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15 TIPS TO BUILD RESILIENCE
FOR
FRONTLINE WORKERS
LEARNING TO BOUNCE BACK
Rex@rexgatto.com
412-344-2277
Rex P. Gatto, Ph.D., BCC
Assessing Your Daily Mind Set
 Every day is a test of resilience.
 Each day has successes and disappointments.
 Do you measure your ability to cope, succeed, and
overcome?
 People are built to persevere!
 Do you build your self-esteem on your successes, what
you do, and or your accomplishments?
CHALLENGE
Could you remove
a 300 lb. boulder?
Do You View Your First Task of the Day as an
Accomplishment?
 Getting up
 Family needs
 Getting ready
 Getting to work on time
 Performing job responsibilities
 Give yourself credit for Accomplishments!
Do You Have a Distorted Negative
View
 Negative view of self — anxiousness, avoidance,
worry about competence
 Negative view of the future — anxiousness,
(hopeless), CYA fear — change
 Negative view of experience — stop taking action,
anxious, depression, worry
Recovery
Recovery: a temporarily decline in normal functioning
after being exposed to unfavorable life
circumstances/trauma for a period of time, then gradually
returns to pre-event functioning
Outcome is:
Physical trauma (broken bone, concussion - heal)
Burned out/Anxiety/Depression Mood (motivated)
Post Traumatic Stress (replaced with positivity)
What is Resilience
 Resilience is the process of adapting well in the face of
adversity, trauma, or significant sources of stress.
 Resilience means bouncing back from difficulties.
 Resilience can be learned by everyone.
 Resilience doesn’t mean not having distress.
 Reflecting on your ability to recover quickly, and
adjustment from difficulties and return to a healthy mind-
set
 Adapting well from adversity, overcoming trauma, or on
going stress
Resilience is…..
Resilience
People exposed to violent or life-threatening events, or on
going struggles will show a genuine resilience that should
not be interfered with.
Return or find a new mental framework of
I can…. I will….
It is the comeback from the trauma
Tip #1 Define Resilience
 Mental Reframing and Expanded Views
 Be aware of your Behaviors
 Learn and develop problem Solving Skills
 Explore New Ways of Thinking
 Positive View of Self and the Future
 Take the Right Actions
 Implement Realistic Plans
 Take stock of what you know to be true
 Give yourself credit for successes
 Develop a belief in yourself
 Network with others, find a confidant or peer coach
 Create a coping plan, write how you will overcome
adversity, don’t just think it
 Control what you can control
Tip #2 Keys to Being Resilient
 Write a Vision statement or Goals (what is your
purpose)
 What have you done this month to advance toward
fulfilling your Vision?
 Realize the persistence to continue is a learning
process and right of passage
 We are social beings, find a collaborator, confidant, or
peer coach
Tip #3 Actions that Lead to Resilience
Actions that Lead to Resilience
Vision/Goal Advancement
toward
Vision/Goal; Goal
Accomplishments
Learnings Collaborator/
Peer Coach
Tip #4 Create Belief in ME
The key to peoples’ capacity to achieve resilience
is determined by their ability to have a positive
view of life and the future.
Tip #5 Have the Will to Succeed
 Commitment to take action
 Belief in yourself to do it
 Growth Mind Set
 Learn for your Successes: what am I Doing Right
 Learn from your Mistakes: what can I do differently
Tip #6 Have Commitment
I can find a meaningful purpose for my life as a Frontline
Worker.
Taking Action is a Risk, Stop, Reflect, and do what is right
 Influence my surroundings and life events
 Attitude check, my mental evaluation
 I am a Victor - Not a victim
 I am a survivor!
(Story of Louis Zamperini WWII POW - book
Unbroken)
Tip #7 Influencing
Belief
Tip #8 Growth Mindset
 I can learn and grow from positive and negative life experiences.
 Do not be afraid to compete against yourself.
Life is like a golf game, the course is your job and each swing is your
challenge.
~ Rex Gatto
Tip #9 Achieving Resilience
 Distinct from recovery
 Can be reached in many different ways:
Emotional outlook, Religion, Flexibility, Self-
understanding, Expressing your feelings, Meditation,
Focus toward the future
 Work with a peer Coach
Tip #10 Write a Resilience Plan
 Reflect
 Plan
 Act
 Adjust
I don’t know what your destiny will be, but one thing
I know: the ones among you who will be really happy
are those who have sought and found how to serve”
~ Albert Schweitzer
Tip#11 Having Hope
 The feelings of expectation and future desire for a
certain outcome – hope.
