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EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION
AND INFLUENCE PRACTICES
How to influence and communicate to create action
2018  |  TAMPERE, FINLAND | OLLI AUVINEN
WHAT DO WE MEAN BY EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION AND
INFLUENCE?
Effectiveness in communication means three things:
1. We got what we wanted—a tangible result or a moment of positive emotional connection.
2. We’ve been understood from our point of view (and that was communicated back to us).
3. The other party seems fine with the exchange—there were no indications of uncertainty, frustration, fear, or anger. 
Sources and suggested reads:
Effective Communication Skills - Dalton Kehoe
Influence: Mastering Life’s Most Powerful Skill - Kenneth G. Brown
The Art of Negotiating the Best Deal - Seth Freeman
TACTICS
USE THE ATTiC FRAMEWORK TO GENERATE RESULTS
TARGETAGENT CONTEXT
THE SUCCESSFULL AGENT
According to Robert Cialdini, “liking” is a major principle of successful
influence. In other words, an agent’s success is often based on how
well he or she is liked by other people. When people like you, they
are more likely to listen to your arguments and be convinced by
them. They are also more likely to want to please you and go along
with your wants and desires. 
WHO IS INFLUENCIAL?
One important pathway to liking is perceived similarity.
When people see you as similar to them in some
fashion, they immediately—and almost automatically
—like you more.
Action point for companies:
Create a mission statement your target audience
agrees on = similarity in beliefs. Use narratives.
Eg. “We fulfill dreams through the experiences of
motorcycling" - Harley-Davidson
Professor Burger found that students contributed more than twice
as much to a cause ($2.07 versus $1.00)
when they thought they shared the same name as the requestor. 
MAKE THE TARGET RECEPTIVE
Note that when an opportunity arises to influence someone and
you are the agent, your chances of success depend not just on you
but also on your target.
A MOTIVATED TARGET IS PRONE TO INFLUENCE
When people were made to believe that the
information presented was personally relevant
because they would be asked about it later, the
strength of the arguments mattered.In this condition,
having a famous endorser did not influence
participants’ attitudes toward the advertised product. 
When people did not think the material was
personally relevant because they were unlikely to
have to do anything with the information later, the
argument did not make a difference;
attitudes were the same whether the arguments were
strong or weak. But famous endorsers did make a
difference!
A now-classic study examining central and peripheral processing
was published in the Journal of Consumer Research in 1983. This
study found that people’s attitudes after viewing an advertisement could not be
predicted solely by argument strength (a central route) or by whether a famous
endorser was used (a peripheral route). Another factor to be considered was
whether or not people were motivated to pay attention. 
USE THE RIGHT TACTICS
RATIONAL PERSUASION AND INSPIRATION
Essentially, rational persuasion is about putting
forward ideas for why a particular course of action is a
good one and should be the way forward. When a
mother tells a child to do something because she said
so, she’s not using rational persuasion. When you give
a coworker three reasons to change a procedure,
you’re using rationality.
Inspiration is about using appeals to value and
higher-order principles to motivate action. When you
tell a child to do something for the sake of safety,
you’re using pressure, not inspiration. When
you tell a target that working together will help make
the world abetter place for children, then you’re using
inspiration.
A 2003 meta-analysis published in the Journal of Organizational
Behaviour found that rationality (as a general tactic) has the strongest positive
effect on work outcomes. In short, it is a good first “go to” tactic for getting
commitment from people you are trying to influence at work.
In many cases, doing a little research and preparing a list of reasons before an
influence attempt can save time and streamline the process of change over using the
hard tactic of pressure.
As we all know, some influence tactics work better than others. Imagine,
for example, that you want to influence your boss to promote you. What
tactics work best—focusing on the job or focusing on your supervisor?
Business professors Tim Judge and Bob Bretz found that supervisor
focused influence had a much more positive effect; those who focused
their influence on the job had lower salaries and fewer promotions than
those who focused on their supervisors. 
