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A Feminist Defense of Friendship
1. A Feminist Defense
of Friendship
Lisa Wade, PhD
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Originally written and delivered with my friend, Caroline Heldman, PhD
6. “Friendship has a bigger impact on our
psychological well-being than family
relationships.”
- Sociologist Rebecca Adams
7. “I am not aware of any other factor—not
diet, not smoking, not exercise, not
stress, not genetics, not drugs, not
surgery—that has a greater impact on
our… incidence of illness [and chance of]
premature death...”
- Dr. Dean Ornish
26. “[A sexual charge] added a certain zest, a
special excitement that can’t be had in a same-
sex friendship [if both are heterosexual]. Some
people spoke of a flirtatious quality in the
relationship, saying they valued it because it
imparted a quality of vitality to the time they
spent together, because it generated a spark
they enjoyed.”
Rubin, Lillian. 1985. Just Friends: The Role of Friendship in our
Lives. New York: Harper Perennial.
32. Justin, 15-years old
“[My best friend and I] love each other… that’s
it… you have this thing that is deep, so deep,
it’s within you, you can’t explain it. It’s just a
thing that you know that person is that person…
I guess in life, sometimes two people can
really, really understand each other and really
have a trust, respect and love for each other.”
Way, Niobe. 2011. Deep Secrets: Boys’ Friendships and the Crisis of
Connection. Boston, MA: Harvard University Press.
33. Justin, 18-years old
“[My friend and I] we mostly joke around. It’s
not like really anything serious or whatever.
Nothing like serious talking whatever ‘cause I
don’t talk to nobody about serious stuff… I
don’t talk to nobody. I don’t share my feelings
really. Not that kind of person or whatever…
It’s just something that I don’t do.”
Way, Niobe. 2011. Deep Secrets: Boys’ Friendships and the Crisis of
Connection. Boston, MA: Harvard University Press.