The document provides etiquette guidelines for various situations including meetings, visiting cards, email, cell phone use, dining, dress code, and washroom etiquette. Some key points covered include arriving on time for meetings, paying attention to speakers, using formal greetings in emails, keeping cell phone conversations brief and discreet, avoiding messy or noisy eating behaviors, dressing appropriately and professionally for occasions, and maintaining cleanliness in washrooms. The document offers etiquette tips across multiple contexts to make a positive impression and avoid offenses or embarrassment.
2. What is etiquette?
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Good behavior specific to a group
Customs acceptable to society
Code of inoffensive conduct
How you talk, walk and behave
Treating people respectfully
3. Why etiquette?
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For a positive impression
To avoid embarrassment to people
Speaks of your upbringing
At a minimum, unfavorable impression
At worst, may cost a friendship or job
Serious breach could cost life
5. Meeting Manners
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Be seated before time
Be a good listener. Focus and be alert
Avoid all movement and distraction
Don’t fiddle, don’t yawn
Switch off phones, don’t take calls
Avoid chewing gum & littering
6. Invocation & Anthem
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Stand to attention
Remain standing throughout
Be accurate & rhythmic
Feel pride
Stay focused
7. Addressing Dignitaries
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ONLY Chief Guest and Presiding Officer will
address all
Others should address Presiding Officer only
Others SHOULD NOT address everyone
8. Respect the Guest
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Pay attention to the speaker
Moral obligation to be orderly
Do not cross talk
Don’t interrupt or argue
Questions only if invited
9. Mementoes
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Mementoes are memories (not
awards, not gifts)
Award is for merit, shawl for honor
Avoid whenever possible
Better give unwrapped
Avoid garlands
12. Visiting Card Etiquette
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Be unique - extension of your personality
Avoid fake designations, stylish fonts
Keep neat and tidy, know where they are
Give politely
Use discretion - whom to give
Acquiring contact information is better
14. Netiquette
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Be simple, precise, concise
Format, justify and edit the text (font, style, paragraphs)
Avoid all caps (considered rude and loud)
Use bullet-points when necessary
Use cc, bcc, reply all carefully
Use a crisp, useful and relevant subject line
Start and close with formal greetings
16. Cell Phone Etiquette
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Begin and end with a greeting
Check if it is appropriate time
Be pleasant in tone; be crisp and clear
Avoid disturbing others (meetings, theatres, funerals, cabs)
Silence your phone, use instant text
Don’t speak with something in mouth
Make sure you are ready
18. Priority to the disabled, the aged & guests
Maintain line and wait for your turn
Do not load up your plate
Move away from the counter
Do not waste food
Leave soiled plates in proper place
Dining Etiquette
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19. Use appropriate crockery, cutlery
Eat without making a mess, without noise
Do not clean teeth / mouth with fingers
Move away for burping, sneezing
Don’t stare at someone else’s plate
Avoid phone calls
Dining Etiquette
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21. Dress Etiquette - Men
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Wear appropriate, comfortable, professional
Prefer full sleeves shirt tucked into trousers
Suit with a silk tie, leather belt for formal occasions
Wear what looks good on you, clean and ironed
Wear elegant colours like black, blue, brown, grey
Make sure the colours are well coordinated
22. Dress Etiquette - Men
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Shave daily, trim beard, moustache
Use a mild perfume for body odour
Use a mouthwash, or mouth freshener
Avoid shorts, T-shirts, sleeveless, rolled up sleeves
Avoid noisy shoes, sports shoes, sneakers
23. Dress Etiquette - Women
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Wear appropriate, comfortable, professional
Avoid revealing, transparent clothes
Western - light coloured shirts with dark well fitted trousers
Indian – saree with an elegant blouse or dress
Avoid heavy jewellery, too much make up
Trim nails and prefer nail paint in natural shades
25. Washroom Etiquette - Men
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Keep the toilet seat and the floor dry
Stand close to the seat to avoid dripping
Use flush once you are done
Do not spit on walls
Don’t take much time, avoid phones
Use antiseptic soap or sanitizer
26. Washroom Etiquette - Women
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Sit on the toilet seat while peeing
Use flush once you are done
Call the toilet attendant for any help
Sanitary napkins to be wrapped and disposed in
dustbins, not in commode
Conserve water
Etiquette is essential for an everlasting first impression. The way you interact with your superiors, parents, fellow workers, friends speak a lot about your personality and up- bringing.
It is essential for an individual to behave in a responsible manner acceptable to the society. People around us must not feel embarrassed by our behaviour. One should not behave irrationally or illogically in public.
