SlideShare une entreprise Scribd logo
1  sur  31
©2018 Colle McVoy
April 12, 2018
Sorry, Not Sorry with Courtney Deer
THIS IS
COURTNEY
She’s a customer experience designer at
Target HQ and co-founder of chat app,
Hello Mom. Recently she stopped by Colle
McVoy to share her thoughts on the art of
being NOT SORRY.
©2018 Colle McVoy
©2018 Colle McVoy
I’m not sorry. I’m a woman.
WOMANLY
WISDOM
©2018 Colle McVoy
ON CONFIDENCE
©2018 Colle McVoy
Being able to trust myself and believe in the skills
I had to offer was a huuuuuge thing.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Reinforce to yourself who you are
and what makes you great.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Surround yourself with people who build you up.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Socializing with colleagues during the work day
can help you feel comfortable to be yourself.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Take a beat before you answer a question.
Evaluate how you really feel about what’s being asked.
©2018 Colle McVoy
ON CHANGE
©2018 Colle McVoy
I used to worry about being seen as difficult. Now I just
think to myself, “Actually, I’m just doing my job.”
©2018 Colle McVoy
Change starts with the voices in your head.
©2018 Colle McVoy
You can’t really control anyone but yourself.
What you can control is your reaction
to what they say or how they act.
©2018 Colle McVoy
You need to teach other people how to treat you.
Show them by how you treat yourself.
©2018 Colle McVoy
ON BEING HEARD
©2018 Colle McVoy
Finding my voice was a big challenge.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Stop using qualifiers when you speak or present an idea.
Start using firm statements.
©2018 Colle McVoy
You shouldn’t have to change who you are
in order to be heard.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Think of giving your opinion as being like
giving a gift to those around you.
©2018 Colle McVoy
FOR MALE LEADERS
©2018 Colle McVoy
Let women lead things. Give them a shot.
And when you do, celebrate it.
©2018 Colle McVoy
If there’s a woman who’s on the quiet side, ask her opinion.
It will go a long way.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Ask questions that demonstrate your interest
in their thought process and point of view.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Don’t overcompensate in your praise
or approach to managing women. It’s patronizing.
©2018 Colle McVoy
©2018 Colle McVoy
Feminism isn’t about elevating women above men.
It’s about equality.
DON’T EVER
APOLOGIZE FOR
BEING YOU.
©2018 Colle McVoy
©2018 Colle McVoy

Contenu connexe

Similaire à Sorry, Not Sorry Event with Courtney Deer

Making it Work: Strategies to Manage the Crazy Makers in the Workplace
Making it Work: Strategies to Manage the Crazy Makers in the WorkplaceMaking it Work: Strategies to Manage the Crazy Makers in the Workplace
Making it Work: Strategies to Manage the Crazy Makers in the WorkplaceCynthia Clay
 
Social Media Conference 2015 - Manchester
Social Media Conference 2015 - ManchesterSocial Media Conference 2015 - Manchester
Social Media Conference 2015 - ManchesterLizi Legge
 
FINAL_For_Print
FINAL_For_PrintFINAL_For_Print
FINAL_For_PrintLiz Gibson
 
WordCamp London 2019 - Sales Funnel = Sausage Maker?
WordCamp London 2019 - Sales Funnel = Sausage Maker?WordCamp London 2019 - Sales Funnel = Sausage Maker?
WordCamp London 2019 - Sales Funnel = Sausage Maker?Yvette Sonneveld
 
10 tips to future proof your career
10 tips to future proof your career10 tips to future proof your career
10 tips to future proof your careerKate Windebank
 
Your Client is Not Your Enemy
Your Client is Not Your EnemyYour Client is Not Your Enemy
Your Client is Not Your EnemyDenise (Dee) Teal
 
Your Client is Not Your Enemy
Your Client is Not Your EnemyYour Client is Not Your Enemy
Your Client is Not Your EnemyWordCamp Sydney
 
