistic career and children’s book illustrator • Practice faith over fear for success is a system - Published shortly before her death - Author of several successful books ELEM E n T KEY Have faith and dissolve your barriers through positive expectations. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 17. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 13 Dale Carnegie How To Stop Worrying And Start Living - 1944, republished many times • Live in “day-tight compartments” - More than 6 million copies sold • Stop going around in circles, arrive at a fixed purpose and make definite decisions - Recognized leader in self improvement teachings • Don’t cry over spilled milk • Rest often, before you get tired, just learn how to relax • Realize that people are not thinking about you and rather focus on getting busy ELEM E n T KEY Worry will make you ill. Given that knowledge isn’t power until applied: 1. Write down what is worrying you 2. Write down what you can do about it 3. Decide what to do 4. Start immediately to carry out that decision www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 18. WISDOM OF THE AGES Book 14 Viktor Frankel Man’s Search For Meaning - 1946, republished 1997 • Everything can be taken from a man but one thing, to choose one’s - Holocaust survivor attitude in any given set of circumstance, to choose one’s own way. - M.D. and PhD •Discover life’s meaning in (a) having a deed - Chronicles Nazi (b) experience and encounters with others concentration camp (c) attitude we adopt to suffering experiences • What man actually needs is not a tensionless state but rather the striving and struggling for some goal worthy of him. •Logotherapy: man’s main concern is fulfilling a meaning and actualizing values, rather than in the mere gratification of drives. • Don’t aim at success as a target, for like happiness it cannot be pursued, it must ensure as an unintended consequence of one’s personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself. • Be unique but it will be difficult – everyone’s task is as unique as is his specific opportunity to implement it, what is to give light must endure burning. ELEM E n T KEY We have ultimate responsibility for choosing our responses to challenges and manifesting our personal meaningful life. Love is the ultimate and the highest goal to which man can aspire – a man who has nothing can still have bliss. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 19. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 15 Claude Bristol The Magic of Believing - 1948 - Author was a World War I • Belief underpins destiny, your subconscious servant. soldier, journalist and speaker eventually • The intensity of your beliefs and thoughts act as a transmitter to becoming an investment future events. banker and businessman • Mental pictures of wealth are as positive as mental pictures of what - The book is difficult to you fear, are destructive. read yet simple in its message • The terrific force of thought repetition, combined with action. • Developing a ‘knowing’ in your beliefs is the main determinant of success. ELEM E n T KEY The golden thread is Belief. Undoubtedly, we become what we envisage. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 20. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 16 Les Giblin How to have Confidence and Power in Dealing with People - 1956 - Author of several books • Recognize everyone has a divine spark within them. - Skills consultant to large • Believe each person you deal with is important. U.S. companies • Calmly present the facts, allowing each to make up their own mind, - Recognized as Salesman do not force the argument. of the Year (1965) • Self esteem is important - do not put the other person in a position where they need to save face, be sarcastic or poke fun. • Engage and draw forth relaxed friendliness. ELEM E n T KEY Genuinely give appreciation and acceptance of others. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 21. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 17 David Schwartz The Magic of Thinking Big - 1959 - Several million copies sold • Big ideas and big plans are no more difficult than small plans. - Author’s belief that a • Plenty of room at the top – enlarge your personal desire and person is best measured imagination of yourself and act on it. by the size of their dreams • Spend time alone with your thoughts and find the quiet route to - Professor at Georgia State success. University • “Excusitis” is failure’s disease, use conscious self-belief. - Businessman and author of several bestsellers • Go first class, get advice and spend time with successful people. ELEM E n T KEY Believe Big, the size of your success is determined by the size of your desires and belief. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 22. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 18 Napoleon Hill & W. Clement Stone Success through a Positive Mental Attitude - 1960 - W. Clement Stone, died • “It can be done” philosophy where focus on faith and not fear. age 100, born in poverty and self made, donated • Embrace life for wealth is attracted to those who have pleasing $275 million to charity personalities whose attitude is big, generous and merciful. - Napoleon Hill was advisor • First 5 Principles: positive mental attitude; definiteness of purpose; to President Roosevelt going the extra mile; accurate thinking; self discipline. and for 20 years interviewed wealthy • The next 5 Principles: the master mind; applied faith; a pleasing tycoons including Ford, personality; personal initiative; enthusiasm. Edison & Andrew Carnegie • The last 7 Principles: controlled attention; teamwork; learning from defeat; creative vision; budgeting time and money; maintain physical and mental health; using cosmic or universal force. ELEM E n T KEY A clear goal matched with a consistent Positive Mental Attitude can transform your life. