3. In fact it is the most powerful
thing in the world.
4. Can create war on one side and
can lead to love on another.
5. Love and hate which are two sides
of the coin ….. Depends on one
thing only ….and that is voice or
human voice to be precise!!
So come along and learn ….
12. Gossiping…
If someone is saying bad things about someone.
Tomorrow they can talk about you too… BE
CAREFUL ! Avoid gossip at all
costs.
13. STOP JUDGING
Try and listen to others with a neutral
perspective and
stop judging them .
Respecttheir perspective in life.
14. NEGATIVITY..
Avoid conversation that are too
negative for your own good…have a
positive outlook on your life
and it will reflect in your conversations
and the way you speak.
17. lying
Not telling the truth and lying , exaggerating whatever you
want to say can make you a non reliant speaker and hence
someone who nobody listens to.
18. DOGMATISM
The best things in the world – the best ideas, the best movements, the
best innovations – often become corrupted with dogma and lose their
appeal to people.
Dogma shuts off listening. And listening is a uniquely important skill.
What is the point of interacting with another human being if you
are not going to listen?
19. Therefore it is important to STOP
committing to these sins and try and
have better conversations to help
people listen better and you to speak
better and bring in change..
20. Now coming to the
FOUNDATIONS
to stand on and improve your
conversations with people.
21. Follow the H. A. I. L. Model.
Question is
What is H. A. I. L. ????
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Be honest in
your opinions
Be authentic and
genuine in whatever
you have to say.
Integrity means be
your word .
Wish them well
comes under
love. Show love
and care in
whatever you
speak.
23. The TOOL BOX
This will help in taking care of those little things that
affect conversations to a large extent.
24. REGISTER- more the depth more the power
TIMBRE- sound more humble and soft while conversing.
PROSODY- do not have same tone for anything that you want
to speak.
PACE- try and keep the pace regular , REMEMBER silence is not
bad!
PITCH- try and regulate your pitch .
VOLUME- volume s of utmost importance . Remember do not
IMPOSE!
26. REMEMBER …. The GOAL is that
when you are SPEAKING people
are LISTENING in an environment
wherein change is required or that
is actually fit for its purpose.
27. IMAGINE…
the stage when sound is created consciously
and listening is done consciously which helps to
design environment consciously .
This will give us a beautiful world.
Where UNDERSTANDING WILL BE THE NORM!!
28. RECAP…
TO SPEAK POWERFULLY AVOID THE SEVEN SINS OF DEADLY SPEAKING !
FOLLOW THE FOUNDATIONS OF H.A.I.L. WHILE YOU SPEAK
AND WARM UP YOUR VOICE !!!