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Tools & Techniques
Your Challenges
 Please list the top 3 challenges that
you face or will face in your immediate
future
 What is your strategy to overcome
them?
Because only ‘Overcomers’ are rewarded
Others become statistics
20 minutes
The ‘Winning’ Attitude
Because the mind is where it starts
Move from
‘Entitlement’
to
‘Contribution’
Window of Opportunity
 In the life of every man and woman comes a
time when they have a unique opportunity to
make an impact and influence others.
 To succeed we need to anticipate, prepare
and act with courage when it opens
Once the window closes, your life is over
Even if you remain alive
‘Master’ or ‘Victim’
Stances of Success
The Essential Truth
 Living life is about making choices:
 Choosing to be a “Victim”
 Or choosing to be a “Master”
 Both stances are subject to the same givens
of society, environment, organization etc.
 But have very different implications in terms
of your development and happiness
The Price of Success
 Success always has a price.
 Most people don’t succeed because
they are not ready to pay that price
 Because
1. They have not defined ‘success’
2. They have not chosen to pay its price
What’s the price of your success?
Ask Yourself
 What is your definition of success?
 What investment will you need to make?
 Are you ready to make the investment?
Focus on the expected gains
4, Drivers of Failure
And their solutions
1. Complacency
 “Good enough, never is”
 Create the ‘phantom competitor’
 Create Big Scary Goals
It is the nature of the extraordinary goal
to inspire extraordinary effort
2. Aiming low
 “Satisfaction is directly proportional to the
degree of difficulty in reaching the goal.”
 Nobody rises to low expectations
 Compare with your own potential, not with
others who may make you look good
Nobody knows the best that they can do
Losers compare
with others.
Winners are too
busy beating
their own goals
3. Excuses and blaming
 Stop blaming others for your situation
 Analyze what went wrong and create a plan to
avoid it in the future.
 Being objective, even hard, on yourself is the
best way to avoid repeating mistakes.
What mistake will you not repeat?
Excuses don’t
change failure to
success
4. Worship of the Self
 Sloth, laziness, unwilling to take hardship,
seeking instant gratification, seeking
pleasure & avoiding the pain of learning
 The surest sign of emotional maturity is to
move from ‘like’ to ‘right’.
 The highest form of pleasure is to give
We are our own worst enemies
Please reflect
 Which long term goal
are you sacrificing for
short term pleasure?
Believe me, a day will come
when you will regret it
So what to do?
Tools for self development
Planning
 Specific
 Measurable
 Achievable
 Result Focused
 Time Bound
Plan but be flexible
Performance
 Focus on performing your current job and deliver
more than expected.
 Develop a reputation for delivering results beyond
expectations
 It is okay to talk about career development but
secondary to how you perform your current job.
 The one who contributes most is heard first
Only results build credibility
Expertise
 Get recognition as an expert in your area. Then
look for opportunities to apply your expertise in a
broader context.
 Learn the language of finance. It is the language
of business.
 Be prepared to accept the more 'problematic' and
inconvenient job and to offer to help others.
Trust = Expertise + Willingness to help
Ownership
 Track your career and make your
own development plan
 Like a professional athlete, make a
habit of constant self improvement
 Never whine. Ask how you can change
things. Others can give advice but only
you can implement it
Challenges & Visibility
 Take the hard job. Err on the side of the
bigger challenge. Play ‘offence’ with your
career. But be brave, not stupid
 Seek out assignments with visibility, but
recognize that it cuts both ways
 Be sensible. If you fail, you will not be
rewarded for trying. Ensure a 70% chance to win
Leadership = Visibility + Credibility
Mentors & Role Models
 Seek feedback. Don’t be defensive. Be
thankful.
 Listen carefully. Take notes. Take your own
decisions
 Treat the relationship seriously.
The one who is afraid of feedback
Is afraid of development
Build a network of
supporters
 Don’t judge people of other cultures by your
standards and value systems
 Be willing to share information and
talk about your own culture so others
learn
 Ask questions but with sensitivity to
local manners
Be willing to learn and help
“Success is where
Opportunity
meets
Preparedness.”
Ambivalence Passion
Managing Time
What is your Life’s Goal?
 Today is your last working day and you are retiring.
There is a farewell party for you and a friend of
yours is giving a speech about you and your
achievements
 What would you like to hear in that speech?
How do you want to be remembered?
Techniques for Life Goal
 Imagine someone is delivering your eulogy or
farewell speech on your retirement day. What
would you like to hear?
 Imagine your picture on the cover of your favorite
magazine. Write a caption for it.