The One Thing Education Leaders HAVE to get Right!
The One Thing Education Leaders HAVE to get Right!The One Thing Education Leaders HAVE to get Right!
The One Thing Education Leaders HAVE to get Right!Rebekah Marler
 
Interpersonal Skills Leadership Responsibility Teamwork Motivation Communicat...
Interpersonal Skills Leadership Responsibility Teamwork Motivation Communicat...Interpersonal Skills Leadership Responsibility Teamwork Motivation Communicat...
Interpersonal Skills Leadership Responsibility Teamwork Motivation Communicat...SlideTeam
 
Making A Career Decision. Do you want to be a Linchpin ?
Making A Career Decision. Do you want to be a Linchpin ?Making A Career Decision. Do you want to be a Linchpin ?
Making A Career Decision. Do you want to be a Linchpin ?Richard Meyer
 
Cusomer Service
Cusomer ServiceCusomer Service
Cusomer Servicenicyar
 
The era of emerging global business disruptive models – Olatunde Falase, Brai...
The era of emerging global business disruptive models – Olatunde Falase, Brai...The era of emerging global business disruptive models – Olatunde Falase, Brai...
The era of emerging global business disruptive models – Olatunde Falase, Brai...theNETng
 

Similaire à Sorry, Not Sorry Event with Courtney Deer (15)

Making it Work: Strategies to Manage the Crazy Makers in the Workplace
Making it Work: Strategies to Manage the Crazy Makers in the WorkplaceMaking it Work: Strategies to Manage the Crazy Makers in the Workplace
Making it Work: Strategies to Manage the Crazy Makers in the Workplace
 
Social Media Conference 2015 - Manchester
Social Media Conference 2015 - ManchesterSocial Media Conference 2015 - Manchester
Social Media Conference 2015 - Manchester
 
FINAL_For_Print
FINAL_For_PrintFINAL_For_Print
FINAL_For_Print
 
WordCamp London 2019 - Sales Funnel = Sausage Maker?
WordCamp London 2019 - Sales Funnel = Sausage Maker?WordCamp London 2019 - Sales Funnel = Sausage Maker?
WordCamp London 2019 - Sales Funnel = Sausage Maker?
 
10 tips to future proof your career
10 tips to future proof your career10 tips to future proof your career
10 tips to future proof your career
 
Your Client is Not Your Enemy
Your Client is Not Your EnemyYour Client is Not Your Enemy
Your Client is Not Your Enemy
 
Your Client is Not Your Enemy
Your Client is Not Your EnemyYour Client is Not Your Enemy
Your Client is Not Your Enemy
 
FINAL MARYKAY BOOK
FINAL MARYKAY BOOKFINAL MARYKAY BOOK
FINAL MARYKAY BOOK
 
The One Thing Education Leaders HAVE to get Right!
The One Thing Education Leaders HAVE to get Right!The One Thing Education Leaders HAVE to get Right!
The One Thing Education Leaders HAVE to get Right!
 
Interpersonal Skills Leadership Responsibility Teamwork Motivation Communicat...
Interpersonal Skills Leadership Responsibility Teamwork Motivation Communicat...Interpersonal Skills Leadership Responsibility Teamwork Motivation Communicat...
Interpersonal Skills Leadership Responsibility Teamwork Motivation Communicat...
 
Making A Career Decision. Do you want to be a Linchpin ?
Making A Career Decision. Do you want to be a Linchpin ?Making A Career Decision. Do you want to be a Linchpin ?
Making A Career Decision. Do you want to be a Linchpin ?
 
MK Plansbook
MK PlansbookMK Plansbook
MK Plansbook
 
Personal branding
Personal brandingPersonal branding
Personal branding
 
Cusomer Service
Cusomer ServiceCusomer Service
Cusomer Service
 
The era of emerging global business disruptive models – Olatunde Falase, Brai...
The era of emerging global business disruptive models – Olatunde Falase, Brai...The era of emerging global business disruptive models – Olatunde Falase, Brai...
The era of emerging global business disruptive models – Olatunde Falase, Brai...
 

