1. MY 4 STEP PLAN FOR
MANAGING MELTDOWNS IN PUBLIC PLACES
2. STEP 1: PREPARING FOR MELTDOWNS
Accept the inevitability of meltdowns
Learn what the signs are
Talk about situations that could cause frustration – action plan
Set expectations before trips to public places
3. STEP 2: WHEN A MELTDOWN HAPPENS
Stop and focus
Redirect attention – distract, divert
Ask other people to stay away
Move child to a safe spot
Don’t reason, don’t shout
Stay as calm as possible
4. STEP 3: ASK FOR HELP
Tell bystanders what’s going on
Ask them for help – moving dangerous objects etc
Be prepared to physically remove your child from the area
In extreme circumstances ask bystanders to call the police
5. STEP 4: THE AFTERMATH
Let your child calm down completely
Talk about what happened
Ask what could be done better next time
Forgive and forget
Hug and a kiss