 Think of those things in your past which gave you
the most pleasure. Recall the incidents in as much
detail as possible. What did you do? What happened?
Why did you enjoy it? This will point you in the
direction of your life goal
Time Activity
5.30
6.00
6.30
7.00
7.30
8.00
8.30
Record what you do every half hour for the whole day
Time Log
Effective Time
Actual Time – Maintenance Time
= Available Time
Available time used in Life Goal
= Effective Time (E T)
Is this enough to achieve your Life Goal?
Maximize Effective Time
1. Prioritize: Effort versus Impact
2. Delegate: Urgent versus Important
3. Learn to say the magic word: “No.”
Productivity is directly proportional to ET
IMPACT
20% of what you do, produces 80% of the results
INVESTMENT
Waste
Hard
Work
Do if
you
have to
Leverage
The 3 x 3 rule
1. Everyday make a list of 3 activities you need to do
in order of priority according to impact.
2. Then start on the 1st and continue until you finish
it. If you are interrupted, go back to it and
complete it. Then go on to the next.
3. If any are left over, re-write the list the next day
in the same way.
Urgent
but not
Important
Urgent
and
Important
Neither
Urgent
nor
Important
Important
but not
Urgent
URGENT
IMPORTANT
The magic word – “No!”
Develop Assertiveness:
“Self expression through which one
stands up for one’s rights without
violating the rights of others.”
How to say ‘No!’
1. Develop a reputation for being goal
focused
2. Never ‘drop-in’ on anyone without notice
3. Never ‘Forward’ chain emails. Delete the
ones you receive, unread. And tell
everyone that you do this.
Make punctuality an obsession
Who is smart?
 You or your phone?
 https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2017/0
4/27/well/family/27well_phone.html
 What is your score and what do you
intend to do about it?
Smart phones and stupid people –
recipe for disaster
Friends
 Remind you of the Hereafter
 You learn something new every time
 You can confidently introduce them to
your parents
Your can’t afford those
that don’t fit this model
In the Final Analysis
1. Remember it is not about Time at all.
2. It is about Life.
Your Life
Force Field Analysis
Problem Solving tool
What to do?
 Strengthen positive forces (Enablers)
 Remove negative forces (Inhibitors)
 Removing negative forces is more
important than strengthening positive
forces because there is an internal push
towards good in all of us
Exercise
Goals Enablers Inhibitors
Locus of Control
‘Concept of Internal Control – Development of a New Scale’
Hanna Levenson, American Psychological Association, 1982
Questionnaire by : Prof. Udai Pareek, IIMA
Disclaimer
 Psychometric instruments are not an
assessment of you but your own assessment
of yourself
 Scores indicate trends and are not exact
 Scoring depends on frame of mind
 They are meant to begin exploration, not
conclude
Validate scores with your own real-life data
Internal
 > or = 33
 32 – 29
 28 – 22
 21 – 18
 < or = 17
External Others
 > or = 30
 29 – 21
 20 – 17
 < 17
External Chance
 < 10
 VERY HIGH
 HIGH TRUST IN SELF
 LOW TRUST
 VERY LOW CONFIDENCE
 DYSFUNCTIONAL DEPENDENCE
 REALISTIC DEPENDENCE
 INDEPENDENCE
 REBELLION
 POSSIBLE PROBLEMS IN COPING
Scoring
Where is the control point of your success?
What is Locus of Control?
Strengths
1. High confidence in self
and ability to influence
others, career,
relationships, happiness,
fulfillment
2. Belief that you can
control yourself, others
and situations
Cautions
1. Need to control, others
feel trampled, low
empowering, listening,
empathy, low need to
collaborate or help others
2. If failure: Blaming, guilt,
self-punishment,
unrealistic drop in
confidence
Any strength maximized, is a weakness
Internal Locus of Control
I (Internal Locus of Control)
 A score of 28 to 18 indicates that the
individual lacks such self-trust and needs
to examine his or her strengths by using
feedback from others.
 A low score (17 or less) in this area
represents little self-confidence and could
hinder a person from utilizing his or her
potential.
50
Strengths
1. High willingness to
follow, obey orders,
loyalty, good team
player, realistic
dependence
2. Works in a stable
environment where rules
are known & leadership
lines are clear
Cautions
1. Helplessness, confusion,
frustration when needs not
met because leadership
takes you for granted,
playing politics
2. Unrealistic dependence, high
stress, low empowerment,
blame game
Take back your remote
External Locus of Control
 A score of 29 to 21 reflects a realistic
dependence on supervisors, peers, and
subordinates.
 A score of 20 to 17 shows an
independence orientation and a score
below 17 indicates counter dependence
or rebellion.