Plus de Colle McVoy

The Future of Fishing is Female: Transforming an Old Pastime
The Future of Fishing is Female: Transforming an Old PastimeThe Future of Fishing is Female: Transforming an Old Pastime
The Future of Fishing is Female: Transforming an Old PastimeColle McVoy
 
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis - How Brands Can Support Local Communities
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis - How Brands Can Support Local CommunitiesCOVID-19 Marketing Analysis - How Brands Can Support Local Communities
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis - How Brands Can Support Local CommunitiesColle McVoy
 
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for Rural America
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for Rural AmericaCOVID-19 Marketing Analysis for Rural America
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for Rural AmericaColle McVoy
 
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for the Outdoor & Travel Industries
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for the Outdoor & Travel IndustriesCOVID-19 Marketing Analysis for the Outdoor & Travel Industries
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for the Outdoor & Travel IndustriesColle McVoy
 
Colle McVoy 2020 Black History Month Celebration
Colle McVoy 2020 Black History Month CelebrationColle McVoy 2020 Black History Month Celebration
Colle McVoy 2020 Black History Month CelebrationColle McVoy
 
TIME'S UP/ADVERTISING Minneapolis Event Recap
TIME'S UP/ADVERTISING Minneapolis Event RecapTIME'S UP/ADVERTISING Minneapolis Event Recap
TIME'S UP/ADVERTISING Minneapolis Event RecapColle McVoy
 
Bright Shiny Object - Episode 1: Meerkat and Periscope
Bright Shiny Object - Episode 1: Meerkat and PeriscopeBright Shiny Object - Episode 1: Meerkat and Periscope
Bright Shiny Object - Episode 1: Meerkat and PeriscopeColle McVoy
 
Google+: Searching the Social Network
Google+: Searching the Social NetworkGoogle+: Searching the Social Network
Google+: Searching the Social NetworkColle McVoy
 

Plus de Colle McVoy (8)

The Future of Fishing is Female: Transforming an Old Pastime
The Future of Fishing is Female: Transforming an Old PastimeThe Future of Fishing is Female: Transforming an Old Pastime
The Future of Fishing is Female: Transforming an Old Pastime
 
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis - How Brands Can Support Local Communities
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis - How Brands Can Support Local CommunitiesCOVID-19 Marketing Analysis - How Brands Can Support Local Communities
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis - How Brands Can Support Local Communities
 
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for Rural America
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for Rural AmericaCOVID-19 Marketing Analysis for Rural America
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for Rural America
 
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for the Outdoor & Travel Industries
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for the Outdoor & Travel IndustriesCOVID-19 Marketing Analysis for the Outdoor & Travel Industries
COVID-19 Marketing Analysis for the Outdoor & Travel Industries
 
Colle McVoy 2020 Black History Month Celebration
Colle McVoy 2020 Black History Month CelebrationColle McVoy 2020 Black History Month Celebration
Colle McVoy 2020 Black History Month Celebration
 
TIME'S UP/ADVERTISING Minneapolis Event Recap
TIME'S UP/ADVERTISING Minneapolis Event RecapTIME'S UP/ADVERTISING Minneapolis Event Recap
TIME'S UP/ADVERTISING Minneapolis Event Recap
 
Bright Shiny Object - Episode 1: Meerkat and Periscope
Bright Shiny Object - Episode 1: Meerkat and PeriscopeBright Shiny Object - Episode 1: Meerkat and Periscope
Bright Shiny Object - Episode 1: Meerkat and Periscope
 
Google+: Searching the Social Network
Google+: Searching the Social NetworkGoogle+: Searching the Social Network
Google+: Searching the Social Network
 

Dernier

Day 0- Bootcamp Roadmap for PLC Bootcamp
Day 0- Bootcamp Roadmap for PLC BootcampDay 0- Bootcamp Roadmap for PLC Bootcamp
Day 0- Bootcamp Roadmap for PLC BootcampPLCLeadershipDevelop
 