TAKE AN ADVANTAGE OF THE CONTEXT
Context may include what has happened recently or what is
happening right now around you. Most compelling is what other
people are doing. We all have a natural tendency to make sense
of the world based on how others react to it. If you hear a strange
sound while walking through a store, you look around. If no
one else seems concerned, you will conclude that all is well and
continue on your way. 
HOW TO USE CONTEXT TO YOUR FAVOR?
SCARCITY. In many situations, people do not know the actual worth
of an object or action. If you’re asked to purchase a new smartphone
with unique features for $500, you would not immediately know
whether the phone is worth $500. One way you might determine
whether this is a good deal is by looking at the context: How many of
the phones are available? Is there competition for them? If there are
only a few phones and everyone seems to want one,
then the phone is scarce.
SOCIAL PROOF. In another experiment, Milgram had five research
confederates stop and look up at a building on 42nd Street in New
York City. He found that approximately 80 percent of people passing
by also looked up. His results confirm that we all often make sense
of the world around us by watching for cues from other people.
To apply the scarcity tactic, try making yourself “scarce” when it comes to buying.
The next time you are looking to buy a car, reach out via e-mail or the web to a few
dealers. Find out if they have the car you’d like in stock and what deal you could get.
Then visit the dealership where you would prefer to buy. Let the salesperson know
that you have heard from three other dealers who are interested in your business. In
this way, you are arguing that your business and your time are scarce. A salesperson
who wants the sale should move at this point to make an offer that appeals to you!
LISTENING: A KEY TO SUCCESSFUL
INFLUENCE
In their book Real Influence, Mark Goulston and John Ullmen emphasize the need to avoid
hard tactics and offer tips for using soft tactics and gaining commitment. The core of their
argument is quite simple: To gain commitment, agents have to listen in order to adjust
their influence efforts to account for their targets’ thoughts and feelings. The authors
interviewed more than 100 high-level influencers and found that listening and adjusting
are keys to success. 
THANK YOU!
Sources and suggested reads:
Effective Communication Skills - Dalton Kehoe
Influence: Mastering Life’s Most Powerful Skill - Kenneth G. Brown
The Art of Negotiating the Best Deal - Seth Freeman
 
Olli Auvinen
olli.auvinen@intopalo.com

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Effective Communication and Influence

  • 1. EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION AND INFLUENCE PRACTICES How to influence and communicate to create action 2018  |  TAMPERE, FINLAND | OLLI AUVINEN
  • 2. WHAT DO WE MEAN BY EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION AND INFLUENCE? Effectiveness in communication means three things: 1. We got what we wanted—a tangible result or a moment of positive emotional connection. 2. We’ve been understood from our point of view (and that was communicated back to us). 3. The other party seems fine with the exchange—there were no indications of uncertainty, frustration, fear, or anger.  Sources and suggested reads: Effective Communication Skills - Dalton Kehoe Influence: Mastering Life’s Most Powerful Skill - Kenneth G. Brown The Art of Negotiating the Best Deal - Seth Freeman
  • 3. TACTICS USE THE ATTiC FRAMEWORK TO GENERATE RESULTS TARGETAGENT CONTEXT
  • 4. THE SUCCESSFULL AGENT According to Robert Cialdini, “liking” is a major principle of successful influence. In other words, an agent’s success is often based on how well he or she is liked by other people. When people like you, they are more likely to listen to your arguments and be convinced by them. They are also more likely to want to please you and go along with your wants and desires.  WHO IS INFLUENCIAL? One important pathway to liking is perceived similarity. When people see you as similar to them in some fashion, they immediately—and almost automatically —like you more. Action point for companies: Create a mission statement your target audience agrees on = similarity in beliefs. Use narratives. Eg. “We fulfill dreams through the experiences of motorcycling" - Harley-Davidson Professor Burger found that students contributed more than twice as much to a cause ($2.07 versus $1.00) when they thought they shared the same name as the requestor. 