EO (External Others)
Do
1. They are not you,
so they need more
strokes than you
2. Be aware of what
you say and do it
thoughtfully
Don’t
1. Treat them like you
would like to be
treated
2. Take them for
granted
Managing Externality
They can become highly productive
External Chance
1. Believe that what
happens is controlled
by non-human forces –
luck, stars, fate
2. Often a copout strategy
3. Cultural, religious
beliefs
1. Be cautious
2. Ask questions
respectfully
3. Don’t argue or try to
push your beliefs
4. Help them to see how
they can influence their
success – ‘stars favor
the brave’
Cross-cultural sensitivity is critical
Home work
 Reflect on the implications of your score
on the achievement of your vision.
 What changes, if any do you believe
you need to make in order to succeed?
 What are the implications of your
current scores on personal stress,
frustration, energy and the ability to
collaborate with and energize others?
55
Going forward
 Some of the attributes that got you to
this point in your success will continue to
be assets in your role as a business leader
 Some will have to change
56
What can you leverage?
What must you change?
3 questions for today…
 Where are you today?
 Where do you want to be tomorrow?
 How are you going to get there?
57
Success is directly proportional to clarity
Where do you want to go?
How do you know if you are headed right?
Goal Setting
“Being” & “Doing” Goals
 ‘Being’ Goal
 “I want to be the head of the organization.”
 ‘Doing’ Goal
 “I want to create and share a vision that will take
this company to the Fortune 100 list.”
To do you don’t have to be
Unless you do you will never be
SMART Goals
 Specific
 Measurable
 Actionable
 Realistic
 Time bound
Gaining Commitment
 What is the goal?
 Write it down clearly
 Why should it be done?
 Understand how it impacts globally
 What’s in it for me?
 Understand its significance for yourself
Roadmap & Beyond
 How do I know that I am on track?
 Create a Roadmap with Milestones
 By when should it be done?
 Set time frames for completion
 Celebrate small successes
“If you want to know what someone values,
see what they measure.” ~ Mikel Harry, 6 Sigma
Skill Practice – Pairs
 Using the learnings from this module
please set one goal for yourself
 In pairs please see if the statements
satisfy the SMART format
20 minutes
Action Plan
• What do you need to
start doing?Start
• What do you need to
stop doing?Stop
• What do you need to
continue?Continue
Watch Yourself – Others
do!!
 Watch your thoughts, they become words,
 Watch your words, they become actions,
 Watch your actions, they become habits,
 Watch your habits, they become character,
Watch your character
for it becomes your destiny
People remember us not
by what we consumed
But by what we
contributed
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Achieving your life goal

  • 2. Your Challenges  Please list the top 3 challenges that you face or will face in your immediate future  What is your strategy to overcome them? Because only ‘Overcomers’ are rewarded Others become statistics 20 minutes
  • 3. The ‘Winning’ Attitude Because the mind is where it starts
  • 5. Window of Opportunity  In the life of every man and woman comes a time when they have a unique opportunity to make an impact and influence others.  To succeed we need to anticipate, prepare and act with courage when it opens Once the window closes, your life is over Even if you remain alive
  • 7. The Essential Truth  Living life is about making choices:  Choosing to be a “Victim”  Or choosing to be a “Master”  Both stances are subject to the same givens of society, environment, organization etc.  But have very different implications in terms of your development and happiness
  • 8. The Price of Success  Success always has a price.  Most people don’t succeed because they are not ready to pay that price  Because 1. They have not defined ‘success’ 2. They have not chosen to pay its price What’s the price of your success?
  • 9. Ask Yourself  What is your definition of success?  What investment will you need to make?  Are you ready to make the investment? Focus on the expected gains
  • 10. 4, Drivers of Failure And their solutions
  • 11. 1. Complacency  “Good enough, never is”  Create the ‘phantom competitor’  Create Big Scary Goals It is the nature of the extraordinary goal to inspire extraordinary effort
  • 12. 2. Aiming low  “Satisfaction is directly proportional to the degree of difficulty in reaching the goal.”  Nobody rises to low expectations  Compare with your own potential, not with others who may make you look good Nobody knows the best that they can do
  • 13. Losers compare with others. Winners are too busy beating their own goals
  • 14. 3. Excuses and blaming  Stop blaming others for your situation  Analyze what went wrong and create a plan to avoid it in the future.  Being objective, even hard, on yourself is the best way to avoid repeating mistakes. What mistake will you not repeat?
