1. The Total Workshop:
An Hour of Multiple
Techniques
Presented to
NDCC Networking Skills Workshop
June 12, 2012

2. Today’s Workshop is in
Four Parts
1. Engagement
2. Appearance
3. The Unique Introduction
4. Follow up
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3. Conversation and
Engagement
• Handshakes
• Business cards and nametags
• Icebreakers
• Energy and enthusiasm
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4. The Handshake
• The limp handshake
• The knucklebreaker
• The politician
• The collegiate
• Other parts of the world
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5. Business Cards &
Nametags
• Cards
o Thicker, special inks
o Uncoated, blank
o The exchange
• Nametags
o Where to put them
o What to write on them (if that’s an option)
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6. Icebreakers
• Opening lines
o “What brings you here today.”
o “How do you know the host?”
• Attention getters
o Unusual title or name on nametag
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7. Energy & Enthusiasm
• Energy
o Where to find it
o Show it
• Enthusiasm
o Be positive
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8. Appearance
• Posture
• Body Language
• Dress and grooming
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9. Posture
• Be confident
• Be genuine
• Smile
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10. Body Language
• Crossed arms
• Where to put your hands
• Smile
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11. Dress & Grooming
• Know the dress code
• Overdress rather than underdress
• Cleanliness is next to….
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13. The Unique Introduction
• The formula
• Ideal length
• Delivery
• Fine-tuning and multiple versions
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14. The Unique Introduction
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15. The Formula
• The opening (who you are)
o Start with your name or a question
• The offering (what you do & how you help)
o “I help clients prosper.”
• The closing (saying goodbye & request)
o A request or closing line
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16. The Delivery
• Posture
o Stand straight and speak clearly
• Make eye contact
o Looking people in the eye engages them
• Breathe
o It helps you relax and pace yourself
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17. Exercise
 Take 5 minutes to have a conversation
 Practice your unique introduction on one
another
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18. Follow Up
• Tracking the ideal prospect
• Databases
• Calls, emails and cards
• Giving
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19. Tracking and Making
Contact
• Call as soon as possible
o The same day if you can
• Make an appointment or ask when you can
call
o While you are networking or soon after
• Send an email or call quickly
o You might be forgotten
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20. Databases and Tracking
People
• ACT!, Salesforce, Outlook, Address Book, Excel
o Formal CRM systems
• What to track
o When you met them, interactions
• An Excel spreadsheet
o Can be taken from or merged with other systems
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21. Giving
• Ask and offer referrals
o This helps build trust
• Consider a gift as a thank you
o For their time and attention
o To help build the relationship
• Remember your manners
o Always say thank you and please
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22. In Summary: Remember
the Four Parts
1. Engagement
2. Appearance
3. The Unique Introduction
4. Follow up
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23. Contact Info
Alice Dykeman
info@dykemanassociates.com
214-528-2991
http://www.dykemanassociates.com
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24. Contact Info
Paul E Maynard
paul@paulemaynard.com
817-891-1167
www.paulemaynard.com
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