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The Right Mindset:
Change Your Mindset
in Six Steps
Thursday 10th March, 2016
B2B Showcase
Welcome, my name is…
Kelly Fryer
Creative Coach and Guide
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 2
Roadmap
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 3
How to hear
your voice
What
Mindset Is
The 9 signs that it’s
time to change your
mindset
Growth
Mindset vs.
Fixed Mindset
Six Steps to
change your
mindset
Questions
Start
Close
Mindset – What is it?
Mindset is defined as a set of beliefs or way of thinking that determines
someone’s behaviour, outlook and mental attitude that impacts the outcome of
someone’s endeavours.
Think about your intelligence, your talents, your personality. Are these
qualities simply fixed traits, carved in stone and that’s that? Or are they things
you can cultivate throughout your life?
An effective mindset is one that makes the best use of available resources –
time, energy and efforts.
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 4
Why mindset coaching?
Why do I describe myself as a mindset coach rather than any other kind
of coach?
Basically, your mindset is the beliefs you hold about yourself and these
beliefs have an enormous influence on every aspect of your life personally
and professionally.
In mindset coaching I look at the beliefs that you have about yourself and
see if they are aligned with where you really want to be. If they aren’t, we
will work on changing the beliefs that are not aligned. In short, we will
work on removing the obstacles and self limiting beliefs replacing these
with more positive beliefs, greater confidence and increased self-esteem.
And the exciting part about this? It allows you to achieve your goals and
dreams and live a happier more confident life.
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 5
9 signs it’s time to change your mindset
Your
expectations
are stressing
you out.
You see
nothing but
negatives.
You are
relentlessly
resisting the
truth.
You have a
tendency to
blame
others.
You are
passionately
worried
about
everything.
You catch
yourself
living in the
past.
You secretly
want a pain-
free life.
You’re never
satisfied
with what
you have.
It’s been a
while since
you learned
something
new.
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 6
You see nothing but negatives
Don’t pay attention to negative thoughts
Don’t bury your head in the sand
Focused act on thinking positively
Negativity doesn’t make anyone a better person
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 7
You are relentlessly resisting the truth
Pay attention to self-talk
Complaining is non-acceptance
of reality
When you complain, you transform
yourself into a victim
Taking positive action puts you back
in control
Me!
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 8
You have a tendency to blame others
Letting go gives us emotional freedom
The strong person is not the best fighter
The strong person in the one that controls emotions
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You are passionately worried about everything
Worrying steals your joy
It’s not what you look at it’s what
you see
Always two ways to address your
present situation
Stop worrying, focus within and be
mindful
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 10
Your expectations are stressing you out
Appreciate ‘what is’
Be thankful for the glass
The magnitude of success will
be directly proportional to
your thoughts
Appreciate reality, don’t fight it
Success
Thoughts
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 11
You secretly want a pain free life
Pain is part of being human
It strengthens the mind, heart and body
Real life experiences allow you to grow
Like is like a game of chess
Heart
Body
Head
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 12
You’re never satisfied with what you have
Stress and frustration is greater
when we want more
Want less and appreciate more
Gratitude attitude
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 13
It’s been a while since you learned something new
Learn something new
FAIL – First Attempt In Learning
Learn what excites you
Learning is healing
F
First
L
Learning
I
In
A
Attempt
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 14
You catch yourself living in the past
Nostalgia is good but can cause frustration
Don’t let your past steal your present
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Hear your voice
Learn to
hear your
Fixed
Mindset
“voice”
Recognise
that you
have a
choice
Talk back to
it with a
Growth
Mindset
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Growth Mindset vs Fixed Mindset
Growth
Mindset
• I can learn anything I want to.
• When I’m frustrated, I persevere.
• I want to challenge myself.
• When I fail, I learn.
• Tell me I try hard.
• If you succeed, I’m inspired.
Fixed
Mindset
• I’m either good at it, or I’m not.
• When I’m frustrated, I give up.
• I don’t like to be challenged.
• When I fail, I’m no good.
• Tell me I’m smart.
• If you succeed, I feel threatened.
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 17
Growth mindset vs Fixed mindset
People with a fixed mindset
believe that their traits are just
givens. They have a certain amount
of brains and talent and nothing can
change that. If they have a lot,
they’re all set, but if they don’t… So
people in this mindset worry about
their traits and how adequate they
are. They have something to
themselves and others.
People with a growth mindset, on
the other hand, see their qualities as
things that can be developed
through their dedication and effort.
Sure they’re happy if they’re brainy
or talented, but that’s just the
starting point. They understand
that no one has ever accomplished
great things – not Mozart, Darwin,
or Michael Jordan – without years of
passionate practice and learning.
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 18
6 steps to change your mindset
1 Get the best information only.
2 Role model the best people.
3 Examine your current beliefs.
4 Shape your mindset with vision and goals.
5 Find your voice.
6 Protect your mindset and your energy.
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Perfect Day Tool
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Questions?
April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 21
Find out more
Visit my blog at www.kelly-fryer.com
Find my online programmes at www.udemy.com
Work with me 121 – Book your discovery call at www.kelly-fryer.com
Find me on:
 Facebook – Kelly Fryer Mindset Coach
 Twitter - @kellyfryer1
 LinkedIn – Kelly Fryer
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Thank you so much for your time today.
What’s the one thing you can takeaway today that you can
implement within the next 24 hours?
Good luck!
www.kelly-fryer.com