  • 16. 4. Worship of the Self  Sloth, laziness, unwilling to take hardship, seeking instant gratification, seeking pleasure & avoiding the pain of learning  The surest sign of emotional maturity is to move from ‘like’ to ‘right’.  The highest form of pleasure is to give We are our own worst enemies
  • 17. Please reflect  Which long term goal are you sacrificing for short term pleasure? Believe me, a day will come when you will regret it
  • 18. So what to do? Tools for self development
  • 19. Planning  Specific  Measurable  Achievable  Result Focused  Time Bound Plan but be flexible
  • 20. Performance  Focus on performing your current job and deliver more than expected.  Develop a reputation for delivering results beyond expectations  It is okay to talk about career development but secondary to how you perform your current job.  The one who contributes most is heard first Only results build credibility
  • 21. Expertise  Get recognition as an expert in your area. Then look for opportunities to apply your expertise in a broader context.  Learn the language of finance. It is the language of business.  Be prepared to accept the more 'problematic' and inconvenient job and to offer to help others. Trust = Expertise + Willingness to help
  • 22. Ownership  Track your career and make your own development plan  Like a professional athlete, make a habit of constant self improvement  Never whine. Ask how you can change things. Others can give advice but only you can implement it
  • 23. Challenges & Visibility  Take the hard job. Err on the side of the bigger challenge. Play ‘offence’ with your career. But be brave, not stupid  Seek out assignments with visibility, but recognize that it cuts both ways  Be sensible. If you fail, you will not be rewarded for trying. Ensure a 70% chance to win Leadership = Visibility + Credibility
  • 24. Mentors & Role Models  Seek feedback. Don’t be defensive. Be thankful.  Listen carefully. Take notes. Take your own decisions  Treat the relationship seriously. The one who is afraid of feedback Is afraid of development
  • 25. Build a network of supporters  Don’t judge people of other cultures by your standards and value systems  Be willing to share information and talk about your own culture so others learn  Ask questions but with sensitivity to local manners Be willing to learn and help
  • 28. What is your Life’s Goal?  Today is your last working day and you are retiring. There is a farewell party for you and a friend of yours is giving a speech about you and your achievements  What would you like to hear in that speech? How do you want to be remembered?
  • 29. Techniques for Life Goal  Imagine someone is delivering your eulogy or farewell speech on your retirement day. What would you like to hear?  Imagine your picture on the cover of your favorite magazine. Write a caption for it.  Think of those things in your past which gave you the most pleasure. Recall the incidents in as much detail as possible. What did you do? What happened? Why did you enjoy it? This will point you in the direction of your life goal
  • 30. Time Activity 5.30 6.00 6.30 7.00 7.30 8.00 8.30 Record what you do every half hour for the whole day Time Log
  • 31. Effective Time Actual Time – Maintenance Time = Available Time Available time used in Life Goal = Effective Time (E T) Is this enough to achieve your Life Goal?
  • 32. Maximize Effective Time 1. Prioritize: Effort versus Impact 2. Delegate: Urgent versus Important 3. Learn to say the magic word: “No.” Productivity is directly proportional to ET
  • 33. IMPACT 20% of what you do, produces 80% of the results INVESTMENT Waste Hard Work Do if you have to Leverage
  • 34. The 3 x 3 rule 1. Everyday make a list of 3 activities you need to do in order of priority according to impact. 2. Then start on the 1st and continue until you finish it. If you are interrupted, go back to it and complete it. Then go on to the next. 3. If any are left over, re-write the list the next day in the same way.
  • 36. The magic word – “No!” Develop Assertiveness: “Self expression through which one stands up for one’s rights without violating the rights of others.”
  • 37. How to say ‘No!’ 1. Develop a reputation for being goal focused 2. Never ‘drop-in’ on anyone without notice 3. Never ‘Forward’ chain emails. Delete the ones you receive, unread. And tell everyone that you do this. Make punctuality an obsession
  • 38. Who is smart?  You or your phone?  https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2017/0 4/27/well/family/27well_phone.html  What is your score and what do you intend to do about it? Smart phones and stupid people – recipe for disaster
  • 39. Friends  Remind you of the Hereafter  You learn something new every time  You can confidently introduce them to your parents Your can’t afford those that don’t fit this model
  • 40. In the Final Analysis 1. Remember it is not about Time at all. 2. It is about Life. Your Life
  • 42.