  • 5. MAKE THE TARGET RECEPTIVE Note that when an opportunity arises to influence someone and you are the agent, your chances of success depend not just on you but also on your target. A MOTIVATED TARGET IS PRONE TO INFLUENCE When people were made to believe that the information presented was personally relevant because they would be asked about it later, the strength of the arguments mattered.In this condition, having a famous endorser did not influence participants’ attitudes toward the advertised product.  When people did not think the material was personally relevant because they were unlikely to have to do anything with the information later, the argument did not make a difference; attitudes were the same whether the arguments were strong or weak. But famous endorsers did make a difference! A now-classic study examining central and peripheral processing was published in the Journal of Consumer Research in 1983. This study found that people’s attitudes after viewing an advertisement could not be predicted solely by argument strength (a central route) or by whether a famous endorser was used (a peripheral route). Another factor to be considered was whether or not people were motivated to pay attention. 
  • 6. USE THE RIGHT TACTICS RATIONAL PERSUASION AND INSPIRATION Essentially, rational persuasion is about putting forward ideas for why a particular course of action is a good one and should be the way forward. When a mother tells a child to do something because she said so, she’s not using rational persuasion. When you give a coworker three reasons to change a procedure, you’re using rationality. Inspiration is about using appeals to value and higher-order principles to motivate action. When you tell a child to do something for the sake of safety, you’re using pressure, not inspiration. When you tell a target that working together will help make the world abetter place for children, then you’re using inspiration. A 2003 meta-analysis published in the Journal of Organizational Behaviour found that rationality (as a general tactic) has the strongest positive effect on work outcomes. In short, it is a good first “go to” tactic for getting commitment from people you are trying to influence at work. In many cases, doing a little research and preparing a list of reasons before an influence attempt can save time and streamline the process of change over using the hard tactic of pressure. As we all know, some influence tactics work better than others. Imagine, for example, that you want to influence your boss to promote you. What tactics work best—focusing on the job or focusing on your supervisor? Business professors Tim Judge and Bob Bretz found that supervisor focused influence had a much more positive effect; those who focused their influence on the job had lower salaries and fewer promotions than those who focused on their supervisors. 
  • 7. TAKE AN ADVANTAGE OF THE CONTEXT Context may include what has happened recently or what is happening right now around you. Most compelling is what other people are doing. We all have a natural tendency to make sense of the world based on how others react to it. If you hear a strange sound while walking through a store, you look around. If no one else seems concerned, you will conclude that all is well and continue on your way.  HOW TO USE CONTEXT TO YOUR FAVOR? SCARCITY. In many situations, people do not know the actual worth of an object or action. If you’re asked to purchase a new smartphone with unique features for $500, you would not immediately know whether the phone is worth $500. One way you might determine whether this is a good deal is by looking at the context: How many of the phones are available? Is there competition for them? If there are only a few phones and everyone seems to want one, then the phone is scarce. SOCIAL PROOF. In another experiment, Milgram had five research confederates stop and look up at a building on 42nd Street in New York City. He found that approximately 80 percent of people passing by also looked up. His results confirm that we all often make sense of the world around us by watching for cues from other people. To apply the scarcity tactic, try making yourself “scarce” when it comes to buying. The next time you are looking to buy a car, reach out via e-mail or the web to a few dealers. Find out if they have the car you’d like in stock and what deal you could get. Then visit the dealership where you would prefer to buy. Let the salesperson know that you have heard from three other dealers who are interested in your business. In this way, you are arguing that your business and your time are scarce. A salesperson who wants the sale should move at this point to make an offer that appeals to you!
  • 8. LISTENING: A KEY TO SUCCESSFUL INFLUENCE In their book Real Influence, Mark Goulston and John Ullmen emphasize the need to avoid hard tactics and offer tips for using soft tactics and gaining commitment. The core of their argument is quite simple: To gain commitment, agents have to listen in order to adjust their influence efforts to account for their targets’ thoughts and feelings. The authors interviewed more than 100 high-level influencers and found that listening and adjusting are keys to success. 
  • 9. THANK YOU! Sources and suggested reads: Effective Communication Skills - Dalton Kehoe Influence: Mastering Life’s Most Powerful Skill - Kenneth G. Brown The Art of Negotiating the Best Deal - Seth Freeman   Olli Auvinen olli.auvinen@intopalo.com