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Finding Success
The 4 Questions for
Challenging Self-
Limiting Beliefs
1. How do you KNOW
   this belief is true?

2. What are the present
   and future positive
   benefits of holding
   this belief?

3. What are the present
   and future negative
   consequences of
   holding this belief?

4. What does this belief
   say about you?
   Others? The world?
Problem :
A = Activating event - Someone giggles while you are sharing your
thoughts in a meeting.
B = Belief about the event - Movie of "they are laughing at me"
(Personalizing)
C1 = Emotional Consequence - Anxiety and humiliation
C2 = Behavioral Consequence - Abruptly stop talking and shut
down without finishing your thoughts, everyone wonders what’s
wrong but you won’t tell them.

Solution :
A = Activating event - Someone giggles while you are sharing your
thoughts in a meeting
B = Belief about the event - Stop the Movie & Remind yourself...
“I wonder what they are thinking about… Maybe they are
remembering something funny”
C1 = Emotional Consequence - Curiosity and normal annoyance
C2 = Behavioral Consequence - Go on talking and finishing your
thoughts, not an issue.
                         http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/cognitive_behavioral_therapy.html
You may be travelling down
one road or at a crossroads…
All images in this presentation were accessed
by utilizing Google Images and are used for
      educational purposes only under
   the Fair Use Law and the TEACH Act.
      To my knowledge all images were
       obtained and accessed legally.
                    Produced by
                   Jessica Ayub,
          Career Services Graduate Intern
            Concordia University, St. Paul
         A Brief Version was Presented in the
      ‘Turning Points’ Course on January 31, 2013

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  • 50. All images in this presentation were accessed by utilizing Google Images and are used for educational purposes only under the Fair Use Law and the TEACH Act. To my knowledge all images were obtained and accessed legally. Produced by Jessica Ayub, Career Services Graduate Intern Concordia University, St. Paul A Brief Version was Presented in the ‘Turning Points’ Course on January 31, 2013