4. Have The Talk!
….Talking with your partner about sexually
transmitted infections is the first step to
having safer sex.
5. Topics to Discuss:
Previous Are alcohol/drugs
partners/how many involved when we
Has either of us have sex?
ever been Safer sex practices
tested/screened for What types of
an STI? precautions can we
Have our previous take?
partners ever had
an STI?
6. Know Your Risk
Sexual Activity Type of Risk
Receiving Anal Intercourse High Risk
Vaginal Intercourse High Risk
Oral Sex Medium Risk
Rimming (Licking Partner’s Medium Risk
Anus)
Dildos/Sex Toys Lower Risk
Deep Manual Sex and Finger Lower Risk
Play
Water Sports (Urinating on Lower Risk
Partner)
7. Top 10 Safer Sex Tips
1. Bring your own condom.
2. Role play safer sex conversations with
friends.
3. Create limits in advance.
4. Avoid getting too drunk or high.
5. Make safer sex part of sex.
6. Don’t rush into higher risk activities.
7. If you feel unsafe, seek the help of a
professional.
8. Choose responsible partners.
9. Work toward talking openly about safer
sex with friends and partners.
10. Don’t feel bad about yourself if you find
this difficult.
8. Protection
“Male condoms, used on the penis during
vaginal and anal intercourse and oral sex, are
the most accessible and best-known barrier
protection.” (Our Bodies, Ourselves, 2011)
10. Sex Education Tips
Offer age-appropriate
information.
Cooperate with young people.
Help young people to clarify
their values.
Help young people to develop
communication skills.
Provide medically-accurate
information.
Have clear goals.
Focus on specific behaviors
related to the goals.
Address psychosocial risk
factors.
Respect community values.