We might stumble or fall, but no matter how many times you fall, it is okay as long as you get up and rise to be the best version of yourself. Here are some ways to find out the best version yourself!

1. How to be the best version of
yourself
@TheLessonsGuy

2. In life, we will face many hurdles, some of them will make us stumble or fall, but no matter
how many times you fall, it is okay as long as you get up, each time being the better version
of the past you. Depending on the situation, most people randomly evolve instead of
putting a conscious effort to direct their evolution. I will share my personal experience on
how I evolved.
Early in my career, I was under the sheltered care of my manager. There I worked safely and
comfortably until my manager changed, suddenly I was thrown into the fray. I struggled
just like a fish out of water. At a certain point, I realized that there was only one way out of
it, so I consciously decided to evolve myself.
There are a lot of techniques out there, but my metamorphosis came from the model
developed by Robert Dilts in the form of NLP. Below are the pillars that transformed me to
be the best version of myself

3. Self-Awareness:
Be aware of yourself, understand your strengths and your weakness. Do not try to
copy others, and no, the answers you give at the interviews like being a workaholic
or perfectionist are not your weakness. At least have answers for these questions
What makes you happy and confident
What makes you feel frustrated
Factors that pull you down and hinders your confidence

4. After analyzing myself, I found that one of the factors that negatively impacted my
confidence was my eyesight. I started using glasses back in third grade, which was
thrilling at the beginning, but as days went by, my friends started picking on me,
slowly I began losing my confidence as my life revolved around these glasses.
To improve my self-confidence, I corrected my eyesight with Lasik surgery. The joy
I experienced after that was beyond description, and I was finally able to get rid of
my glasses.

5. Mindset:
Every problem has a solution, and it is up to us whether we look at the problem or
its solution. This shift made me realize that mindset matters above all.
To every problem, there is already a solution whether you know it or not
Grenville Kleiser
Attitude:
Next, I wanted to develop a positive attitude, so I forcefully started looking at things
positively. This approach helped me find opportunities in all challenges, affecting my
life favorably in all areas.

6. Comfort zone:
Until you conquer your fears and push through your boundaries, you will never
know your real strength
Greatness begins beyond your comfort zone
Robin Sharma
Forgive and let go Resentments:
Let go of your resentments, or else it will swallow you.
Forgive yourself and learn from your setbacks.
Forgive others and just move on.

7. There is an opportunity to learn even from your enemies. Be an ever-learning
student, and make excellence be your brand. Associate with knowledgeable and
open-minded people, so that you get new insights and perspectives
Grab your opportunities:
Don’t hesitate to take the opportunities that come your way.
If somebody offers you an amazing opportunity, but you are not sure you can do it,
say yes – then learn how to do it later
Richard Branson
Master your Crafts:

8. Your name, body language, dressing sense, and so on together contributes to your
identity. Reimagine yourself to be what you aspire to become.
Make inner thoughts and appearance speak the same language
Purpose of Life & Values:
Keep your purpose close to your heart, or else you will regret it.
Don’t corrupt your core values or else it might break you
Identity:

9. Final Thought:
We have only one life, no matter what, be the best version of yourself
These are the things to know about in How to be the best version of
yourself
Thank You!!
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