 Knowing I will attain that certain outcome.
 Your strength and conviction to meet the challenge of
the struggle
Tips #12a Creating Strategies
 Reach out to resources: peer coach, family, a
professional colleague, friends or coworkers
 Set realistic goals and think optimistically: mentally
have hope
 See crisis as a problem to be resolved, solved and a
have a desire to move forward
Tips #12b Creating Strategies
 Act on the situation; do something, be engaged
 Discover yourself; like what you see
 Self awareness and managing emotions, motivation,
compassion, and interpersonal relationships (emotional
intelligence)
Tip#13a Learning and Developmental Questions
(write you answers)
 What stresses you?
 What do you do when stressed?
 Who has provided support to you?
 Have you helped yourself and others?
Tip#13b Learning and Developmental
Questions
(write you answers)
 How have you overcome obstacles?
 Why do you feel more hopeful?
 What motivates you to act?
 Who inspires you?
Tip #14 How To Dealing with Inner
Pressure
Am I my own resident critic?
Listen to self-talk (be positive)
Do you have a monster in your head?
Stop the negative tape
Invent hopeful, positive messages, write a positive
affirmation of why you are successful
Tip #15 3P’s
 Prioritizing (organize, what’s important)
 Planning (where are you where are you going
 Paring Down (don’t have to do it all)
Looking for Help
 A Peer Coach
 Self-help or support groups
 Online: information, groups,
 Books, articles
 Mediation, prayer
Summary: Building Resilience
 Take action toward
goals
 Make Connections
 Avoid seeing crisis as
insurmountable
 Accept that change is
part of living
 Be decisive
 Look for opportunities
for self-discovery
 Nurture a positive view
of yourself
 Maintain a hopeful
outlook
Rex Gatto Ph.D., BCC
412-344-2277
rex@rexgatto.com
www.rexgatto.com
To explore what coaching
can do for you, give us a
call.

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15 Tips to Build Resilience for Frontline Workers

  • 1. 15 TIPS TO BUILD RESILIENCE FOR FRONTLINE WORKERS LEARNING TO BOUNCE BACK Rex@rexgatto.com 412-344-2277 Rex P. Gatto, Ph.D., BCC
  • 2. Assessing Your Daily Mind Set  Every day is a test of resilience.  Each day has successes and disappointments.  Do you measure your ability to cope, succeed, and overcome?  People are built to persevere!  Do you build your self-esteem on your successes, what you do, and or your accomplishments?
  • 3. CHALLENGE Could you remove a 300 lb. boulder?
  • 4. Do You View Your First Task of the Day as an Accomplishment?  Getting up  Family needs  Getting ready  Getting to work on time  Performing job responsibilities  Give yourself credit for Accomplishments!
  • 5. Do You Have a Distorted Negative View  Negative view of self — anxiousness, avoidance, worry about competence  Negative view of the future — anxiousness, (hopeless), CYA fear — change  Negative view of experience — stop taking action, anxious, depression, worry
  • 6. Recovery Recovery: a temporarily decline in normal functioning after being exposed to unfavorable life circumstances/trauma for a period of time, then gradually returns to pre-event functioning Outcome is: Physical trauma (broken bone, concussion - heal) Burned out/Anxiety/Depression Mood (motivated) Post Traumatic Stress (replaced with positivity)
  • 7. What is Resilience  Resilience is the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, or significant sources of stress.  Resilience means bouncing back from difficulties.  Resilience can be learned by everyone.  Resilience doesn’t mean not having distress.
  • 8.  Reflecting on your ability to recover quickly, and adjustment from difficulties and return to a healthy mind- set  Adapting well from adversity, overcoming trauma, or on going stress Resilience is…..