  • 43. What to do?  Strengthen positive forces (Enablers)  Remove negative forces (Inhibitors)  Removing negative forces is more important than strengthening positive forces because there is an internal push towards good in all of us
  • 45. Locus of Control ‘Concept of Internal Control – Development of a New Scale’ Hanna Levenson, American Psychological Association, 1982 Questionnaire by : Prof. Udai Pareek, IIMA
  • 46. Disclaimer  Psychometric instruments are not an assessment of you but your own assessment of yourself  Scores indicate trends and are not exact  Scoring depends on frame of mind  They are meant to begin exploration, not conclude Validate scores with your own real-life data
  • 47. Internal  > or = 33  32 – 29  28 – 22  21 – 18  < or = 17 External Others  > or = 30  29 – 21  20 – 17  < 17 External Chance  < 10  VERY HIGH  HIGH TRUST IN SELF  LOW TRUST  VERY LOW CONFIDENCE  DYSFUNCTIONAL DEPENDENCE  REALISTIC DEPENDENCE  INDEPENDENCE  REBELLION  POSSIBLE PROBLEMS IN COPING Scoring
  • 48. Where is the control point of your success? What is Locus of Control?
  • 49. Strengths 1. High confidence in self and ability to influence others, career, relationships, happiness, fulfillment 2. Belief that you can control yourself, others and situations Cautions 1. Need to control, others feel trampled, low empowering, listening, empathy, low need to collaborate or help others 2. If failure: Blaming, guilt, self-punishment, unrealistic drop in confidence Any strength maximized, is a weakness Internal Locus of Control
  • 50. I (Internal Locus of Control)  A score of 28 to 18 indicates that the individual lacks such self-trust and needs to examine his or her strengths by using feedback from others.  A low score (17 or less) in this area represents little self-confidence and could hinder a person from utilizing his or her potential. 50
  • 51. Strengths 1. High willingness to follow, obey orders, loyalty, good team player, realistic dependence 2. Works in a stable environment where rules are known & leadership lines are clear Cautions 1. Helplessness, confusion, frustration when needs not met because leadership takes you for granted, playing politics 2. Unrealistic dependence, high stress, low empowerment, blame game Take back your remote External Locus of Control
  • 52.  A score of 29 to 21 reflects a realistic dependence on supervisors, peers, and subordinates.  A score of 20 to 17 shows an independence orientation and a score below 17 indicates counter dependence or rebellion. EO (External Others)
  • 53. Do 1. They are not you, so they need more strokes than you 2. Be aware of what you say and do it thoughtfully Don’t 1. Treat them like you would like to be treated 2. Take them for granted Managing Externality They can become highly productive
  • 54. External Chance 1. Believe that what happens is controlled by non-human forces – luck, stars, fate 2. Often a copout strategy 3. Cultural, religious beliefs 1. Be cautious 2. Ask questions respectfully 3. Don’t argue or try to push your beliefs 4. Help them to see how they can influence their success – ‘stars favor the brave’ Cross-cultural sensitivity is critical
  • 55. Home work  Reflect on the implications of your score on the achievement of your vision.  What changes, if any do you believe you need to make in order to succeed?  What are the implications of your current scores on personal stress, frustration, energy and the ability to collaborate with and energize others? 55
  • 56. Going forward  Some of the attributes that got you to this point in your success will continue to be assets in your role as a business leader  Some will have to change 56 What can you leverage? What must you change?
  • 57. 3 questions for today…  Where are you today?  Where do you want to be tomorrow?  How are you going to get there? 57 Success is directly proportional to clarity
  • 58. Where do you want to go? How do you know if you are headed right? Goal Setting
  • 59. “Being” & “Doing” Goals  ‘Being’ Goal  “I want to be the head of the organization.”  ‘Doing’ Goal  “I want to create and share a vision that will take this company to the Fortune 100 list.” To do you don’t have to be Unless you do you will never be
  • 60. SMART Goals  Specific  Measurable  Actionable  Realistic  Time bound
  • 61. Gaining Commitment  What is the goal?  Write it down clearly  Why should it be done?  Understand how it impacts globally  What’s in it for me?  Understand its significance for yourself
  • 62. Roadmap & Beyond  How do I know that I am on track?  Create a Roadmap with Milestones  By when should it be done?  Set time frames for completion  Celebrate small successes “If you want to know what someone values, see what they measure.” ~ Mikel Harry, 6 Sigma
  • 63. Skill Practice – Pairs  Using the learnings from this module please set one goal for yourself  In pairs please see if the statements satisfy the SMART format 20 minutes
  • 64. Action Plan • What do you need to start doing?Start • What do you need to stop doing?Stop • What do you need to continue?Continue
  • 65. Watch Yourself – Others do!!  Watch your thoughts, they become words,  Watch your words, they become actions,  Watch your actions, they become habits,  Watch your habits, they become character, Watch your character for it becomes your destiny
  • 66. People remember us not by what we consumed But by what we contributed
  • 67. For thoughts & questions www.yawarbaig.com