The consequences of lapses in etiquette may vary. At a minimum, someone might feel slightly awkward, and the people present at the time of the lapse might form an unfavourable impression of the offender. At worst, a lapse could cost a friendship or a job, and in some regions of the world, a serious breach could cost you your life.
Always keep your cell phone on the silent or vibrator mode. Cell phones ringing in the middle of meetings and seminars are considered rude and unprofessional.
Listen to what others have to say. Wait for your turn to speak.
Make sure emails are self explanatory. The other person should understand your views and ideas.
Don’t use capital letters in emails unless and until it is the first alphabet of a word. Emails written in all capitals are considered rude and loud.
Be crisp. Never ever deviate from the actual topic.
The subject line ought to be meaningful and relevant. Help quickly know what is written in the email.
Start your mail with formal greetings.
Format your emails correctly. Justify your text. Break the complete message into short paragraphs with equal spaces in between. Use bullets -points wherever required.
Keep all related members in loop. Do mark a blind copy to your reporting boss for him to know what you are up to?
Take care of your font style and size. Official emails should ideally be written in Arial style with a font size of twelve. Emails written in various colours and designer styles are considered unprofessional and childish.
Make sure you reply to all your mails.
Don’t add members just for the sake of it.
Don’t send mails to individuals who have nothing to do with your information. It is a sheer waste of yours as well as their time.
Take care of spelling errors, punctuation marks and grammar. Wrong spellings irritate the readers.
Be polite and soft in your communication.
Avoid using short forms or abbreviations in official mails.
The mail meant for a particular individual should be marked only to him. Do not mark anyone else in bcc.
Use words like “regards”, “thanks”, “yours sincerely” to close your mails.
Avoid attaching heavy files to your mail.
In any official call, don’t use words like” Any guess who I am? Always say “Is it Ted?”, and do ask him, “Is it the good time to talk to you?” and then start communicating. If the person sounds busy always wait for the appropriate time.
Make sure your content is crisp and relevant. Don’t play with words, come to the point directly and convey the information in a convincing manner. First prepare your content thoroughly and then only pick up the receiver to start interacting.
Always speak each and every word clearly. The person on the other hand can’t see your expressions so remember your tone should be apt to express your feelings in the correct form.
Don’t take too long to pick up any call. If you miss the call, make sure you give a call back
Decrease the volume of the television or turn off the speakers while speaking
Silk ties look best on professionals. The tie should neither be too short nor too long. The tip of the tie ideally should touch the bottom of the belt buckle. Slim ties are not meant for offices.
Wear leather belts to work preferably in black or brown shades. Do not wear belts with flashy and broad buckles.
Don’t wear shoes that make noise while walking. Prefer soft leather shoes in black or brown colour. Make sure your shoes are polished and laces properly tied. Never wear sports shoes or sneakers to work.
Shave daily. Use a good after shave lotion and make sure your skin does not look dry and flaky.
Body odour is a big turn off. One must always smell good in public. Use a mild perfume or deodorant.
Avoid wearing outfits which expose much of your body parts. Wear clothes which fit you best.
Understand the basic difference between a party wear and office attire. Never wear low neck blouses to work. Blouses with deep back or noodle straps are a strict no no at the workplace.
Never leave the restroom dirty. Smelly toilets are big turn offs.
Lock the door carefully when you are inside.
If someone is inside, don’t peep under the doors or knock endlessly. Wait for the other person to come out.
Female employees should avoid carrying their handbags inside the washroom. Do not carry expensive items to the restroom.
Make sure you do not wet the toilet seat. Do not throw water on the floor as someone might slip and get hurt.
Females should always sit on the toilet seat while peeing. Male employees should always stand a little close to the toilet seat to avoid dripping.
Never forget to use flush once you are done. Check the toilet seat for unwanted stains or substance. Do not hesitate to call the toilet attendant if the flush is not working.
Make it a point to wash your hand with an antiseptic soap or sanitizer every time you use the restroom. Use a tissue paper to wipe off hands.
Do not spit on walls. It is absolutely childish to write names or make designs on toilet walls.
Don’t take much time inside the restroom. One should avoid taking hand phones inside the washroom.
Make sure you do not throw anything in the commode. Tissue paper must be thrown inside the dustbin and not anywhere else. Sanitary napkins must be wrapped in polybags and disposed in dustbins.
Do not leave the restroom with taps on. It is important to conserve water.
One should not smoke inside the office toilet. It leads to suffocation.
Make sure you turn on the exhaust fan once you are inside the toilet. Do not forget to switch off the lights and exhaust fan when you leave the restroom.
Do not throw unwanted hair or soap wrappers in the washbasin. Keep the soap inside the soap case.