VIP Kolkata Call Girl Rajarhat 👉 8250192130 Available With Room
VIP Kolkata Call Girl Rajarhat 👉 8250192130  Available With RoomVIP Kolkata Call Girl Rajarhat 👉 8250192130  Available With Room
VIP Kolkata Call Girl Rajarhat 👉 8250192130 Available With Roomdivyansh0kumar0
 
BDSM⚡Call Girls in Sector 99 Noida Escorts >༒8448380779 Escort Service
BDSM⚡Call Girls in Sector 99 Noida Escorts >༒8448380779 Escort ServiceBDSM⚡Call Girls in Sector 99 Noida Escorts >༒8448380779 Escort Service
BDSM⚡Call Girls in Sector 99 Noida Escorts >༒8448380779 Escort ServiceDelhi Call girls
 
Dealing with Poor Performance - get the full picture from 3C Performance Mana...
Dealing with Poor Performance - get the full picture from 3C Performance Mana...Dealing with Poor Performance - get the full picture from 3C Performance Mana...
Dealing with Poor Performance - get the full picture from 3C Performance Mana...Hedda Bird
 
Does Leadership Possible Without a Vision.pptx
Does Leadership Possible Without a Vision.pptxDoes Leadership Possible Without a Vision.pptx
Does Leadership Possible Without a Vision.pptxSaqib Mansoor Ahmed
 
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Ameerpet high-profile Call Girl
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Ameerpet high-profile Call GirlVIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Ameerpet high-profile Call Girl
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Ameerpet high-profile Call Girladitipandeya
 
internal analysis on strategic management
internal analysis on strategic managementinternal analysis on strategic management
internal analysis on strategic managementharfimakarim
 
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Kondapur high-profile Call Girl
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Kondapur high-profile Call GirlVIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Kondapur high-profile Call Girl
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Kondapur high-profile Call Girladitipandeya
 
CALL ON ➥8923113531 🔝Call Girls Charbagh Lucknow best sexual service
CALL ON ➥8923113531 🔝Call Girls Charbagh Lucknow best sexual serviceCALL ON ➥8923113531 🔝Call Girls Charbagh Lucknow best sexual service
CALL ON ➥8923113531 🔝Call Girls Charbagh Lucknow best sexual serviceanilsa9823
 

Dernier (20)

Unlocking the Future - Dr Max Blumberg, Founder of Blumberg Partnership
Unlocking the Future - Dr Max Blumberg, Founder of Blumberg PartnershipUnlocking the Future - Dr Max Blumberg, Founder of Blumberg Partnership
Unlocking the Future - Dr Max Blumberg, Founder of Blumberg Partnership
 
Empowering Local Government Frontline Services - Mo Baines.pdf
Empowering Local Government Frontline Services - Mo Baines.pdfEmpowering Local Government Frontline Services - Mo Baines.pdf
Empowering Local Government Frontline Services - Mo Baines.pdf
 
Day 0- Bootcamp Roadmap for PLC Bootcamp
Day 0- Bootcamp Roadmap for PLC BootcampDay 0- Bootcamp Roadmap for PLC Bootcamp
Day 0- Bootcamp Roadmap for PLC Bootcamp
 
Becoming an Inclusive Leader - Bernadette Thompson
Becoming an Inclusive Leader - Bernadette ThompsonBecoming an Inclusive Leader - Bernadette Thompson
Becoming an Inclusive Leader - Bernadette Thompson
 
VIP Kolkata Call Girl Rajarhat 👉 8250192130 Available With Room
VIP Kolkata Call Girl Rajarhat 👉 8250192130  Available With RoomVIP Kolkata Call Girl Rajarhat 👉 8250192130  Available With Room
VIP Kolkata Call Girl Rajarhat 👉 8250192130 Available With Room
 
BDSM⚡Call Girls in Sector 99 Noida Escorts >༒8448380779 Escort Service
BDSM⚡Call Girls in Sector 99 Noida Escorts >༒8448380779 Escort ServiceBDSM⚡Call Girls in Sector 99 Noida Escorts >༒8448380779 Escort Service
BDSM⚡Call Girls in Sector 99 Noida Escorts >༒8448380779 Escort Service
 