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Change Your Mindset in 6 Steps

  • 1. The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps Thursday 10th March, 2016 B2B Showcase
  • 2. Welcome, my name is… Kelly Fryer Creative Coach and Guide April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 2
  • 3. Roadmap April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 3 How to hear your voice What Mindset Is The 9 signs that it’s time to change your mindset Growth Mindset vs. Fixed Mindset Six Steps to change your mindset Questions Start Close
  • 4. Mindset – What is it? Mindset is defined as a set of beliefs or way of thinking that determines someone’s behaviour, outlook and mental attitude that impacts the outcome of someone’s endeavours. Think about your intelligence, your talents, your personality. Are these qualities simply fixed traits, carved in stone and that’s that? Or are they things you can cultivate throughout your life? An effective mindset is one that makes the best use of available resources – time, energy and efforts. April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 4
  • 5. Why mindset coaching? Why do I describe myself as a mindset coach rather than any other kind of coach? Basically, your mindset is the beliefs you hold about yourself and these beliefs have an enormous influence on every aspect of your life personally and professionally. In mindset coaching I look at the beliefs that you have about yourself and see if they are aligned with where you really want to be. If they aren’t, we will work on changing the beliefs that are not aligned. In short, we will work on removing the obstacles and self limiting beliefs replacing these with more positive beliefs, greater confidence and increased self-esteem. And the exciting part about this? It allows you to achieve your goals and dreams and live a happier more confident life. April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 5
  • 6. 9 signs it’s time to change your mindset Your expectations are stressing you out. You see nothing but negatives. You are relentlessly resisting the truth. You have a tendency to blame others. You are passionately worried about everything. You catch yourself living in the past. You secretly want a pain- free life. You’re never satisfied with what you have. It’s been a while since you learned something new. April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 6
  • 7. You see nothing but negatives Don’t pay attention to negative thoughts Don’t bury your head in the sand Focused act on thinking positively Negativity doesn’t make anyone a better person April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 7
  • 8. You are relentlessly resisting the truth Pay attention to self-talk Complaining is non-acceptance of reality When you complain, you transform yourself into a victim Taking positive action puts you back in control Me! April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 8
  • 9. You have a tendency to blame others Letting go gives us emotional freedom The strong person is not the best fighter The strong person in the one that controls emotions April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 9
  • 10. You are passionately worried about everything Worrying steals your joy It’s not what you look at it’s what you see Always two ways to address your present situation Stop worrying, focus within and be mindful April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 10
  • 11. Your expectations are stressing you out Appreciate ‘what is’ Be thankful for the glass The magnitude of success will be directly proportional to your thoughts Appreciate reality, don’t fight it Success Thoughts April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 11
  • 12. You secretly want a pain free life Pain is part of being human It strengthens the mind, heart and body Real life experiences allow you to grow Like is like a game of chess Heart Body Head April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 12
  • 13. You’re never satisfied with what you have Stress and frustration is greater when we want more Want less and appreciate more Gratitude attitude April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 13
  • 14. It’s been a while since you learned something new Learn something new FAIL – First Attempt In Learning Learn what excites you Learning is healing F First L Learning I In A Attempt April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 14
  • 15. You catch yourself living in the past Nostalgia is good but can cause frustration Don’t let your past steal your present April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 15
  • 16. Hear your voice Learn to hear your Fixed Mindset “voice” Recognise that you have a choice Talk back to it with a Growth Mindset April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 16
  • 17. Growth Mindset vs Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset • I can learn anything I want to. • When I’m frustrated, I persevere. • I want to challenge myself. • When I fail, I learn. • Tell me I try hard. • If you succeed, I’m inspired. Fixed Mindset • I’m either good at it, or I’m not. • When I’m frustrated, I give up. • I don’t like to be challenged. • When I fail, I’m no good. • Tell me I’m smart. • If you succeed, I feel threatened. April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 17
  • 18. Growth mindset vs Fixed mindset People with a fixed mindset believe that their traits are just givens. They have a certain amount of brains and talent and nothing can change that. If they have a lot, they’re all set, but if they don’t… So people in this mindset worry about their traits and how adequate they are. They have something to themselves and others. People with a growth mindset, on the other hand, see their qualities as things that can be developed through their dedication and effort. Sure they’re happy if they’re brainy or talented, but that’s just the starting point. They understand that no one has ever accomplished great things – not Mozart, Darwin, or Michael Jordan – without years of passionate practice and learning. April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 18
  • 19. 6 steps to change your mindset 1 Get the best information only. 2 Role model the best people. 3 Examine your current beliefs. 4 Shape your mindset with vision and goals. 5 Find your voice. 6 Protect your mindset and your energy. April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 19
  • 20. Perfect Day Tool April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 20
  • 21. Questions? April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 21
  • 22. Find out more Visit my blog at www.kelly-fryer.com Find my online programmes at www.udemy.com Work with me 121 – Book your discovery call at www.kelly-fryer.com Find me on:  Facebook – Kelly Fryer Mindset Coach  Twitter - @kellyfryer1  LinkedIn – Kelly Fryer April 2016The Right Mindset: Change Your Mindset in Six Steps 22
  • 23. Thank you so much for your time today. What’s the one thing you can takeaway today that you can implement within the next 24 hours? Good luck! www.kelly-fryer.com

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