Here is something I have done for my ESL discussion class. It is a very simple one. I also added an extra slide showing a piece of homework. You can download it. You can also make some changes that suit your teaching method and your students' learning styles.

1. Non
Communication
Verbal

2. Uses
convey emotion
define relationship
provide feedback
reinforce verbal messages
regulate communication

3. interpersonal
communication

4. NVC
haptics
paralanguage
proximity
appearance

5. haptics
affection
familiarity
sympathy
care
concern
power/control

6. Paralanguage
• all aspects of the voice:
tone
pitch
speed
volume
p.a.u.s.e.s
he/si/ta/tions/

7. How close are we?
• Intimate Distance (touching to 45cm)
- bf/gf; husband/wife
• Personal Distance (45cm to 1.2m)
- friends/family members
• Social Distance (1.2m to 3.6m)
- colleagues/co-workers
• Public Distance (3.7m to 4.5m)
- teachers/public speakers
. . . p r o x i m i t y

8. appearance
color
clothing
hairdo
tattoo
accessories
group

9. Homework: Jealousy
• How does jealousy affect
relationship?
• When is jealousy good? When is it
bad?
• When was the last time you were
jealous of somebody?