  • 9. Resilience People exposed to violent or life-threatening events, or on going struggles will show a genuine resilience that should not be interfered with. Return or find a new mental framework of I can…. I will…. It is the comeback from the trauma
  • 10. Tip #1 Define Resilience  Mental Reframing and Expanded Views  Be aware of your Behaviors  Learn and develop problem Solving Skills  Explore New Ways of Thinking  Positive View of Self and the Future  Take the Right Actions  Implement Realistic Plans
  • 11.  Take stock of what you know to be true  Give yourself credit for successes  Develop a belief in yourself  Network with others, find a confidant or peer coach  Create a coping plan, write how you will overcome adversity, don’t just think it  Control what you can control Tip #2 Keys to Being Resilient
  • 12.  Write a Vision statement or Goals (what is your purpose)  What have you done this month to advance toward fulfilling your Vision?  Realize the persistence to continue is a learning process and right of passage  We are social beings, find a collaborator, confidant, or peer coach Tip #3 Actions that Lead to Resilience
  • 13. Actions that Lead to Resilience Vision/Goal Advancement toward Vision/Goal; Goal Accomplishments Learnings Collaborator/ Peer Coach
  • 14. Tip #4 Create Belief in ME The key to peoples’ capacity to achieve resilience is determined by their ability to have a positive view of life and the future.
  • 15. Tip #5 Have the Will to Succeed  Commitment to take action  Belief in yourself to do it  Growth Mind Set  Learn for your Successes: what am I Doing Right  Learn from your Mistakes: what can I do differently
  • 16. Tip #6 Have Commitment I can find a meaningful purpose for my life as a Frontline Worker. Taking Action is a Risk, Stop, Reflect, and do what is right
  • 17.  Influence my surroundings and life events  Attitude check, my mental evaluation  I am a Victor - Not a victim  I am a survivor! (Story of Louis Zamperini WWII POW - book Unbroken) Tip #7 Influencing Belief
  • 18. Tip #8 Growth Mindset  I can learn and grow from positive and negative life experiences.  Do not be afraid to compete against yourself. Life is like a golf game, the course is your job and each swing is your challenge. ~ Rex Gatto
  • 19. Tip #9 Achieving Resilience  Distinct from recovery  Can be reached in many different ways: Emotional outlook, Religion, Flexibility, Self- understanding, Expressing your feelings, Meditation, Focus toward the future  Work with a peer Coach
  • 20. Tip #10 Write a Resilience Plan  Reflect  Plan  Act  Adjust
  • 21. I don’t know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know: the ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve” ~ Albert Schweitzer
  • 22. Tip#11 Having Hope  The feelings of expectation and future desire for a certain outcome – hope.  Knowing I will attain that certain outcome.  Your strength and conviction to meet the challenge of the struggle
  • 23. Tips #12a Creating Strategies  Reach out to resources: peer coach, family, a professional colleague, friends or coworkers  Set realistic goals and think optimistically: mentally have hope  See crisis as a problem to be resolved, solved and a have a desire to move forward
  • 24. Tips #12b Creating Strategies  Act on the situation; do something, be engaged  Discover yourself; like what you see  Self awareness and managing emotions, motivation, compassion, and interpersonal relationships (emotional intelligence)
  • 25. Tip#13a Learning and Developmental Questions (write you answers)  What stresses you?  What do you do when stressed?  Who has provided support to you?  Have you helped yourself and others?
  • 26. Tip#13b Learning and Developmental Questions (write you answers)  How have you overcome obstacles?  Why do you feel more hopeful?  What motivates you to act?  Who inspires you?
  • 27. Tip #14 How To Dealing with Inner Pressure Am I my own resident critic? Listen to self-talk (be positive) Do you have a monster in your head? Stop the negative tape Invent hopeful, positive messages, write a positive affirmation of why you are successful
  • 28. Tip #15 3P’s  Prioritizing (organize, what’s important)  Planning (where are you where are you going  Paring Down (don’t have to do it all)
  • 29. Looking for Help  A Peer Coach  Self-help or support groups  Online: information, groups,  Books, articles  Mediation, prayer
  • 30. Summary: Building Resilience  Take action toward goals  Make Connections  Avoid seeing crisis as insurmountable  Accept that change is part of living  Be decisive  Look for opportunities for self-discovery  Nurture a positive view of yourself  Maintain a hopeful outlook
  • 31. Rex Gatto Ph.D., BCC 412-344-2277 rex@rexgatto.com www.rexgatto.com To explore what coaching can do for you, give us a call.