Imagine - Creating Healthy Workplaces - Anthony Montgomery.pdf
Imagine - Creating Healthy Workplaces - Anthony Montgomery.pdfImagine - Creating Healthy Workplaces - Anthony Montgomery.pdf
Imagine - Creating Healthy Workplaces - Anthony Montgomery.pdf
 
LoveLocalGov - Chris Twigg, Inner Circle
LoveLocalGov - Chris Twigg, Inner CircleLoveLocalGov - Chris Twigg, Inner Circle
LoveLocalGov - Chris Twigg, Inner Circle
 
Dealing with Poor Performance - get the full picture from 3C Performance Mana...
Dealing with Poor Performance - get the full picture from 3C Performance Mana...Dealing with Poor Performance - get the full picture from 3C Performance Mana...
Dealing with Poor Performance - get the full picture from 3C Performance Mana...
 
Does Leadership Possible Without a Vision.pptx
Does Leadership Possible Without a Vision.pptxDoes Leadership Possible Without a Vision.pptx
Does Leadership Possible Without a Vision.pptx
 
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Ameerpet high-profile Call Girl
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Ameerpet high-profile Call GirlVIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Ameerpet high-profile Call Girl
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Ameerpet high-profile Call Girl
 
Leadership in Crisis - Helio Vogas, Risk & Leadership Keynote Speaker
Leadership in Crisis - Helio Vogas, Risk & Leadership Keynote SpeakerLeadership in Crisis - Helio Vogas, Risk & Leadership Keynote Speaker
Leadership in Crisis - Helio Vogas, Risk & Leadership Keynote Speaker
 
internal analysis on strategic management
internal analysis on strategic managementinternal analysis on strategic management
internal analysis on strategic management
 
Discover -CQ Master Class - Rikita Wadhwa.pdf
Discover -CQ Master Class - Rikita Wadhwa.pdfDiscover -CQ Master Class - Rikita Wadhwa.pdf
Discover -CQ Master Class - Rikita Wadhwa.pdf
 
Peak Performance & Resilience - Dr Dorian Dugmore
Peak Performance & Resilience - Dr Dorian DugmorePeak Performance & Resilience - Dr Dorian Dugmore
Peak Performance & Resilience - Dr Dorian Dugmore
 
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Kondapur high-profile Call Girl
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Kondapur high-profile Call GirlVIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Kondapur high-profile Call Girl
VIP 7001035870 Find & Meet Hyderabad Call Girls Kondapur high-profile Call Girl
 
Imagine - HR; are handling the 'bad banter' - Stella Chandler.pdf
Imagine - HR; are handling the 'bad banter' - Stella Chandler.pdfImagine - HR; are handling the 'bad banter' - Stella Chandler.pdf
Imagine - HR; are handling the 'bad banter' - Stella Chandler.pdf
 
Disrupt or be Disrupted - Kirk Vallis.pdf
Disrupt or be Disrupted - Kirk Vallis.pdfDisrupt or be Disrupted - Kirk Vallis.pdf
Disrupt or be Disrupted - Kirk Vallis.pdf
 
CALL ON ➥8923113531 🔝Call Girls Charbagh Lucknow best sexual service
CALL ON ➥8923113531 🔝Call Girls Charbagh Lucknow best sexual serviceCALL ON ➥8923113531 🔝Call Girls Charbagh Lucknow best sexual service
CALL ON ➥8923113531 🔝Call Girls Charbagh Lucknow best sexual service
 
Rohini Sector 16 Call Girls Delhi 9999965857 @Sabina Saikh No Advance
Rohini Sector 16 Call Girls Delhi 9999965857 @Sabina Saikh No AdvanceRohini Sector 16 Call Girls Delhi 9999965857 @Sabina Saikh No Advance
Rohini Sector 16 Call Girls Delhi 9999965857 @Sabina Saikh No Advance
 

Sorry, Not Sorry Event with Courtney Deer