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 23. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 19 Catherine Ponder The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity - 1962 - She studied business • Poverty is not a virtue, it is a vice before becoming an ordained minister • Desire + visualization + affirmation = success - Has written twelve books • Prosperity is circulation, not congestion, and make way for growth - Sought after lecturer • Systematic giving across the nation • Prosperity thinking is a healthy state of mind that has a positive attitude to money ELEM E n T KEY Appreciate universe’s abundance and your right to prosperity. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 24. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 20 W. Timothy Gallwey The Inner Game of Tennis - 1974 - Harvard University tennis • Conscious trying too hard often produces negative results. captain • Watching success is more impactful than critical instruction. - Professional coach • Your two selves, the mental coach and the one who actually plays. - Inner Game series for tennis, golf, skiing, music • Quiet your mind and mental clutter, do not judge a shot or yourself. and work • Reward is not winning, the larger game is calmly playing to the best of your ability. ELEM E n T KEY Secret is not to try too hard – keep the mind calm, trusting the body to get into spontaneous flow. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 25. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 21 Zig Ziglar See You At The Top - 1975 - Sold over 2 million copies • You are born to win, create goals and you must commit them to and re-issued in 2000 paper. - Book is timeless yet • You are what you take in for they will manifest in your personality, be rambles with many stories it television, pornography or good reading, seek out the best. Best and old-fashion views guide to your conduct is the people you spend time with. - Poor childhood in Great • Success builds upon a solid marriage, the key to that is loyalty. Depression, one of 12 siblings • Keep life fresh by avoid the hardening of attitudes and seek out good habits. - From cookware salesman to top motivational • Do not be ‘phoney’, build strong values of hard work, spiritual faith speaker and service based on taking care of the physical, spiritual and mental. - Spoken alongside USA Presidents and active in youth drug avoidance - Author of several books ELEM E n T KEY You can have everything in life if you will just help others get what they want. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 26. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 22 Tom Hopkins The Official Guide to Success - 1982 - Dropped out of college • Successful men are ruthless with their time. - Author of 12 Bestsellers • Winners do the most productive thing possible at each given moment. - International Top Sales Trainer • Choose to flip your switch from lose to win. • Continually grow and create new goals and expectations. • Go beyond goals and have a greater aim. ELEM E n T KEY The most valuable thing you can ever own is your image of yourself as a winner in the great game of life – act as if you are marked out for great things. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 27. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 23 David Reynolds Constructive Living - 1984 - Authority on Japanese • Accept and listen to your feelings. The best way to influence how you psychotherapies feel is by your consistent behavior. - World Health Organization • Ask in every moment “now, what needs to be done”. advisor in China • Feelings Follow Behavior: do not DO depression, slumping your body, - Published in university and repeating same negative phrases. popular press in multiple languages • Miserable people tend to be self-focused, we do then we feel! • Our behavior is controllable in a way our feelings are not. Work on the self by developing control of our actions. • Accept fear as a healthy emotion yet keep it in check, accept life as it is now with no need to wish it were otherwise. ELEM E n T KEY We cannot control our feelings directly, do what needs to be done regardless of whether you feel terrible or great. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 28. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 24 Louise Hay You Can Heal Your Life - 1984 • Turn “I should” into “I could choose to”. - 30 million copies in 35 countries • Some things and some thoughts will not serve you so let them go, do mental house cleaning. - She founded Hay House Publishing Company • Blame is one of the surest ways to stay in a problem. • Do not worry about money, a bill means some-one trusted you . • Do not be critical of yourself, lovingly see yourself as the child you were. Think thoughts that make you happy. ELEM E n T KEY Approve of yourself, exactly as you are. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 29. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 25 Anthony Robbins Unlimited Power: The New Science of Personal Achievement - 1986 - Recognized motivational • Model successful people’s behavior and habits. and self-help leader • Success lies in your simple ability to take action. - Based on principles of NLP (neuro-linguistic • Run your brain, manipulate out negative films and reframe events programming) positively. - His foundation does • Great goals produce great action. substantial charity work • Build rapport skills with others as a conscious skill. - His company is a prolific producer of coaching and life-skills material ELEM E n T KEY Success leaves clues, model successful people and act upon this. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 30. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 26 Warren Bennis On Becoming a Leader - 1989 - Bennis fought in World • Life is not a competition, but a flowering of seeking your potential. War II and has a PhD from MIT • Leadership is the act of becoming more true to yourself, an engagement with life itself. - Leading figure in academic research in • Heroes are made, not borne, and it is a conscious decision. leadership • Personal integrity, a compelling vision and ability to enjoy risk and - He is on the board of uncertainty define leadership. several renown Universities • Amazon the Internet retailer: “Word hard, play hard, change the world”. - He interviewed many U.S. leaders, including Neil Armstrong who went to the moon and Ray Kroc, founder of McDonalds ELEM E n T KEY Leadership is being interested in expressing yourself, not proving yourself. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 31. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 27 Stephen Covey The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People - 1989 - Time voted him one of top • Habit 1 Be proactive (Personal Choice) 25 most influential Americans • Habit 2 Begin with the end in mind (Personal Vision) - University Professor • Habit 3 Put first things first (Integrity & Execution) - His company does over • Habit 4 Think Win/Win (Mutual Benefit) $500 million revenue in Leadership and • Habit 5 Seek first to understand, then to be understood Performance (Mutual Understanding) - Author fought in the Civil • Habit 6 Synergize (Mutual Creation) War as a commissioned officer • Habit 7 Renewal (Balanced Self-Renewal) ELEM E n T KEY Good character, balance and effort – you reap what you sow. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 32. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 28 Brian Tracy Maximum Achievement - 2000 - Grew up in poverty • Become an expert of setting and writing goals for we are shaped by wearing charity store our ambitions. clothes • Less than 3% of people have written goals. - Worked on Norwegian freighter and travelled the • No unrealistic goals, only unrealistic deadlines. world • Goals to be congruent with what brings you inner peace. - Wanderer to a focused person with an MBA and a • Loving relationships and acquiring knowledge through reading should top salesman feature high on your goal setting. ELEM E n T KEY The Master Skill is written, clear goals. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 33. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 29 Deepak Chopra The Seven Spiritual Laws Of Success - 1994 - Several International • Law of Karma: listen with the heart and witness choices each Bestsellers moment. - Seminars and workshops • Law of Least Effort: practice acceptance and take responsibility. with attendees who travel from all over the world • Law of Giving & Receiving: circulation is abundance in all things. • Law of Pure Potentiality: meditate, commune with nature and practice non-judgment. • Law of Intention & Desire: be silent, list your desires and give them over to the Universe. • Law of Detachment: no rigid or forced solutions, be open to uncertainty and infinite possibilities. • Law of Dharma: discover the higher self, use your unique talents and serve others. ELEM E n T KEY Success is finding joy and the ability to fulfill desires with effortless ease. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 34. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 30 Warren Buffet (by Roger Lowenstein) The Making of an American Capitalist - 1995 - World’s second most • ‘Value investing” emphasizing research, analysis and looking only to wealthiest man the facts of fundamental business value. - Self made $100,000 into • Frugal over $35 billion • Take risks based on research, do not gamble. - Poor upbringing made him obsess over how to create • Long term magic of compounding interest. wealth, starting with paper delivery routes • Hold on to good investments for the long term. - Still lives in same small home bought in 1950’s in Omaha Nebraska, publicly has wife and a girlfriend - Donates billions of dollars to charity ELEM E n T KEY Success requires perseverance and courage to stick to your decisions. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 35. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 31 Nathaniel Branden The Six Pillar’s Of Self-Esteem - 1995 - Author of 20 books, • Practice means a way of behaving that is also a way of being. Small 4 million copies in improvements make a big difference. 18 languages • The Practice of Living Consciously - PhD, lecturer, psychologist and International leading • The Practice of Self-Acceptance figure in self-esteem • The Practice of Self-Responsibility • The Practice of Self-Assertiveness • The Practice of Living Purposefully • The Practice of Personal Integrity ELEM E n T KEY Of all the judgments we pass in life, none is as important as the one we pass on ourself. Refuse to be in an adversarial relationship with yourself or what makes you happy. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 36. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 32 Robert Kiyosaki Rich Dad, Poor Dad - What The Rich Teach Their Children - 1997 - Born in Hawaii • The rat race working for a pay check is a fear based mind set. - A Marine and ex-Xerox • Specialization and working for money is better served by salesman, made his accumulating assets and let the money work for you. fortune as entrepreneur and investing • Be educated, put effort into becoming financially literate. - Born in Hawaii • Be disciplined, control your money through controlling your emotions and separate greed from sound financial decisions. - His firm produces finance educational products and • Opportunities come from new ideas. book series ELEM E n T KEY The key knowledge of the wealthy lies in understanding that anything that does not grow or generate a return, is a liability. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 37. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 33 Don Miguel Ruiz The Four Agreements - 1997 - Grew up in rural Mexico in • First Agreement: Be Impeccable With Your Word a family of healers • Second Agreement: Don’t Take Anything Personally - Bestselling author and surgeon • Third Agreement: Don’t Make Assumptions • Fourth Agreement: Always Do Your Best ELEM E n T KEY The first step toward personal freedom is awareness. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 38. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 34 Spencer Johnson Who Moved My Cheese - 1998 - 12 million copies • There will be other cheeses - Medical doctor and author • Loss through change can devastate, or can choose to laugh and of several bestsellers move on - Fable of mice in a maze • What would you do if you weren’t afraid? confronted with change, someone moved their • Creatively visualize finding new cheese cheese • Feel the fear and do it anyway - Fable of dealing with loss and change generally, think relationships, savings, jobs ELEM E n T KEY When life happens and your cheese is moved, move on and accept the next challenge, it is about perspective. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 39. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 35 Cheryl Richardson Take Time for Your Life - 1998 - Book was a New York • Slowing down to succeed Times Bestseller • Put yourself first - On Oprah and Today Shows •Your schedule should reflect your priorities - Professional Speaker • Pay others to do tasks to free your valuable time • Take responsibility for your financial health ELEM E n T KEY Regular ‘downtime’ and reflection is important for your sanity and success. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 40. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 36 Debbie Ford The Dark Side Of The Light Chasers - 1998 - Five times New York Times • The shadow inside is the person you would rather not be. bestseller • White, like perfect love, is not the absence of color but the inclusion - Coach and TV appearance of all color. personality • The divine and the diabolical lie dormant within us, look within to your own psyche, integrate and see this is OK to become whole. • List your least favorite attributes, play with them until you can see the gifts in these. Divine is not perfect, it is being whole. • Be gentle with others and do not judge harshly, gently watching for some of your attributes in others. ELEM E n T KEY Whether you like it or not, if you are human you have a shadow or attributes you do not like. Become whole by seeing them and their gift to you. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 41. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 37 Michael Dell Direct from Dell: Strategies that Revolutionized an Industry - 1999 - Started Dell, computers • Think unconventionally direct to consumers • Despise the status quo - Loved taking computers apart, idea germinated in • Set big goals that may just be do-able freshman year • Love change - Multi-billion dollar company with over 40,000 • Focus on your possibilities employees - Self-made ELEM E n T KEY Do fewer things, better. The simpler you make life for people, the more valuable you will be. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 42. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 38 Dan Millman Body Mind Mastery - 1999 - Former world champion athlete • You reshape your life by being aware and integrating your body, mind and emotions through training. - College Professor • Fear of failure generates vicious circles that create what you fear. - Bestselling author Make peace with failure, treating as an old friend playing a practical published in more than joke. 20 languages • Be free of self-criticism, just keep practicing and be gentle with yourself. • Stay relaxed and focus on constructive action. • Your body will sculpt over time with daily habits of exercise and diet so keep your desire for change strong. ELEM E n T KEY This, and every moment, is the moment of truth. Freedom from mental distractions equals power. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 43. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 39 Richard Koch The 80/20 Principle - 1999 - Author, businessman and • Pareto Principle of 80/20 is everywhere – 20% of people own 80% of consultant wealth; 20% of criminals commit 80% of crimes. - Several International • 20% of what you do yields 80% of results, with 80% of your effort bestsellers yielding very little, the Principle of Least Effort. • Applies to goals, business, friends, diet, relationships and all areas of your life. • Be unreasonable and go after big, but few, focused goals. • Spend time and emotional energy only those things that are important to you. ELEM E n T KEY 20% of effort gets 80% of results. Target a limited number of activities and goals and ruthlessly focus - do less to achieve more! www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 44. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 40 Bill Phillips Body For Life - 1999 - A New York Times • Identify reasons to change, get a future vision of yourself and decide Bestseller to change. - 12 week training and diet • Identify 3 old habits holding you back and 3 new empowering habits. regimen • Eat 6 small healthy meals per day having carbohydrates and protein, - Hundreds of thousands including vegetables with at least two of the meals. used the program • Muscle is 70% water, drink 10 glasses per day. - Inspirational personal case stories • Alternate days, 20 minutes aerobic exercise and 45 minute strength training (Sunday’s free). Repetitions not as important as building to High Points (maximum intensity) per muscle group. ELEM E n T KEY Can transform your body in 12 weeks, when you gain control of your body, you will gain control of your life. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 45. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 41 Thomas Stanley The Millionaire Mind - 2000 - Author interviewed and • Wealth is linked to courage and belief in their ability to generate questioned over wealth. 700 wealthy people • Do a variety of jobs, then settle to do work that you love to do. - Part of successful bestseller Millionaire • The harder you work, the luckier you get. series • Millionaire’s are frugal yet don’t do DIY, control you finances from the - Holds a business start and do not be reliant on credit. doctorate and was a Professor at Georgia • A successful marriage is a significant factor in success. University ELEM E n T KEY Millionaire minds are not born, they are a set of habits and attitudes anyone can cultivate. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 46. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 42 Robin Sharma The Saint, The Surfer And The CEO - 2002 - Former lawyer, now • Saint’s insight: trust and open up to how the world really works. To bestselling author and thine own self be true, direct yourself at what you love to do. professional speaker • Surfer’s insight: reflect, if your inner world is healthy and complete, - Fictional work of Jack the simplest basic things will fill your heart and soul. Valentine who meets his Dad’s mentors • Surfer’s insight: live with a greater sense of perspective and appreciation of life and the truth. - Also wrote, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, an • Surfer’s insight: live your best life. International bestseller • CEO insight: the one who gives the most, wins (do the best you can and serve others). ELEM E n T KEY There is a sleeping giant inside everyone, miracles happen when you open your inner self and that giant awakes. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 47. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 43 Martin Seligman Authentic Happiness - 2002 - Former President of the • Happiness and well-being are the desired outcomes of Positive American Psychological Psychology. Association • Through the ages, the six core virtues are : (1) wisdom and - Bestselling author knowledge (2) courage (3) love and humanity (4) sense of justice (5) temperance (6) spirituality and transcendence. - University Professor • Do not devote overly much effort to correcting your weaknesses, build and use your signature strengths. • Wealth creates a ‘pleasant life’, a good life is using your signature strengths daily to produce authentic happiness and abundance. • Beyond a job or career, for if you can find a way to use your signature strengths at work often, and they also contribute to the greater good, you have a calling. ELEM E n T KEY The good life consists in deriving happiness by using your signature strengths every day in the main realms of living. The meaningful life adds one more component: using these strengths to forward knowledge, power or goodness. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 48. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 44 Richard Wiseman The Luck Factor - 2003 - Started as a professional • The lucky personality creates, notices and acts upon chance magician opportunities in their lives to manufacture their luck. - Doctorate from Edinburgh • Have a relaxed attitude to people and life, the openness to University new experiences allows you see what is there. - Book followed an eight • Trust your intuition and foster a better relationship with year study your unconscious. - Several scholarly articles • Expect the best, believe and persevere as this becomes and television self-fulfilling. appearances business advisor and lecturer • Lucky people also have bad times, yet they seek out the learning experience and never believe that their bad times are permanent. ELEM E n T KEY Luck is less related to chance than we may think, it is about a lucky mindset and approach to life. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 49. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 45 Byron Katie Loving What Is - 2003 - Several bestsellers • When I argue with reality, I lose. - Her mission is to end • Stay in your business and out of others, see everything as a friend. suffering due to stressful beliefs and see reality • Do not be overwhelmed by stressful thoughts but they are compassionate alarm clocks alerting us. • Problems often misperception in wrong thinking. • Throw “should” away, stress comes from the stories we tell ourselves. ELEM E n T KEY Take a stressful thought and ask - Is it true? - Can I absolutely know it is true? - How do I react when I think that thought? - Who would I be without the thought? - Turn it around and state it as an opposite and reflect! www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 50. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 46 Jack Canfield The Success Principles - 2004 - He has sold more than • Take 100% responsibility 100 million copies, including Chicken Soup • Get a purpose and be clear why you are here, believing the world and for the Soul series events will conspire to help you achieve. - Success coach with • Make a list of 30 things you want to do, 30 things you want to have audiences across and 30 things you want to be, before you die. 20 countries • It is all about attitude and being prepared to do your own push-ups. • Focus on your goals and remember that others are not thinking about you but are too busy worrying about their own lives. ELEM E n T KEY If you are clear where you are going and take several steps in that direction everyday, you eventually have to get there. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 51. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 47 Wayne Dyer The Power Of Intention - 2005 - Holds a PhD • Act as if everything you desire is already here. - Internationally acclaimed • Four steps of intention are Discipline, Wisdom, Love and Surrender. speaker and author of more than 30 books • Hit the delete button every time fear appears. • Contemplate what you want instead of what you don’t have. • Say ‘Yes’ to life, you must be what it is you are seeking; if you want peace, start by being peace. ELEM E n T KEY Surrender, there is a force greater than you guiding the universe and manifesting your desires. Relax and trust this power of intention. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 52. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 48 Rhonda Byrne The Secret - 2006 - Many thought leaders • Law of Attraction means ‘like attracts like’, so when you think a contributed to book thought, you are also attracting ‘like’ thoughts and events to you. - Global phenomena and • Nothing, good or bad, can come into your experience unless you International summon it through persistent thoughts. accompanying film release • Step 1: Ask - Record rate of sales for • Step 2: Believe the first 5 million copies sold •Step 3: Receive • To receive, you must be open and feel good. stiEM E n T EL ons QE e KuY The Great Secret of Life is the Law of Attraction. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 53. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 49 Russell Simmons Do You! - 2007 - “Innovative and influential • See your vision and stick with it. Focus on your effort instead of figure” - New York Times results of that effort. - Hip-hop mogul • Focus on Doing You, meditate for a clear and focused mind and it will last a lifetime. - Uses inspiring stories to teach the lessons • Start each day by reflecting on all the things you can be grateful for, love the world! - Spiritual entrepreneur • Use your talents and do not stall for the pain of avoiding work is more than the actual work itself. • Age ain’t nothing but a number and the biggest thing that separates you from the success you seek is fear. stiEM E n T EL ons QE e KuY In the end, the overriding factor in whether or not you realize your dreams is going to be you. Not the world. YOU. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 54. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 50 Rupert McKerron How To Have A Big Life - 2007 - Merchant Banker and • Your talent brings you joy and points to your purpose in life, so listen entrepreneur to your feelings and intuition to follow your dreams. - Left London due to • Control and mock the anxious little voice of your conscious mind. Chronic Fatigue Syndrome to pursue his dreams in • Daily repetition of positive affirmation statements, even if not feel South Africa right initially, to guide the subconscious. • Have big written goals that are unique for you, understanding you will not get there in a straight line – just do it! • Enjoy living in the present and choose to see the world, not as tough or unfair, but abundant and full of opportunities. stiEM E n T EL ons QE e KuY Do what is right for YOU. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 55. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 51 Marci Shimoff with Carol Kline Happy For No Reason - 2008 - New York Times • Depression is a global illness. Do not pursue happiness, make a bestselling author habit of it. - Co-author of five Chicken • Internal “happiness setpoint” that is 50% genetic, 10% Soup for the Soul Series circumstances and wealth but 40% habitual thoughts and feelings. Increase your setpoint by looking at your habits. - Featured in The Secret sensation • Respond to events in a way that supports your inner peace, quieten your mind and Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTs), authentically be - Prolific International velcro for positivity and teflon for negativity. speaker • Cherokee Indian story – inside each person are two battling wolves, Unhappiness and Happiness. Which will win? The one that you feed. • Actively remove “blaming” and have the true intention to notice everything good. stiEM E n T EL ons QE e KuY Happy for no reason is not a grinning fool. It is about an underlying state of well-being where you live from happiness rather than for happiness. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 56. WISDOM OF THE AGES BOOK 52 Esther and Jerry Hicks Money, And The Law Of Attraction - 2008 - International Bestseller • Most valuable skill is directing your thoughts to what you want, then giving undivided attention to that. - Claims to channel from spiritual link • Consciously pivot out of negative thoughts to positive when they arise. - Abraham-Hicks teachings Hold workshops in 60 • There is nothing you cannot be or do and your work here is to seek cities per year joy. • Shortage of a connection to the Energy that creates the world is at the heart of any shortage you experience in other areas. • For when you feel good, you are in harmony with your greater intent. stiEM E n T EL ons QE e KuY Nothing more detrimental to positively attract the life you want, are negative emotions and thoughts. www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 57. WISDOM OF THE AGES H E R S I N M O T IO N FA T QUOTES - WISDOM SOUND BITES Kernels of truth are often evident in short quotations I call it Bumper Sticker insight Read through some of these, if any resonant or catch your eye, think on why that is and what truth lies within the quote that would enhance your life if acted upon See Book II For Fathers & Sons A Unique Life Guide www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 58. WISDOM OF THE AGES “We judge ourselves by “Our deeds determine us, as much as we determine our deeds” what we feel capable of ~Joseph Conrad - Achievement doing, while others judge us “I have always thought the actions of men the best interpreters of their thoughts” by what we have already ~John Locke - Achievement done” “Action is eloquence” ~ Henry Longfellow ~Shakespeare - Achievement “Better to wear out than rust out” ~Anonymous - Action “Nothing accomplishes nothing” ~Bahya Paguda - Action “Lose an hour in the morning and you will be looking for it the rest of the day” ~Lord Chesterfield - Action “To be or not to be, that is your decision” ~Pat Paradwoski - Action “There is only one proof of ability - results. Men with ability in action get results” ~Harry Banks - Action “Adventures are to the adventurous” ~Benjamin Disraeli - Adventure “If you want the rainbow, you have to put up with the rain” ~Dolly Parton - Adversity “Adversity causes some men to break, others to break records” ~William Arthur Ward - Adversity “It is difficulties that show what men are” ~Epictetus - Adversity “Do not hold everything as gold that shines like gold” ~Alain de Lille - Appearances www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 59. WISDOM OF THE AGES “Excellence can be attained “We may convince others by our arguments; but we can only persuade them by their own” if you…care more than the ~Joseph Joubert - Arguments others think is wise; risk “Your attitude determines your altitude” more than the others think ~Zig Ziglar - Attitude is safe; dream more than others think is practical and “A new attitude…invariable creates a new result” expect more than others ~Anonymous - Attitude think is possible” “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. ~Anonymous - Attitude Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover” ~ Mark Twain - Attitude “If you think you can, or if you think you cannot; You are probably right” ~Henry Ford - Beliefs “Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go” ~T.S Elliot - Boldness “A life in fear is a life half lived” ~Anonymous - Boldness “It is better to die on your feet than to live on your knees” ~Dolores Ibarruri - Boldness “Let thy speech be short, comprehending much in few word” ~The Bible - Ecclesiasticus 32:8 Brevity “Nothing astonishes men so much as common sense and plain dealing” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson - Business “Good bargains are pick-pockets” ~Thomas Fuller - Business “The buyer needs a hundred eyes, the seller but one” ~George Herbet - Business “Be ever watchful of advice where the giver stands to gain” ~Anonymous - Business www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA
  • 60. WISDOM OF THE AGES “When one's character “The only certainty is that nothing is certain” begins to fall under ~Pliny the Elder - Certainty suspicion and disfavour, “Doubt is not a pleasant condition, but certainty is an absurd one” how swift, then, is the work ~Voltaire - Certainty of disintegration and destruction.” “Things are not to happen to you, they must happen because of you” ~Anon - Change ~Mark Twain “The easiest way to manage change is to create it” ~Dr. Molapo - Change “A prisoner of the past; or pioneer of the future” ~Anon - Change “If you want something that you have never had before; You must do something you have never done before” ~Anon - Change “Sow a thought and you reap an action; sow an act and you reap a habit; sow a habit and you reap a character; sow a character and you reap a destiny” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson - Character “Everyone is a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody” ~Mark Twain - Character “A man's character may be learned from the adjectives which he habitually uses in conversation. ~Mark Twain - Character ”As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he” ~James Allen - Character “The man who has confidence in himself gains the confidence of others” ~Hasidic saying - Confidence “They can because they think they can” ~Virgil - Confidence “You can do anything in this world if you're prepared to take the consequences” ~W. Somerset Maugham - Consequences www.FathersInMotion.com Copyright © Fathers In Motion, California USA